How often do guys stalk a girl on social media?

[Anonymous]

I , myself happen to stalk the guy I like on social networking sites pretty often most likely to know what they've been up to lately.
But do guys do the same when it comes to the girl they like? How interested should a guy be , to actually stalk her on sns? Do guys stalk their close "girl" friends on sns in general too? Please give an honest view

[Qwertsy]

I have read social media of people I am interested. I don’t think it’s stalking though. If you a looking at information that they have deliberately made public, it’s not stalking. It’s just social media.

Following somebody around, or trying to invasively learn about their private lives without their knowledge or consent is stalking.

[Confidenceoverload]

I don’t stalk at all but there is one girl that is stalking me it’s actually annoying because she has told me she wants to marry me she wants to carry my kids and shit like that when I don’t want any of that yet and I don’t even know who she is

[Asker]

... Lmfao
That's some hell of a trouble
I hope she stops that soon

[Confidenceoverload]

I do too especially if I get the girl I want because i dropped everything for her and I don’t need this stalking chick to fuck up my chances with her

[Asker]

Goodluck dealing with it
Don't worry just ignore her , she might loose interest soon

[Confidenceoverload]

It’s been going on for 2 years 😕

[Asker]

Woah , you need to take serious actions then , that creeppyyyy
tell her to stop for real

[Confidenceoverload]

I have she doesn’t stop she won’t leave me alone she constantly tells me she loves me and she’s do anything to be with me shit like that 😓and I don’t even want that I want a different girl who doesn’t stalk

[Asker]

Dude... That's some next level
Beware for that girl

[Confidenceoverload]

I know 😕 it’s actually making me angry because if she ruins my relationship with the girl I like I will never forgive her and she actually was a ex girlfriend 😒 I say I don’t know her because I want to forget my psycho ex

[Asker]

... Ohh
Rest in pieces
You are so doomed
Just block her from every possible site and run for your life or she'll haunt you forever

[Confidenceoverload]

😩this fucking sucks and everytime I block her she gets a new number new Twitter new gag new everything

[Asker]

You'll have to deal with it somehow
Rip

[Confidenceoverload]

Yeah 😒 I’m fucked pretty much

[Rubyrose1]

TF? 😂😂 thats... i can't

[Rubyrose1]

uk there IS a solution for that it’s called a restraining order

[Rubyrose1]

as for social media my suggestion would be to make new accounts follow who u trust DONT USE UR PICS AS PROF PICS and have it private that way she can't get in to ur account oh and dont use ur name either

[Rainbowbrat]

I keep up with any pictures my crushes post even if they aren't "friends" that I see or hang out with... which is kinda creepy I suppose. I'm in a relationship so it's not something I can act on but I do like to fantasized a bit or something I guess

[TsundereMatrix]

My shy crush admitted to me that he has found out my age, where my hometown is and my love for cats all on Facebook because he was too nervous to ask me. I didn’t mind, it’s up there for a reason.

[Randomlips]

My boyfriend admitted he stalked on my social media every hour at least once

[Asker]

Woww that's...
Bet he loves you like crazy ,
I ship you guys although I don't know you loll

And yeah that seems a real one , guys here don't even admit they stalk , they're calling it a "girl" thing

[Randomlips]

He’s an open book in almost everything. He is about everything when it’s about us. He does love me. He shows me every day and I love him too.

Thank you hahahah.

[Asker]

🚢🚢🚢

[interstellar]

he's a Sweetheart.

[TheFuture2]

I have stalked a girl that I just started dating only for a week or so though. I don't really have social media, tbh. But I have looked up exes on Facebook before just to see what they look like now and what they're doing. Facebook is the only social media I have, by the way

[Anonymous]

It's not something I do often or have done a lot, but yes sometimes. Example right now I have feelings for my fwbs and I go to her Facebook page every now and again and just see if she's posted anything, just curiosity. I don't comment or message her or anything, just look.

[ShadowGamer]

Never an if I find a women is stalking me instead of talking to me then I'll make everything private until I find out who then block her. It's 1 thing looking at photos and stuff I like but finding out what I'm doing an where I'll be is just gonna lead to a bunny boiler.

[sincere_gold]

If it's a girl they are interested in, probably A LOT... at least once a day. But for friends or more casual interests, not often. I myself will look up friends once every few months, maybe. Not to stalk, even, just to see what I've missed.

[Maverick91]

I used to stalk alotta girls on social media. i used to stalk my exs but I don't send anything. and I get annoyed when I see them dating another guy. but this is life and must keep going. so I realised that I must leave everything behind and keep going ahead

[SomeoneBlue]

why get annoyed by them dating someone else.

I get it if they break up with you but otherwise, how come?

[Maverick91]

Man its our nature.. When we date someone no matter who break up first.. We will still feel jealous. its all human nature.

[SomeoneBlue]

welp. Alright, thanks

[Shootbum]

I personally don't stalk that much. If I have a crush on someone I go and check her profile once and if I think there is a slight chance of something happening I would send a request to her and if she doesn't accept they you know there are plenty of fishes in the sea.

[DomQuixote99]

I mean, I always justified it as investigating who this person really is. Is she really someone I wanna pursue? Or am I purely interested in her because she's hot?

Social media is a one way to find that out

[Asker]

Exactly , it's somehow important when you're trying to know about her
It's not something I'd consider creepy , it just shows that you're interested in someone and you want to know more about them ( unless you do it like every single hour )

[SidKnee]

Stalking isn't really existent on instagram especially if profile is public, because that's the point for those to look and like pictures they see. As long as it's not all you do I see no issue whatsoever

[Rubyrose1]

u got a point there...😂

[Caaarl]

I think men are more independent and will not spy on girls as much. I had a girl that like liked before and I would look at her page but I wouldn't keep track of what she's doing that's just creepy.

[hotep]

I dont have time for that. If i am interested in someone I will approach.

[orangeinme]

I do not. The most I may do is review their profile before messaging them, but there's no point spending hours looking at people not interested in you. I also have no IG account.

[Leo3572]

I don't stalk anybody. There's is no person I'm interested in.

[Asker]

Lol I stalk people I'm not even interested in

I know you're just trolling lolol

[Leo3572]

I have principles. I don't lie. I used to use sarcasm, but when I do it's to obvious to don't realize it. When I'm going out I also watch out for beauties, but why the hell should I stalk them? To get a boner and jerk off? That's what porn is for. There's no positive in stalking someone.

I let it for you if you believe me or not. Don't take me wrong, but I don't give a fuck if "Anonymous" believes me or not. Cya ✌🏼

[Asker]

I'm lost here

Is it still a troll?

Well most of people I know tend to stalk them just to check on what they've been up to
And they kinda admitted it but yeah depends on the person , that's the way you prefer doing things ( that's pretty good actually , unlike us spending centuries on worthless things like such )

[Leo3572]

Well I'm an open minded person without problems to talk to attractive girls. So why should I stalk them when I could also just talk with them? When I want to know something I will ask. And people I'm not interested in... Well to be honest I can't understand why I should stalk them. I don't even understand why you don't believe me. It's not like stalking is something everybody does. But oke I guess people are just different... again. As long as you make something good out of the things you get to know by stalking, everything is fine.

[karridy]

Like wise guys also for a example me, I love to see a serious girl that can show me where serious love is

[Asker]

Yeah It's normal to do it a couple times (unless it's like everyday , every single hour ) everyone does it

[hatelife2]

We do not that frequently for just crushes but very often for SM we r head over heels for.

[1smooth28]

I wouldn't stalk the girl at all. I thought that was a girl thing but I'm not sure why girls do it. I would kind of feel like the girl is investigating me and I'm not sure it's a good thing.

[Mike_90]

Nah, i wouldn't stalk any girl. I mean isn't it creepy, if you think about it? Its only "cute" if she likes you too.

[Rubyrose1]

thats true but i think its only creepy if u do it often

[Mike_90]

Hm.. yeah, thats also true.

[kolver]

Honestly the only way that I will be doing that maybe is if we have many things in comon

Like food, sport, hobbies...

[psywarrior84]

I don't, and I'd find it creepy to have someone fb stalk me.

[therealmrblack]

I dont have social media but I used to use it whenever I was interested in a girl.

[Denver_]

If by stalking you mean look at her photos and personal info, no. If by stalking you mean looking at all their recent updates and posts, yes.

[Anonymous]

Oh they most certainly do! They’d never resist an opportunity to perve on her pictures for a start!

[xJendi]

I haven't stalked anyone for years. I don't know what it lead to this I just grew out of it i guess.

[doitson]

#1 What is sns?
#2 might stalk them once, other than that no
#3 i give up too quick, so if i see something not happening i fall away pretty quick

[djpaynesr]

NEVER!! Really not cool because eventually that won't be enough and things will escalate.

[Powergirl_]

That isn’t really stalking but I don't know how many times guys view there crushes timeline.

[interstellar]

Thats an exponentiallt high number for sure.

[Powergirl_]

What do you mean

[interstellar]

Thats a large number i stalk my crush, large af.😂

[Powergirl_]

Oh now I understand you lol

[jay001]

Im too lazy for stuff like that, ill ask her if she likes me and if she says no then its fine.. move on

[skeetskeetskeet]

Probably 90% of the time he's not watching porn onlne

[jaysays]

i think if i guy does that, it probably leads to bigger issues later (see real stalking, possessiveness, jealousy, and nurder suicide stuff)

[Samuel-Dennis]

I've stalked some people, but not in a sexual sense. Of course, people do it with sexual motives pretty often

[Jackspedicy]

Last time I've done that was when I was 15. Nowadays I would watch her profil once to learn about her but I wouldn't like stalk her everyday to see what she's doing.

[oofman3000]

Not often they look at pics but not necessarily stalk

[Saint_lucifer]

Depends on how bad he wants her
This could go for years

[colonthree]

Define "stalking" a profile

[Asker]

Going through their pictures and recent updates pretty much

[colonthree]

It's publicly available and was posted online with the intention for others to see. So I don't see the issue with it. Maybe it's a little weird to do but it doesn't hurt anybody

[colonthree]

I've done it

[chriscdi]

Depends who the girl is

[Asker]

Does it have to be a crush or a close friend? Or anything more?

[chriscdi]

If its a crush then its like everyday 😂, friend like 1nce or 2wice a week lol

[chriscdi]

Friends is usually when a pic shows up on there media and they click on the profile to see whats up

[Asker]

Aha that's pretty much what the girls do too lolol

[chriscdi]

Well we are all humans so im not surprised 😂

[Riyadh3]

absolutey everyone does if they really love

[Asker]

How about close friends?

[Riyadh3]

the same
he is my best friend so that I sometimes stalk him

[BenR1991]

Stalking someone isn't healthy. Sorry.

[Pramathp]

We happen to do it all the time 😅😂

[Asker]

That's completely normal loll girls do it often too

[Pramathp]

Yea😂

[Anonymous]

women stalk men on social media
men dont
unless if he is gay"

[Myrdices]

I don't use social media

[SovietBall]

I do stalk occasionally

[Devil911]

They do that often to.

[bdog182]

I don't bc that's just creepy

[Ashwin111]

Well i can say pretty more often than a girl do.

[CrazyJags]

Probably more than a few times a day

[Slazar]

Yeah they do that a lot

[godi4]

Often

[Asker]

How often lol
And what's the priority when you stalk?

[godi4]

I mean I go 2-3 times for only looking at her. Because I just want see her :)

[Asker]

Hsvhyfvj
Holy moly
Hope she likes you back , you seem to be adorably in love with her
Shipp itttt

[godi4]

Thanks, but unfortunately I don't have lucky with her 😂. I must stop feeling something 😂

[Asker]

Lolll
The guy I like happened to find my IG account when we lost contact on the messaging app we usually talk on
Does this mean he stalks me too? I kinda need help decoding this

[godi4]

It doesn't mean stalking, maybe he just like to see you

[SwagsMcBags]

Please stop. Stalking is not okay.

[Asker]

Erm how do you know if the person you know only via internet is actually alive without stalking ,
I meant stalking in general tho not the creepy stalking

[SwagsMcBags]

You could try uhhh talking to them?

[Asker]

What if they're not replying the texts or calls? How do you know they're dead or alive?

[SwagsMcBags]

If they're not replying then they probably don't want to talk right now. Just give them space.

[Asker]

Everyone does it

Stopping the general stalking is actually impossible

[SwagsMcBags]

I didn't know that everyone was so creepy. I'm glad that I don't use social media.

[Caaarl]

That's none of those are good arguments to justify bad behavior. If people were punching each other would it be OK for you to punch people?

If they don't contact you that doesn't mean you should go on their page and track their every move like a psycho.

To be this involved in someone's life without them knowing is distrubing.

[Rubyrose1]

well to be frank people post the pictures and crap for people to see on purpose... so its not wrong... unless ur harassing that person because thats the point of social media these days and punching people and going on someones instagram page to look at there pics ate two completely different things so dont even try not on the same level dude

[Asker]

@Caaarl well, I referred to checking their info and stuff , not the weird stalking and drooling over their picture like a psychopath every hour. Looking for the person you like on the internet seems natural to me when it's limited and you just have access to that person via internet , here you can either text them or go through their profile. And well texting them 24/7 is actually creepier than stalking them , it's normal when done under limit and when you don't want to bother the person but you're curious about them.

[Caaarl]

You guys are delusional if you think creeping someone's profile frequently is normal.

[Rubyrose1]

@caaarl frequently no its not but in general hell yes

[Asker]

@Rubyrose1 yupp completely lmao

[franklucky17]

Frequently more if you are in love

[mrrandom21]

I wish I was lucky enough to have a stalker lol

[Ahighschoolguy]

Yes lol

[nitsuj48]

Gross

[AbbasO]

a lot

[obalagat]

Once a day

[outside_Toronto]

Never

[BlackParade]

Never.

[vini420]

Not most of time

[fernando19930]

Yes a lot