Shy girls? how do you act around you crush? overall attitude?

[huey12]

1. Do you avoid your crush?

2.how would you signal him if you him to know you like him or if you anything all.

3.when you tell your friends about your crush are you influenced by them to do what they tell you I heard girls do that...?

4. would you be creeped out if I randomly came up to you in school and said hi would you talk back?

5.ho would you let your crush know for sure you like them even if you never meet in person before

6.would you be creeped out if I asked for your # after the first time talking to you?

7.why do shy girls cling to there friends it makes it so hard to get them alone...-.-

[So-Innocent]

1. I probably wouldn't avoid him but I wouldn't talk to him either. Especially if I get the feeling that he doesn't like me as much as I like him. Or I might just because I don't want to do anything embarrassing or off-putting.

2. I wouldn't do anything. I would just hope he'd have a hunch I guess. (I know, I'm terrible >_<)

3. I usually don't tell my friends about my crush because I'm afraid they're going to tell him, but sometimes my friends can convince me to tell them about my crush. They don't really influence me though. They don't care about what I do, they just want to know who my crush is.

4.No I would NOT be creeped out if he randomly came up to me at school and said hi. That's exactly what I would want him to do (It just never happens with any of my crushes. Sometimes they will say hi in passing but not stop and have a conversation with me -__-)

5. I probably wouldn't give him any clues. I know that's bad but I don't want to be all flirty and whatnot and when he doesn't even like me. Since I am so shy he must take the first step and let me know he likes me.

6. No I would not be creeped out if he asked me for my number after the first time talking to him. That's exactly what I would want even though I would be too shy to express that.

7. I don't cling to my friends, but I'm assuming some do because it's like a defense mechanism or whatever. Sometimes friends help a girls confidence and many shy girls like to have their friends for support.

Getting a shy girl is hard work. We definitely don't make it easy for you guys, sadly. But it's so worth it in the end.

[Anonymous]

1. Sometimes, yes. It's like a fight-or-flight response kicks in and I veer the other way before my brain can process what's happening. And I regret it.

2. Smiling at basically everything he says or whenever he looks at me. & Eye contact.

3. If my friends don't like him (if he isn't a nice guy), then yes, it does influence me. But normally if my friends know I like a guy, they will be happy for me.

4. No, not creeped out, but might be a little confused at the sudden interest. I would of course say hi back.

5. I wouldn't.

6. Depends how you went about asking for the number. If you knew you were going to see me again, you should wait until after a few more conversations. Asking for the # after talking for the first time is off-putting (for me, at least. I would be scared off a little). The only time it would be okay to ask for the number after talking for the first time is if you knew you the chances of see the girl again were slim.

7. Being with friends is comfortable. Being alone means we would feel awkward. And we're shy, so socializing with strangers isn't always desirable.

[ForeverYours39]

1. Sort of.. We'll look for them and watch them, but when they come near us, we freak out and hide lol

2.Eye contact, smiling at him, walking with him, just small things.

3. Yeah, usually I listen to my friends. Unless they're kind of stupid with guys.. lol But normally I just ask if what I want to do is a good idea.

4. Nope, I'd get flustered and blush and wonder "why is he talking to me?" but not in a bad way lol

5. Through a friend maybe, or a text. or just not at all. Being shy makes it easier to let your crushes go :/ Cause we feel like since we never really talk that there's no chance anyways.

6. Yes. lol Get to know us a little more, then ask for our #

7. For that reason pretty much. We're comfortable with our friends, so we feel safe.

[BaabyCakes]

okae well I'm like mega shy..

1) it depends how comfortable I feel around him

2) I don't know LOL

3) yeaaah

4) umm most probably

5) I would probably tell you or my friends would

6) nope not at all

7) LOL I don't now but I'm like that guess the girls have a better understanding

[huey12]

so what your saying is eventually you will walk up to your crush and talk to him? there's this girl I think likes me but its a head scracher how she's shows it

[BaabyCakes]

mmm just give her some time bub :D

[mormollio]

1) Err I don't avoid them, but I don't talk to them either.

2) I'd make an effort to flirt/talk to him. ^^;

3) Nah, it may be good advice but some things easier said than done :/

4) Nope, I'd say hi back

5) I don't know O,o

6) Nah

7) Most comfortable around my friends and I can be myself more.

lol I always do things that make the guys I like think I'm not interested xD

[Anonymous]

1. It varies, I try to keep cool but sometimes my damn nerves kick in and I look like a fool so I stay quiet.

2. I am not sure I smile I guess.

3. Well I gather opinions and options on what I should do.

4. Well if you were cute I would be startled but I would say hi back.

5. I have told him by text but he has told me his feelings first.

6. If I liked you I would get excited, but keep it low key.

7. We can't help it and plus sometimes the guy trying to talk to us is not our type.

[iiamMAK]

1. sometimes I do

2.i wouldn't do much and wait for him to do things to me if they are interesrted or not

3.yeh they are biggest influence to have to confidence to talk to the person I like

4. it would creep me out yeh I would talk but prob give you one word answer

5.ill somehow move on

6.not really

7.i don't cling to our friend.. its just the way we are being a group and having fun

yeh its really hard for shy girls to have one on one time with someone it gets awkward

[volley4114]

yah so I'm really shy

1. yah kinda

2. I really don't know cause I don't know if he feels the same way he just thinks I'm hot and he kinda already has a girlfriend in college :(

3. most definitely not

4. maybe

5. id eventually have a friend tell him

6. eh depends

7. cause are friends are like a safety net

[Anonymous]

I was really shy around dudes in high school. I never really talked to any of my crushes. It was an unrequited love. :P

[huey12]

wow wtf Lol? why?

[Opinion Owner]

I didn't have a lot of self-confidence. I went through an awkward/ugly duckling phase. Then I discovered makeup and clothing styles. Why are you so shocked? lol.

[huey12]

its not that I'm shocked its just I get nervous and I start thinking I'm parinod when I think a girl likes me I'm not the sexyest dude but I'm sayin I still say wth and talk to her lol

[Opinion Owner]

Well good. That's great you've got confidence to talk to a girl. :)

[Anonymous]

Well I like talking to my crush alone

1. I'll watch out for him

2. I might smile

3. I listen to my friends sometimes

4. I would just say hi but, that's it

5. He has to tell me his feelings first

6.Nope