1. I become VERY shy when I'm next to a guy that I like. I worry about saying something silly or just making the wrong first impression out of nervousness.
2. Of course shy girls want to sit next to the guy they like, unless they are shy to the extreme! But it's a way for us to feel kinda close to him even tho we're probably too shy to actually say anything.
3. With the eye contact, really depends on the girl. Some girls may avoid it out of nervousness while others may stare at you trying to remember the english language so they can actually make progress and start a convo with you lol.
4. When I first meet him I'll probably just see how he acts to try and get a generalization of his personality. After all that's what matters the most. And I'll probably be thinking something I could do to get his attention that's kind of low key and casual without making an ass of myself.
5. I would hope that he would talk to me so I can get to know him better. I (and probably most other shy girls) prefer guys to make the first move.
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okay I am supr shy and this sounds just like me ha ha so if she dusnt seem usually shy with other people that aren't her friends she prob likes you but if she's shy around other people including you and she just not shy with her friends when I'm next to the guy I like I like secretly watch him real close like to c how he reacts to other girls and if he likes them or not I try to get close to the guy I like but really really REALLY descretely and I can't always do it yes I try not to make eye contact because I don't want them to now I like them weird ik but shy people are coomplicated wen I c them I just like watch them and kinda like watch them really discreetly I wish he'd come up and start talking to me like I no him as a friend I want to be happy and laugh with them wen were talking and then keep talking to me and eventually ask me out but with my crush I guess its to late I think he liked me but I was acting way to shy around him only and I prob blew I think he's dating this other girl now and ya... :(
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I'm a lot older than you but still shy around guys I like. Oh and just so you know, crushes don't stop as you get older and you still act and feel like a fool...lol.
In answer to your questions...
#1 - Happy thoughts mixed with excitement and lots of nervousness.
#2 - Sometimes we avoid them but mostly we want to be near them.
#3 - I've avoided eye contact once in a while. But just got over a crush with an ultra confident guy who liked holding long eye contact with me. He would catch my eye and hold it until he was ready to stop. It was very intense to say the least but kind of made me all schoolgirl silly and gave me chills. One time we were in church and he caught my glance across the church. He looked at me so intense that my stomach dropped and I said, "oh sh**" :) He really knew what he was doing...lol. When I answer questions on here, I always tell guys to use lots of eye contact because it has such an effect on us girls.
#4 - I get butterflies in my stomach. I get nervous and happy and excited. I think about what it would be like to be his g/f.
#5 - Well my crush is over but I did wish that he would grow a pair and ask me out but it never happened.
It's funny but I've always wondered what went on in his head during our crush. Would you do me a favor? Can you answer your own questions but for yourself - meaning can you take out the "shy girl" in your questions and answer them as if I was asking you? I really want to know what goes in guys' head when they have a crush! Thanks so much! :)Uh just don't wanna screw up and play my cards well.
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