For the boys: First time sex?

Question

So while us girls clearly remember and form an attachment with the first guy we ever sleep with, I've heard and read mixed things from guys. So here's what I want to know; do you clearly remember the first girl you had sex with? And do you still feel anything for her?

If you broke up with her, do you still sometimes remember the sexual times you shared? Whether thats on purpose or not.

rookster6173 · Accepted Answer

I can't speak for all men, but I certainly did. I think it depends on the context. My first was with my high school sweetheart, and we dated for over two years before we split. We lost our virginity to each other, and we will always share that connection. Although we don't really talk much, we're still friends years later, and I don't think that will ever change. We had sex quite frequently, and because we were emotionally involved as well, it was that much more special, at least to me. I do think about the times we spent together every once in a while, so those feelings are still there to an extent.

I think if a man doesn't feel anything for his first, its because there wasn't an emotional attachment prior to or following the sex, and therefore he doesn't have an emotion to make it stick in his head. One night stands and such can make it less special, which makes it more difficult or less special so we don't remember the details or see a need to remember it. Also, if the sex sucked, it may not get our attention.

Hope this helps!

SocksRUs · Accepted Answer

Yes, I remember her very well. It's 21 years ago and we still keep in touch on a loose basis, as she is married with two kids and I'm single with none. I haven't seen her face to face or slept with her for 15 years, and we were only a couple for little over a year when we were both 14. We always had chemistry, but we had different life goals, so I wish her the best. Would bang her again as an affair if she wanted, but the marriage is too fresh for her to want that, I believe, lol.

whatdoumeandammit · Accepted Answer

I did not form an attachment.

iamDennis · Answer

Yes, it was my first and only girlfriend because I'm choosy af, and I still remember the good times we had (including sex). We broke up and everything is fine, I think she was the perfect partner to have sex with for the first time. That probably sounds like I wasn't over her but I actually am, haha.

ryancg · Answer

I definitely remember my first time. And despite not having spoken to her in forever, I do still think about her sometimes, the feelings aren't exactly the same as they once were, but I still care about her and wonder how she's doing. She'll always be my first.

andyyzzs · Answer

Yes there will be an attachment.. Its like dream come true when we fuck a girl for first after seeing a lot of porn movies and implementing there and the fresh vagina is usually tight af. We try hard to put it thinking to fuck like porn star but that never happens at the first . Next is the bleeding part of pussy where both get afraid and again few minutes later start digging the pussy 😍

Andrewpandy · Answer

I still have a connection to all my exs
Feels dont just disappear, even if its a bad break up there is always great moments (not all sexual) that i will always remember
doesn't need to just be the first

mattLB1993 · Answer

I remember the girl I lost my virginity to, I clearly remember how i felt and what we did. I have an attachment to her but I don't feel anything for her anymore. My attachment is one of regret for losing my virginity too soon to someone

Ragnarok689 · Answer

The sex did not cause an attachment at the end of the day due to learning it did not mean nearly as much to me as it did to her, as it happened initially, yes very meaningful and important. Later observance changes the initial experience.

Jan_Classic · Answer

We remember all the sexual contacts with all the partners. However, the first one we'd rather forget =D

wankiam · Answer

i remember the first girl i had sex with... it was at a party and i was with another girl within the hour

jersos1 · Answer

I never had sex before. So I want to lose my virginity with a lovely girl who would understand me and be with me selflessly. I would love her and make her feel special!

Spacepope · Answer

i remember i said "i pull out we need no condom" but at the end i just came inside her lol but i dont remember the girl itself. maybe she was blonde. I don't know.

Meninist · Answer

I remember it vividly, but I never loved her and she didn’t love me.

HarleyRider21 · Answer

Remember it completely. She dumped me right after. And no definitely no attachement or connection to her.

Bobby95 · Answer

Yea I'll always remember the first girl I had sex with even I remember all of what she looked like naked

jon28805 · Answer

The first, and only, girl I had sex with was my ex girlfriend so, yeah, I had feelings for her and I’ll always remember her as my first.

livinglife72 · Answer

Yes I remember the first girl I ever slept with and no I do not feel anything for her but I do think of the sex we had

eggnog579 · Answer

No. I remember it more. Because it is the first, buy its not special

avdb44 · Answer

Yes and yes, was my first proper relationship and I really miss her.

Seppelson · Answer

I don't know how she looks and I don't have feeling for her

JackD1984 · Answer

Yes I remember my first time

Stan_Control_ · Answer

I... AM... A VIRGINNN!!!

tommy323 · Answer

I think the first is always something special

Anonymous · Answer

She was some bitch I knew.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes it was my wife of almost 24 years.

iliketurtles1997 · Answer

Never gone that far

Rhishu · Answer

Yeah

krrish12 · Answer

Im virgin here

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