He commented another girl's photo, thoughts?

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I feel so upset rn, i saw he liked a girl's phtoto in instagram and he also commented with the angel face emoji, what does this mean is it flirting? I know that they aren't close friends they just know each other and she has a serious boyfriend, i don't have any suspiscions he is with me almost all the time but was that flirting i'm hella jealous person and this made me crazy, should i calm down?

FlutteringFeelings · Accepted Answer

If you two haven’t established dating or perhaps getting to know one another to be in a relationship than what he does will not have any filter. Involving yourself with a guy and just being company without you setting any boundaries will set you up for getting hurt.

If you two established that before anything got deeper and he took it upon himself to comment and flirt on Instagram than you have every right to be mad. He’s only going to call you crazy if the two of you haven’t established where you stand.

If the both of you are serious with one another and set the record straight from the beginning he’s not going to pull the crazy card because your feelings matter and he wouldn’t have no other decision than to not do it or go ghost on you.

Branwenn · Accepted Answer

I think you are overreacting big time and need to step back, breathe and focus on something a little more positive. He posted an emoji , that's not even an actual comment, it's not flirting, it means nothing. If you continue to stalk his activity on social media you are only going to drive yourself even more crazy. You're insecurities and obsessive behavior will only create arguments and push him away ultimately leading to a break up. You need to realize that it's social media, clearly he isn't hiding anything he is doing and you said you don't suspect anything because he is with you all the time. My suggestion is to suck it up and get over it, work on building your confidence and let go of your insecurities, he did nothing wrong in this situation.

corkr900 · Accepted Answer

I guarantee you're reading too much into this. Commenting on a photo is a perfectly normal thing to do, no matter who the poster is. It bears absolutely no meaning on his intentions and it is nothing to worry about.

If you just need assuage, you can mention to him that you're worried about it. He'll tell you the truth - that it doesn't mean anything - and you can both move on with no secrets.

It really seems to me the real issue is a lack of trust between you. THAT is something that should be discussed and fixed, otherwise i guarantee it will tear you two apart.

Marethyu · Accepted Answer

Well.. Whatever?
Social media has absolutely no connection to real life and also.. He's your boyfriend.. If you can't trust him then why are you even with him?
People are allowed to "like" more than just one person, as long as the word "love" applies to only one girl alone.

ElissaIsBelgian · Answer

You overreacted. He is your boyfriend, he is not your prisoner. A relationship means giving each other space sometimes. If you are treating him like he is your possession, then you are pushing him away. That works suffocating. He will seek comfort in the arms of another person if you keep behaving like that. It has the opposite effect of what you want to achieve. Give him space and let him give you space too sometimes. Don’t check his social media like a psycho every five seconds. He is not going to keep putting up with that.

4get2remember · Answer

Don't put so much stock in social media. He thinks a girl is cute. If he is with you and faithful, you have nothing to worry about. I have the same kind of thoughts sometime and then I have to remind myself that there's a difference between real life and social media.

BarbieLola · Answer

No - whatever the comments that say opposite to what I’m about to say do not listen - you are 100 and 10 percent justified in not being happy about his behavior- it’s in acceptable- talk to him about it - it’s flirting and it’s giving attention to other girls in a way that is not cool at all

Just_A_Guy2018 · Answer

Is he allowed to have independent thought and expression from you? Is he allowed to comment on another guys photo? Why are you micro managing every little thing that he does. It appears that you are causing the problems by projecting your mental problems issues onto him. Good job dumb dumb you are going to loose him and every other guy you date.

sariyanoor · Answer

I think yes you should calm down. and as that girl is seriously committed and even your boyfriend is committed to you, you should ignore these small things as most of the guys do this. being too possessive is also not good as trust is major bonding in love

OdieTheWise716 · Answer

I wouldn't worry and it's safe to calm down. Let him not it bothered you but don't get worked up... people flirt, men and woman alike. It's normal, what matters is that it stays just flirting... we can't help what we find attractive nor can we control our fantasies. If you love each other the flirts don't matter. I'm married and flirt to make woman feel good, make them smile but I'm faithful and loyal to my wife.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah an ex guy did this a lot. I kept seeing it and asked him about it just once. He didn't stop though. I learned to accept it and realize now that i should not have. I see its making you upset as well like i did. It doesn't matter if people say its just a pic because its not.. it shows how little respect he has on you and your relationship. Tell him how his actions are making you feel and if he loves you truly he simply won't do it again.

pandabo1 · Answer

The two scenarios i can think of from my personal experience is either he's talking like that because he knows said person on a friendly level. Or there was the thought of any kind of romance didn't really turn up and it was just a passive action and didn't really mean anything by it.

Sluggish_Panda · Answer

Obviously I don't know him as a person so I can't say for sure, but me personally, I would do a comment like that while in a relationship and not mean for it to be flirting. I cannot promise a definite answer, but as long as its not a common occurrence and only with her, I think you're fine

boggboss · Answer

And this is a perfect example of why relationships don't last these days

MlleCake · Answer

Your jealousy is out of hand. Get a grip. Men and women can be friendly without it meaning they are about to leap into each other's arms.

Drener · Answer

He is flirting  He shouldn't been doing that either..  He is cheating on you  You need to have a talk with him

Kiii13 · Answer

Bring it up to him and let him know. If you’re worried about it he should know so he can reassure you nothings going on

CandacePerry · Answer

Instagram is not imported is just a website and app. Dumb girl. two guys are right for once. Social media is ruin people relationship.

Chaz269 · Answer

Jealousy is a disease.  Seek professional help, or you'll never find lasting happiness.

sarahhcmarie · Answer

omfg, that is literally NOTHING to get upset about. jesus, these days girls be screaming at their men for even FOLLOWING a girl who is a friend.

cuteness89 · Answer

Girl grow up. thats why happens when you go spying bc you dont trust your boyfriend.

anutookarieskkru · Answer

It's normal to like other people's pictures. I wouldn't think anything of it. If u let it get to you I don't think u will ever get over harmless behavior.

awkwardman · Answer

Man you are crazy. Do you talk to other guys? Do you like what they say? Do? Look like? Shit if someone got a complement from him in person i think you would try to kill both of them!

hereforthefunofit · Answer

If your going to get jealous of something like this I feel sorry for him if a girl ever says hi to him. You need to find a way to stop being so jealous or he will leave.

SavageGirl101 · Answer

Take a chill pill and get over it. There obviously just friends😎

Devilhunter696 · Answer

Yer I wouldn't read to much into it, it's Instagram I like loads of pics a day I'm not trying to flirt with them.

AriLx · Answer

You're being over dramatic. Just talk to him and tell him.

RobinLion · Answer

It seems that you don't trust him enough. I had a girlfriend in the past who was extremely jealous... and we broke up over it. In my eyes she wasn't focussing on us as much as she was focussing on others.

Hoggy1 · Answer

Would you mind if he commented on a celebrity picture? It's kinda the same thing men a&e aloud to look but not touch lol 😀

OoseeeoOo · Answer

And what makes you think a man is bound to one insecure girl?

Ramasundeep · Answer

Not likely it's not a sign of flirting if he comments only but you should be sure if he is actually flirting and social media behavior should not be judged so quickly

admles · Answer

You need to grow up. It's social media, it means nothing.

Rambler221 · Answer

What you do is CALM THE HELL DOWN, that was not flirting.

jimmy2 · Answer

Clam down you are ok. Just let him know its upsetting

daholzer · Answer

Go to a mental doc to get rid of your over the top jealousie

parasindore · Answer

What's wrong in commenting , we all are hungry of appreciation , so some one gets Happy with his comments what's wrong in it

Arjunn22 · Answer

It's okay to be jealous but it should not be too extreme.

Aspentree99 · Answer

Too much about it. it could be that they were closed a while ago and it's just a form of teasing.

Pink2000 · Answer

You’re too insecure. Calm down. Ask him about it.

LeeKenz · Answer

Quit acting like a fucking baby and get over it.

Anonymous · Answer

Goddamn you need to calm down. If you don't trust him, break up with him.

CanadianGirlx23 · Answer

You have every right to be furious.

Calixx · Answer

If he is your boyfriend, he shouldn’t do that.

BesrkirAstrid · Answer

He likes her photo maybe.

Prof_Don · Answer

Why are u so untrusting of your bf?

skateranon123 · Answer

you need help with your confidence

Redstang88 · Answer

It’s instagram, chill out

jessture · Answer

You take Instagram way too seriously

lernulo · Answer

I dont think its flirting, its just a dream

XCORE911 · Answer

So insecure and so jealous. Immature behavior.

cneff123 · Answer

Ask him why he did it

LegateLanius · Answer

Do you comment on other guy's photos?

danielmeegan · Answer

Quit acting like a Baby so what

Anonymous · Answer

It’s ok to look but don’t touch

annanagy · Answer

You should calm down. It's not a big deal.

jordanmckenz · Answer

No it probally means they are close friends

ima_idiot83 · Answer

She could just be a friend of his

Jwatization · Answer

Don't say anything, it will only push him away

sunnykhanbhutta123 · Answer

Depends on what he commented

LeoMessiAndre · Answer

lol women are crazy.

Seppelson · Answer

It's normal

AlbanianYoungLady · Answer

Is this real?

Nachowedgie · Answer

No one fucking cares

gowtham12 · Answer

You are overreacting

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