Girls...do you prefer more "feminine" guys?

[Anonymous]

So yesterday my sister goes "If there was a like a guy that acted gay. but liked girls..all the girls would be all over him."

Just wondering if this is true...I wouldn't call myself strictly masculine of feminine..but I was wondering...would feminizing myself up a bit make me more attractive?

[foreveryoung2010]

No way would I EVER want to date a guy that likes shopping more then me. Or wore tighter jeans, its just kind of creepyy.. or talked in a girly voice and loved to gossip. :P

if mean by becoming more sensitive that's a whole other thing, I'm sure by doing that more girls would go for you. That's about all what good would come out of becoming more feminine!

[ravenlily318]

If by feminizing yourself, you mean not pushing your feelings to the very back of your head and showing some of your emotional side, then I'm all for it. The other categories (that the other two responses mentioned), not so much.

[madiocre]

meh there are probably some feminine things that would be annoying for me because I'm not that feminine myself. It comes down to compatibility and comfort in his own skin rather then trying to be macho or girly...

[hannah15113]

Some girls might like it... but I would never go there! I wouldn't want a guy that for example spends longer doing his hair than me.

[Asker]

Haha...good!if I was a girl..id be a mess...i couldn't handle the upkeep

[lisa16]

I would never go out with a feminine man...men should be men imo...but I'm sure there are girls that would like that look

[Anonymous]

I am usually attracted to guys that are masculine and macho. The only time I've liked a feminine guy that was gay was when I knew him personally and liked him for the inner him.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't want a guy who acts like a stereotypical gay man, I'd be a little insecure as to whether or not he actually wants me or a man. Though I guess I can understand where your sister is coming from, in that gay men usually dress well and care about their appearance a lot. They also don't b*tch like women (at least not the ones I've met) and there's just some sense of safety around them because we know they aren't going to be disgusting and groping us. They're also fantastic listeners. Ha.