What does it mean when a guy saves your chat you sent on Snapchat (18+)?

[Anonymous]

He doesn’t screen shot my snaps but when I send him a message with a pic he will save it. Or sometimes he would save the conversation. I asked him to stop saving our conversation he would say why then I’ll say because i don’t want them to be saved then he’ll say okay but doesn’t unsave them them.

[Anonymous]

Mmmmm I guess he really like what he sees. Tbh even if he told you he unsaved it, he could possibly backed it up already. That is the risk of sending pics of yourself, as guy would always save it. I hope you didn't have you face on them for safety.

[Asker]

I asked him if he showed them to his friends and he said no. But I know he’s not saying the truth because I asked him to unsave my pics and he said yes i unsaved them but there were still there.

[Opinion Owner]

Well, there's not much you can do there. I really hope you didn't have your face on there. Because that way at least is not that easy to prove is you.

[Jrmhtlmnt]

Often times, it's because he forgets what you're talking about. If it is only pics, he's interested in you physically

[Asker]

I am interested in him too. But I hope he doesn’t show them to his friends...

[Jrmhtlmnt]

Interested emotionally or just physically?

[Asker]

I would say both. But for guys I can’t really see it because they’re really good at lying and at hiding things.

[Jrmhtlmnt]

If I may... what was the content of the pics? Or the convos he saved?

[Asker]

They’re 18+

[Jrmhtlmnt]

See if he'd rather FaceTime or video chat for that. It's instant and you can masturbate as you talk like that and if he screenshots, be direct with him... say "delete it or I'm leaving, if you wanna see me, I'm right here" or something similar to that. You deserve to be respected in that way and every other way also

[Asker]

Oh he doesn’t screenshot anything! he just saves our chat. He wanted to FaceTime me but he’s not my boyfriend so I said no.

[Jrmhtlmnt]

But you want him to be... so try it out, if it feels awkward, tell him it's better to go back to friends but the saving has to stop

[Jrmhtlmnt]

Now I'm curious how it goes

[Asker]

He already said “I’m all yours”. But I don’t trust him enough..

[Jrmhtlmnt]

I hate those words.

[Jrmhtlmnt]

I've said them and now I'm having a baby and the mother doesn't want me there. It's all because I had no control over the situation after everything went down. Try not dating and not engaging in sexual conduct if that's how you feel. But be honest, don't just drop him. Let him know you are interested but these are your doubts and just be open and honest.

[Jrmhtlmnt]

And this may be weird but I'm always here if you need to ask about what he may be thinking or just need to vent

[Asker]

I like him more than he likes me. He’s gonna leave me soon I’m sure

[Jrmhtlmnt]

How are you so sure?

[Jrmhtlmnt]

You have standards. Don't lower them for a guy. That's how you know when you find the right one

[Zama6]

He really like you that's why he saves conversations with you. he might read conversations later

[johnmerchant]

Because they are assholes