What does it mean if a guy checks up on a girl when she’s sick?

[Anonymous]

So I got really sick with my guy friend and couldn’t finish breakfast. He later text me asking if I was okay. The next day I told him I couldn’t meet up because I couldn’t eat anything. He then said how I seriously needed to eat something. Then offered places to take me. I promised him I’d eat later and he keep on pushing me to eat and take care of myself. Sooo is this normal guy behavior for his friend?

[Anonymous]

Yeah it’s normal behaviour for a guy friend that cares about you. It doesn’t necessarily mean he wants to be with you, it could but you need more signs than just that.

[Asker]

So I just text him thanks for being so kind and he said “Then date me hoochie”

[Opinion Owner]

Aww that’s sweet, he doesn’t like you then. Enjoy!

[Opinion Owner]

*Does - sorry that was autocorrect

[Asker]

K. So he’s definitely interested in me by that I guess. No way it’s a joke? Cause he talks about hot girls all the time

[Opinion Owner]

Hmmm it’s hard to tell, it could be either but he is attracted to you I believe. What does your gut tell you?

[Asker]

He’s in love with me lol

[Opinion Owner]

Well then try making some subtle advances and see how he responds 😉

[Night-Owl]

If you are close friends, then this is normal behavior. He cares about you and your health, just as you probably would with a guy friend.

[Asker]

He has said before he could stare at my beautiful face. Lol not sure if that adds to anything?

[Night-Owl]

Perhaps, but it also depends on his personality and hobbies. Artists will often comment about beauty without it holding any deeper meaning. Then again, there is the possibility that he is interested in you.

[Asker]

So I just text him thanks for being so kind and he said “Then date me hoochie”

[Night-Owl]

That is probably expressing actual interest.

[jimyee]

It's normal for an actual friend that cares for you. But it could also mean that he has deeper feelings for you as well.

[Asker]

He has said before he could stare at my beautiful face. Lol not sure if that adds to anything?

[jimyee]

I'm sure it does. He probably "likes" you

[Asker]

So I just text him thanks for being so kind and he said “Then date me hoochie”

[NaultD]

Not a smoking gun to find his intentions of romance, good or bad. A step in that direction but not there all the way.

[Asker]

So I just text him thanks for being so kind and he said “Then date me hoochie”

[NaultD]

My statement still stands

[SirRexington]

He wanted to be their for you but his way of doing it was naive and misinformed. Though he had good intentions. He likes you and was willing to put up with a sick version if you. He obviously feels commitment with you.

[winterfox10]

Well he definitely cares about you, probably as more than a friend, but it's tough to say from just what you have told us.

[Galen01]

This is stuff that anyone who cares about another would do. based on stuff you've said in comments he seems to have feelings for you.

[Asker]

K. So he’s definitely interested in me by that I guess. No way it’s a joke? Cause he talks about hot girls all the time

[Surferguy305]

He really cares about you (most people don't care about others to that extent) and it could be that he has a crush on you.

[Asker]

He has said before he could stare at my beautiful face. Lol not sure if that adds to anything?

[Surferguy305]

Does he smile after and maybe laugh a bit?

[Asker]

He didn’t think I heard. But right after he said “nahhh”

[Surferguy305]

Might not be linked at all. But did he smile or no?

[Asker]

I think? I looked away

[Surferguy305]

If he did then yes he does like you a lot

[Asker]

So I just text him thanks for being so kind and he said “Then date me hoochie”

[Surferguy305]

Reply back ok and call home something equal to "hoochie"

[Surferguy305]

Him*

[Asker]

I think he was trying to mix a joke in there because right after he text “see I’m not kind”

[Surferguy305]

I don't think it's a joke...

[Asker]

But the word date? We already know everything about each other

[Surferguy305]

Dating and knowing everything about a person are not the same thing... And a hoochie by definition is a sexually promiscuous person...

[Asker]

Yes I’m not a hoochie I know he was jokin about that.

What does dating mean to a guy?

[Surferguy305]

Depends on the guy.

[Asker]

What does it mean for you?

[Surferguy305]

Dating is early solo relationship with one person but not living together yet.

[jackmaxim]

Yes if we care bout that friend doesn't necessarily mean we're romantically interested

[Sabretooth]

He cares about you-but he's making a mistake I made... and it costed me. He needs to learn to listen.

[Asker]

Mistake? What?

[Sabretooth]

I didn't listen. I should have-but I couldn't think straight

[Asker]

What were you suppose to listen to?

[Sabretooth]

What her problems were. I knew something was wrong a week before... you'd think that might've prepared me... NOPE!!!

[evank]

if i acted that way it would mean that i care about you as more than a friend.

[Asker]

He has said before he could stare at my beautiful face. Lol not sure if that adds to anything?

[motownplayer2000]

Same thing it would mean when a girl checks on a guy when he's sick. They care about you.

[Anonymous]

So my "guy friend" checks up on me when I'm sick, not "my boyfriend" or the "the guy I have crush on".

Explains all right there.

[Asker]

... help me understand... ps I actually really care for this guy

[Opinion Owner]

help me understand and answer me honestly, do you know if he likes you? Guy friend sounds like "friendzoned friend" to me.

[soupasoup]

Usually no, unless your really close and platonic friends he probably likes you

[ricckkzz]

Of course it's normal. He cares about you. I'm a guy like this

[Anonymous]

His house s probably dirty and he needs her to get back to work cleaning it

[N00dle]

yeah, he's worried sick probably

[Asker]

He has said before he could stare at my beautiful face. Lol not sure if that adds to anything?

[N00dle]

ok, now there's something there definitely, have you ever thought of him as more than a friend because that sounds like he wants you to

[Asker]

I’m engaged lol so no.

[N00dle]

uh oh

I know it might sound awkward but I suppose it could be beneficial if you like kinda made sure he's not getting his hopes up or getting the wrong idea about your friendship

[Asker]

So I just text him thanks for being so kind and he said “Then date me hoochie”

[N00dle]

Wow ok

you need to asses clearly but politely that you are not interested in anything more than friendship

[Asker]

K. So he’s definitely interested in me by that I guess. No way it’s a joke? Cause he talks about hot girls all the time

[N00dle]

yep definitely, make sure he gets you're not into that and if he wants to remain friends he'll understand

[Asker]

Why does he talk about other girls?

[N00dle]

probably because he wants to see how you'll react or to try and make you jealous

[Poppykate]

That he is super sweet! 🍰

[RichardBandit]

Yeah he loves you and all your gross mucus

[BeWithMe]

He cares about you

[Asker]

Like love or what?

[BeWithMe]

Could be, I don't know how deep your relationship is. But when my friends get sick, I get concerned. I want my friends to feel good.

[Asker]

He has said before he could stare at my beautiful face. Lol not sure if that adds to anything?

[BeWithMe]

Sounds like a great guy! You are lucky!

[Asker]

So I just text him thanks for being so kind and he said “Then date me hoochie”

[BeWithMe]

Oh man! Why do guys do that. Why not "hey, when you feel better, would you like to go out with me on a date?"

Sorry

[Asker]

Lol. So does he want to be with me? Or is this all a joke?

[BeWithMe]

I will have hope that he wants to date you. I, personally, don't like his choice in talking with you. But, I am kind of old fashioned

[Asker]

What exactly is date?
Is that the same as a relationship in guy code?

[mrwizard104]

He cares about you

[Asker]

And care means? Love? Like?

[Nice222]

It means he cares.

[Asker]

And care means? Love? Like?

[Nice222]

Oh it can be either love or like. Hard to say.

[Asker]

How to know?

[Nice222]

It really depends on context like if he is a long term friend of coworker it probably just means concerned friend. If it’s more short term friend then it might mean he is into you.

[Asker]

So I just text him thanks for being so kind and he said “Then date me hoochie”

But then I get confused because he will talk about hot chicks

[Nice222]

Yeah he is giving mixed signals not good. Or he is trying to make you jealous.