What are the signs of an immature girl?

[Anonymous]

please list at least 10

[KERMlT]

1. does not consider consequences of actions, blames others

2. shirks responsibility--won't take care of chores or things which need done. too busy playing/partying. prioritizes fun above actual goals.

3. is more concerned with own goals and themselves than anyone else--does not consider where others fit into the plan, or views them as accessories. this is only immature if you aren't single or have a family.

4. fears change, or lacks courage/balls in general

5. easily influenced by others and changes themselves to please other people, hung up on approval of others

6. ignores problems or blows them off instead of dealing with them and coming up with a solution

7. doesn't take jobs, relationships, or daily activities, or even other people(yeah, let's just put nothing) seriously

8. places great importance on trivial/superficial matters, materialistic

9. can't stand to not get their way and will throw a little fit(get angry and whine) if other people disagree with them or try to strike a compromise or if what they want isn't possible

10. constantly does things to get attention, insecure or egotistical, cannot take criticism, praises self or demands praise from others

11. more concerned with short-term gratification than long-term satisfaction

12. manipulates other people to get what they want, lies

13. more focused on a fantasy world than the her-and-now, real world. does not make any plans for anything.

14. lets other people make decisions for them, or lets other people take over

these are some of the things

15. still plays hard to get and other head games.

16. if you pull out and unload she acts like your semen weighs 150 lbs and can't move.

17. uses a lot of double standards

18. asks questions like "if I move in with you, would you get mad if I start dating someone else?"

[Brando]

Lmao @ number 16

[darkknight1x]

1) Narrow-minded.

2) Dresses like a slut.

3) Drinks a lot of alcohol.

4) Parties on a regular basis.

5) Has a difficult time making up her mind most times.

6) Cares a lot about what other people think about her.

7) Gets drunk in public.

8) Can't seem to go a whole week without yelling.

9) Gets a lot of fake tans.

10) She smokes.

[Tigerlily]

Forgive me for being blunt, but if you don't know an immature girl when you see one, you're not mature enough to deserve a more mature one.

I don't mean that as a dig at you; it goes for all of us. Sometimes you hear girls talking about how all men are jerks and they all cheat and they all do this/that/whatever and then they go 'I want a guy who respects women!' I mean, seriously. This is someone who doesn't respect the opposite sex, demanding someone who respects the opposite sex.

I think it's the same whatever quality you're looking for. You want someone mature, but you need to be mature to deserve that. Otherwise how would you keep her interested? Surely she wants to know that you're a mature guy.

Also consider that different people will have different ideas of what's 'mature' and 'immature' - quite appropriately, seeing as it's a 79.4yr process (78.2 if you're American. Sorry guys!) and people mature at horrifically different rates. I say horrifically, because I've known pre-teens who act more mature than certain people almost twice their age and fully-grown 'adults' who act like little kids.

It's not an exact science, and I don't think you can just 'list at least 10' and go out to look for them. Think about girls you've known in the past who you consider to be immature (and guys - eliminating the gender barrier will help you to pick up on various traits a lot more easily) and think about the ones you consider to be mature (again, guys too) and trust your gut. As an example, going by averages - you may consider a 30-year-old woman to be mature (seeing as you're 18-24) but a 45-year-old man may see her as childish.

If all else fails, remember that being a kid is fun!

[toulouse]

I think the same things that make an immature guy - doesn't really matter what's between your legs to discern immaturity.

Lacks can't be accountability & reason.

scapegoats / blames others before looking at there own actions

projects / attacks others before accepting responsibility for their actions.

avoids discussions.

cant talk about anything, not about them for more than 5 minutes.

wil only be there for you if there is something in it for them.

need proof you are worth getting to know before getting to know you.

presumptuous.

uses stereotypes/preconceived notions to explain situations instead of examining what's actually going on.

cant distinguish past from present

distorts history to support current argument -which changes w/e they are exposed.

un accepting of any thing different/ I e dislikes other cultures / customs / traditions simply because they are different.

closed minded.

wont look in to things they don't know.

argues based on emotion not reason.

wont consider others emotions -which may be different than their own

dishonest.

lazy.

very dependent on material goods.

cant function without electronics for more than an hour.

cant cook for themselves.

doesn't know how to shop fort healthy food.

afraid of having an opinion that might be different from other people.

afraid their friends opinions or views will embarrass them.

cant travel- mental block.

no desire ro learn about other people.

cant talk about feelings - or won't try.

cant talk about sex- or won't try.

(& of course/ racist /sexist / prejudiced in w/e form )

[Albinoninja66]

Almost none of those show immaturity...

[selfishstars]

toulougave a perfect answer, but I'll add a few more:

- clingy - needs to be in constant contact with you and to know where are you, what you're doing, and who you're with at all times, gets upset when you're doing anything that doesn't involve you

- insecure - gets upset if you even look or talk to another girl; tries to put limits on who you can hang out with or talk to; checks your email, facebook, internet history, and cellphone

- unable to commuicate - expects you to be able to read her mind and know what's bothering her; cries or goes silent when you're trying to talk about something so you're never able to work out your problems

- talks to other people about problems in your relationship more than she talks to you about them

- reads into everything you say or do as something negative toward her

- turns everything into a game - instead of being upfront or just accepting things at your word, she expects you to "chase" her and "prove" that you love her

- holds you to different standards than she holds herself

- reacts based on emotions rather than looking at something logically

- closed-minded and unwilling to consider differing points of views

- distorts reality to better suit her needs

- cares too much about superficial and material things

- divides things into "male roles" versus "female roles"- thinks a guy should always make the first move, pay for everything, deal with all the "hard stuff" or complicated things

- won't take the initiative to learn how to do things for herself, but instead expects other people to do things for her; or just says "it's too hard" and gives up

[abel385]

A few of the point you mentioned here ar bang on target for my ex.

- clingy (i couldn't go to friends, football matches or a festival without her feeling left out)
- insecure (she was but I helpd her a lot with it)
- unable to commuicate (happende the last two months didn't talk at all about what was bothering her)
- reacts based on emotions rather than looking at something logically
- closed-minded and unwilling to consider differing points of views (Didn't accept help from others with learning language and sorting things for immigration)
- distorts reality to better suit her needs (She wanted to live in New Zealand later and adopt the first child)

So yes I think these points suited her the best.
Next time I hope to find someone more mature.

I should've reaslised this months before.

[the_cheshire_cat]

Anything anyone lists will be their own personal views of what immaturity is. Not what 'IS', ya know?

What are 10 signs you associate with an immature girl?

i'm not sure I can list 10, however I'll give a go with my thoughts.

* She like, talks like, there is some like, shortage of the word, like... like ya know?

* Referrs to guys as 'Cootie Carriers'.

* Has more Hello Kitty and Barbie items then the girls aisle at Toys R Us.

* Calls her father 'daddy'.

* Cries when you call her 'bad names'.

* Has never had a stable relationship.

[missymoo]

Um, who wouldn't cry if their boyfriend called them a slut or whore? Those are what I consider 'bad names' and its not cause their immature, its cause its disrespectful, and makes you feel like sh*t..

[the_cheshire_cat]

I wouldn't cry. I would become upset, and want to discuss the reason why he would be saying such things.

Sticks and stones and all that.

[Killfest400]

Of course, if your boyfriend is calling you a slut or a whore, then you're probably dating an immature guy.

[NotSoBad]

1.Saying like, like so many times like totally doesn't make like a girl like immature. it makes them like.... totally bad at speech and stuff.

2. ha if some 24 year old girl said I was a cootie carrier.. she has more problems than being immature.

3. Hello Kitty and Barbie? ha come on now... people shouldn't just abandon their youth.

4. I really don't think if a girl calls her "father" "Daddy" that makes her immature. It's just what she has called him and always will call him.

[NotSoBad]

5. Calling a girl bad names is immature. If she cries its because she knows she with an immature man.

6. If she hasn't had a stable relationship... that's a little broad. It might not be her fault, but I'll give ya the benefit of the doubt.... maybe it is and she keeps picking the wrong guys.

[BlueEyedBeauty17]

I'll make this short for you,

1)overly giddy and giggly

2)expects you to make the first move

3)plays games with your mind

4)gossips about everything

5)seeks attention

6)acts stupid for attention

7)puts others down to make herself seem better

8)very clingy and needy

9)talks about your relationship with her friends

10)loud and abnoxious

There you go:)

[SmoothBlue17]

True, she is right on target

[Anonymous]

age matters in this because you're maturity level grows as you get older and have life experiences that shape you and give you perspective. So an immature 17 year old might not be the same kind of immature you'll find with an immature 25 year old. You can understand some of the immaturity you'll find with a 17 year old and know they'll grow out of it where as with a 25 year old girl if she's immature then she'll probably remain that way maybe into her 30's and maybe forever lol

[JerichoX]

I've been with girls who are almost 30 and act like they're still in high school. It's not the girl per se, but how she's raised.

[sinful1620]

1. Loves to go clubbing/barhopping/dancing

2. Watches shows like Jersey Shore, One Tree Hill, the Kardashian Sisters show, etc

3. Doesn't masturbate

4. Thinks blowjobs are gross

5. Wears too much pink

that's all I got

[cutekid]

She acts so shy and uncomfortable when she's around u..

[Anonymous]

girls who talks about nonsense