Do guys make up scenarios in their head like girls do when they have a crush?

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i was just wondering... bc i always think about situations/ scenarios that could happen with him. 
are guys like that too?

MarkNightingale · Accepted Answer

Oh I should certainly think so! ;) Left right and center. I had a dream the other night, stuff like that. Sometimes it is a real life scenario and I never know what to say, and ut passes by. It just replays in my mind over and over haha. Like why didn't I say hi even wave or something. I just froze up. She was too beautiful I couldn't move a muscle. I could have died, it was serious. She gave me a crush stroke haha! Ya know what I mean? My heart skipped a beat, she was a living masterpiece! Who knows what to say when you might run into someone like that. Pre planned scenario? It's never going to work... Unless.. You think of something really good. Think about the scenario when you twll him you have been thinking about a few scenarios involving him. 👍

Errantsquire · Accepted Answer

Yes, all the time. For me it's more a matter of running the scenarios though. I think I'll ask her out on X date and suggest Y but if she's not interested in Y then I'll propose Z etc... It's a large complex matrix of possibilities rhat would need a 3 volume set of books to properly explain.

riverplate7 · Accepted Answer

Not gonna lie this is a genius question that i have always had. Because i know i do it all the time. I can be prone to overthink with certain guys. definitely not all but I've ALWAYS wondered if guys do the same thing. I was convinced that they just aren't wired like that for the longest time but i guess i am happily proven wrong

SOOCute · Accepted Answer

This is a fantastic question! I do that a lot, and it's been cool to read that a lot of guys do that too.

snowcap54 · Answer

Yes definitely, men do have scenario specific fantasies about their crushes. It's a perfectly natural thing as long as it isn't acted on inappropriately. It may surprise you to find out that your crush is experiencing the same thing for you. Try sitting down with him and talk about what he thinks about when you aren't around.

jackster95 · Answer

I definitely do, I think of a few scenarios. Sometime I make a move in the scenario, or sometimes she does. Other times I imagine what could go wrong... it can get elaborate

Andre__ · Answer

Oh yes. I have lived multiple lifetimes worth of scenarios that will never ever happen, but my mind goes crazy sometimes. It's called overthinking :)

UnstableCraft · Answer

I don't have every time. Without fail. And then I never act on anything because I'm terrified of a relationship.

Mr_Smile · Answer

I do. I overthink things sometimes, end up stumbling on my words and making an arse out of myself usually.

BigRob420 · Answer

Generally no. We just go ask and see where it goes. Women do this more often because a patriarchal society says women shouldn't ask out men.

VincentLaw · Answer

Absolutely. I try not to, but I'm an overthinker by nature

Giggletr0n · Answer

Oh yeah. Usually about how I would save that girl if she was in danger and winning her affections that way.

TheNoOne · Answer

Yeah frequently it can be a little distracting especially if you have an active imagination.

LuckyEnough · Answer

We are people too, wants needs, imaginations, the whole deal.

BenR1991 · Answer

Yeah, I imagine the best scenario that could happen and the worst scenario.

DamnSam · Answer

Im a bit surprised, just right know I found out im not the only one who does that...

chriscdi · Answer

Yea we do, i had one once where i killed my crushes boyfriend 😏

DaantjeZ333 · Answer

Yep at least I am hahaha but don't tell anyone that 😋

BrianMerritt · Answer

Yes. We picture being a knight and saving her from a monster.

AynonOMouse · Answer

Yeah, and what kind of family life there could be with her too.

larswisner · Answer

Yes, but it always ends with me and my crush making out so i don't know if it is exactly the same..

Anonymous · Answer

Yes they do, oddly those scénarii always end up having sex in them. Even the most innocent one leads to sex.

imredheaded · Answer

Far too often. I always get in my own head with this kind of stuff

ThePetSquirrel · Answer

Yep. Only difference is we'll more than likely get an extension in our trousers.

roofersaskiny · Answer

Some guys are and some girls are not it just depends on how deep you think and the way your mind works

mactallica · Answer

Sexual or not sexual? Yes to both but, a lot of guys it's just sex.

Pistachio0690 · Answer

Do girls have crushes? Is that what y'all call it when you think a guy has a lot of money?

sooyooung · Answer

I am in love with all the men's answers lmao

ItsMatthew6653 · Answer

Yup think about the perfect story that would happen

Drillions · Answer

I always do, but it is with more then just my crush lol

Seth_qc · Answer

Yeah we are equals just woman assosiate thing with emotion thats why guy dont understand some woman

Anonymous · Answer

Aww I love this question and the guys’ answers lol

Anonymous · Answer

Most of the time we want you to say something or do something to let us know you want us

JSmuve · Answer

What sort of scenarios?

winterfox10 · Answer

Yes, and they usually all end in passionate sex

AllThatSweetJazz · Answer

Of course. All the time.

ShineDJJ · Answer

I've done it many times.

Kandy-Kane · Answer

Yes but theirs are dirtier lol

Dirtbag69b · Answer

yes they do but more sexual than romantic

shadowhawk082793 · Answer

Yes we do we never admit it but we do

jasco · Answer

yes well i do sometimes

trick1988 · Answer

Yes we do they don't come true.

RoxegHoshi · Answer

I do, almost all the time.

Anonymous · Answer

And then they get a boner

leledolan · Answer

I wish the scenarios would happen irl

j4ck_ · Answer

Hell yea. Probabbly more so tha girls 😂

ThatWeirdDude · Answer

You have no idea how often that happens to me

TadCurious · Answer

Yes, definitely.

lizzie2000 · Answer

I pray that he like me but he never does

Swimmyeli · Answer

Yep, mostly at night or when bored

usernamex · Answer

I am definitely like that

sakkeh · Answer

Yes, I love girls damn

Hannajenky · Answer

I do that

WeirdoWerdo · Answer

Yes.

StandingTall1 · Answer

Yes.

CaptainDinner · Answer

Oh hell yeah

Krimsonkoolaid · Answer

Yes they do.

TsubasaCorrupted · Answer

Absolutely.

jeroenakfjfks · Answer

Yeah they do

Steve37 · Answer

Absolutely

Revolver_ · Answer

Yeah

Hichouche · Answer

All the time

Swagguy · Answer

Yes they do

DaRealEazyE · Answer

I used to

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