Do men like bad girls?

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Sheriblossom · Accepted Answer

Correct me if I'm wrong, but I think guys like good girls that have a bad /wild side. Maybe some guys will, but I mean, not many guys want to bring a girl home to meet their parents if she's a smoker, drug addict, alcoholic who doesn't have any ambitions or good values in their life and just sleeps around everywhere and doesn't give a fuck about anything. I think this is one of the most unattractive bad girl examples out there. However you have the total opposite of that; the good girl who doesn't swear, always nice, and respectful, etc. I think guys get the impression those kind of girls are boring (don't like to go on adventures, do exciting stuff, and especially boring in bed! which isn't true all the time). It depends on what the guy is like as well and what he looks for in a partner. I like to think I'm a bit a both, and I strive to have good girl and bad girl qualities depending on the setting. As an example: I read to kids at the library every week, I love cooking, journalling, singing, and art. I don't do drugs, nor drink alcohol. Almost all my friends have never heard me swear in real life. Lots of people think I'm this boring girl who does nothing but school. But I also skateboard and have a bad side that certain people can bring out of me. I haven't had sex nor kissed a guy before, but I am well aware that I know how to flirt and attract guys/ make things sexual if I wanted to. I'm a savage sometimes #canthelpit / find a pleasure in roasting people lmao. I love to prank people and stuff. I love to go on adventures and learn new things. I'm intrigued by parkour, surfing, and other extreme sports. So really 1. depends on the guy 2. depends on their definitions of bad girl/ good girl. I desire the mix of good in bad in a guy as well; a guy that I can introduce to my parents effortlessly and someone I can get wild with if we wanted to ;) hope that helps!

PinkMichae · Accepted Answer

They like us sweet in the streets and naughty in the sheets. Sex is the only time to be a bad girl for him.

Sandeeep · Accepted Answer

Well, I believe its kinda based on a guys personality.
The more dominant or confident guys probably wouldn't want to date a bad girl (probably flirt for the kick of it)

The guys who enjoy a challenge of making a bad girl submit to them.. (there exists a few. I'm sure you might've met them)

And finally the guys not of the above type.
To be honest, I've recently come across many guys nowadays into femdom. They enjoy being around much more confident girls. (Like role-reversal) so I suppose 'bad girls' might seem that way. But they'd also be a little scared of them too.

Id rather like a girl who is sure if herself, can handle stuff by herself. But also not scary doing dangerous stuff. (Bad girls but without the badness) *laughing emoji*

Christpaquin · Accepted Answer

It depends, a real bad girl, it's okay for an one night or to date for a moment.

If it's a good girl that is also a bad girl, I marry her.

What do I mean by that?
Good girl www.google.ca/search

That became a bad girl
www.google.ca/search

So I like a bad girl for sex, but it don't means that I want her to look naked in front of people.

I like a girl that is sweet with people but that can say to a douche to fuck themselves.

Or that totally break the guy that try to touch or rape them.

shan_shan · Answer

Maybe for fun.. i think they prefer the good type for serious relationship no one whats a headache for life

Tr1pQu33n21 · Answer

Depends. Some of these qualities define me. My rebellious, non-conforming attitude has gotten me into trouble before. And my drug use has caused some problems as well. But I don't sleep around or get arrested or any of that nonsense. It does depend on the "bad" girl and the guy/girl receiving her.

Apope16 · Answer

INOCENT CHICS ARE SEXY! I like turning an innocent chic naughty. I like awakening an innocent chic to the joy of sex.

My favorite girls are ones that have moderate experience tho. Theyve had sex but are curious about new partners and aren't bored with sex yet.

Streamhopper · Answer

It depends. Some guys like Harley Davidson motorcycles. Some of them are "bad boys". Some girls like Harley Davidson motorcycles. Some of them are "bad girls". Sometimes they like each other. Sometimes guys like girls who are "bad", just like some girls like "bad" boys. If I had to rely on being "bad" to get a girl, I wouldn't be with my girlfriend.

Canuck37 · Answer

Absolutely not. I may find a girl attractive, but if it turns out that she's a "bad girl," then I will not trust her, which means I will not date her. I may still think that she's hot, but I may also think "it's a shame all that beauty was wasted on such a jerk of a girl."

airylnovatech · Answer

If they're bad as in slutty, then yeah. Just in a purely sexual way. It's not romantic.

If they're bad as in they're bullies, then not as much. Sometimes I find them cute though.

Murderers, I have absolutely no interest in. Same goes for the stereotypical mean girl. These are bitches.

VaIiant · Answer

Bad girl, or badass?  If bad means criminal low life with no morals, fuck no.  If bad means badass, as in independent and can defend herself, I believe so.

thenatiewitch · Answer

It’s the Alpha male syndrome. Women want to mate with and have children with an Alpha male. Most “bad boys” portray that image of an Alpha Male. That’s really it. Unfortunately, these men are players because all women want to mate with them. Anyways, you catch my drift. Now, who needs a Tarot Card Reading? Free for first time. I’ll let you know the status of your relationship. Be blessed 😊

passinby · Answer

The irony is so far the bad girls change and turn out to be the nicest and the good girls tend to be the sneakiest and least trustworthy. Can you explain that?

Anonymous · Answer

it depends, which kind of bad girl; if you take drugs.. then its better when you find guys who do it too..; same as smoking; bad girls are trouble.., i dont want to get in trouble, cos of them.. so.. i prefer good girls; i talk about bad girls, who do many illegal things; ofc it would be fun, when risking some thing and be wise enough not to get caught, but not too many times..; otherwise life would be boring , right? XD, when you dont risk things and do adventures

Mrblueballs42 · Answer

Of coursre we love naughty girls. Girls who flaunt themselves and dont care who is looking. A woman who knows what she's doing even though she dont care what others think.
Those type of women are fun to be with but sadlt most dont want to be in a relationship and crush hearts.

Logorithim · Answer

For sex, most guys would say yes, and some for hanging out. Beyond that, some might be willing to have something more with them if they are desperate or naive.

Nexovous · Answer

It depends what you mean by bad?

1) Does she have a bad temper and a sassy display on the constant? Does she do rebellious things? Yes!

2) Is she doing drugs and always in trouble with the law? Hell no!

Bjorn526 · Answer

Yes. Of course we do. However, bad girls can, by their behavior, make it much easier on us, to convince ourselves, a relationship wouldn’t work, no matter how intrigued we are, so in a way, they are easier to deal with emotionally

BonnieBunny · Answer

Guy: So, I heard you were a bad girl. Sounds sexy.
Girl: Oh yeah
Guy: What bad things have you done? ͡° ͜ʖ ͡ –
Girl: I robbed a bank, stole candy from a baby, and killed 8 people.
Guy: O__O
Girl: Pretty hot, right?
Guy: *runs*

someguykev · Answer

I like a woman who is strong and a lot of femininity, a sexy tomboy type but still very feminine, someone who is intelligent kind and caring , but not naive, I like a woman who is feeling whole or at one with everything.

Analisssa · Answer

Boys may want bad, rebel and cool girls, but men prefer nice, sweet and caring ones.

rightly · Answer

Depends on what kind of bad we're talkin I can mean rude bossy put in a sexy way or just a straight-up nose in the sky shit don't stink stuck up bitch cuz really I like them both I'm just stuck up ones get freaky

Anonymous · Answer

I think most guys prefer a good girl that’s bad for them

DodgersGM · Answer

I'm not sure what 'bad' means to you. For me, if I thought a woman was a 'bad girl', then I'm not interested.

NickAcc · Answer

This is a misconception, people often go for the bad girls because they want adventure, they want a partner who has their own opinion. And dare to say NO.

Good/shy girls tend to look more boring, because ist boring if your partner doenst share her opinion and just stay inside the house.

Tar1889 · Answer

Its a type. Like how some guys like blondes some guys like gingers. Some guys like black girls some guys like white guys. In my opinion I do but some guys do not.

NathanStrat · Answer

No, and i wish I could find a girl that liked a good guy... they all want bad boys and I just can’t fake that persona. Seems only ugly girls will date nice guys cuz they have lower standards.

FriendlyDrugDealer · Answer

To smash/ have sex with? Yeah of course. To date long term? Oh hell no, that sounds like a headache

Anonymous · Answer

I like girls who are experienced. Not bad where she hits babies in the face. I dated a Christian girl who gave one of the best blowjobs. She was a "baddie" lol I've dated girls who think they we're baddies and dirty talk me like I was watching porn but when it came down to it, they were terrible.

Borat_Sagidiev · Answer

Yes. I like a bad girls very much! I spanks them on the anoos for beings bad. Glad to be of assistances with the answering of your questionings.

NineBreaker · Answer

No. I don't like"bad girls". Badness isn't attractive to me, but strength and grit are! We shouldn't confuse them.

JSmith925 · Answer

Only as a rip-room sweetheart. When they decide to settle down, they want a good one. ~JSmith

Astria · Answer

Some do. I notice guys seem to like it when I'm aggressive. I'll be all angry and they'll get a boner.

ManOnFire · Answer

Nope. And I don't get the guys who do like them. There's something simple-minded about a bitch who likes being bad or sexually liberated.

Imme330 · Answer

Depends on your definition of bad girl but if she isn't faithful the No No One Like Somebody That is not faithful to them

FinalVow · Answer

depends on definition if it is anything like bad boys which are borderline to flat out abusive absolutely not. I have 0 interest in getting abused

Gardyion · Answer

Just how bad are we talking about here? Like bad as in they fail at everything? Or bad as in they get into all sorts of trouble? ;)

SirRexington · Answer

I like bad girls as in rebellious girls. But I'd like them to be good deep inside. I don't want a slut. And to me a bad girl does what she wants instead of what society does, which is casual sex.

ericclayton · Answer

Depends on what you mean by "bad", I myself love very feminine women who are also very strong. Sweet compassionate women who can be a complete bitch when she *has* to be. the best of both worlds, in my opinion.

laddsk8er · Answer

Used to and had fun times but reality is a lot tend to have a hard time being loyal.

tlgannon · Answer

"Bad girls" and "good girls" both care way too much about other peoples' definitions of good and bad. I like independent girls.

liza_liza_liza · Answer

I would say yeah. I mean, I don’t jump off cliffs naked or any thing but my sense of humor is kind of “bad” if you know what i mean.

Anonymous · Answer

it depends but from what i know for a one time thing maybe but for a long term relationship they would probably prefer a good girl

boggboss · Answer

Depends as the defantions get thrown about these days

nah999 · Answer

Depends. I do like girls with a little style, energy, rebel attitude, passion, vibrant... but not too much tho lol

100musicmaniac · Answer

Um, just so you know, DON'T change yourself for a boy...

milettescheepers · Answer

Yes as long as you stay badass and dont get soft with him then hel loooove you

Dreamweaver671 · Answer

I do. But I like turning good girls into bad just as much.

Levin · Answer

Oh yeah, good and bad, a perfect mix. I don't want a boring girl.

Nik1hil · Answer

Depends, if she is bad it is good , she should not be destructive, she can be a criminal but not a sinner..

Kentaiwan · Answer

Actually the personality should match, this is important.

Kaazsz · Answer

I don’t know what a bad girl is. I like hot girls. Maybe most hot girls are bad too?

Megatrizzle · Answer

I tend to gravitate towards girls who aren't any good for me. They're fun to chase I guess

taleswapper · Answer

Depends on how you define "bad". Slovenly, lazy, and indifferent? No. Sexy, lusty, and enthusiastic? Oh, yeah... ;)

mrspaceman · Answer

The appearance of being bad, definitely. But most guys dont like gurls with multiple bfs.

Anonymous · Answer

To have a one night stand with sure. But I want my wife to prefer cuddling over licking my asshole

NeallyNeal · Answer

It depends on the guy and definition of bad you have in mind. ( a liar, convict, someone unfaithful, abuser, etc..) no i don't fancy them for any type of relationship.

isbey · Answer

Sure. Bad girls are fun. Let's go murder some blokes

Meninist · Answer

Depends what you’re using as benchmarks to call yourself bad.

R1tuRaj · Answer

I'll love any girl who's good for everyone but bad for me only, sometimes

notcreepyiswear99 · Answer

Yes men like bad girls, but as a good boy I find them intimidating, I think that I would bore them.

Anonymous · Answer

Yep... and then they blame her for breaking his heart and cheating on him. In a man’s eyes, it’s always the woman’s fault

danpossibly · Answer

I assume "bad girl" is ascribed to non-traditionally female behavior/more wild behavior than the norm, if so yeah

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