Would a guy joke about dating you if he wasn’t serious?

Someone called him while I was hanging out with him. The person on the other line asked him who he was with and he told them. They asked him if we were dating. He said “maybe once I ask her out”! With a smirk. Is he totally joking? Would a guy say this if he wasn’t interested?

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  • A guy who mentions this to someone has at least some interest in them or he wouldn't have joked around about it since a lot of people do take dating seriously. He could have meant this in a casual way, as in them thinking about that person being a potential partner in the future while some mean what they say and would love to be their partner as soon as possible! It's hard to tell from a lack of context how much he likes you but I get the feeling that he has thought of dating you at one point, if not now. You could try to hint it to him if you're interested!

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  • It depends. Yes, he would, specially if he understands that you're only friends, but he could also joke about it to see your reaction and to make you wonder about that. Did he do it in private? If he's done it in private, it's very probable he wants to date you.

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    • Yeah it was in private

Most Helpful Girl

  • I think its his actions after that that matter more than what he’s just saying there that counts..

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What Guys Said 13

  • Whats this got to do with anything?
    You just assume a guy who’s probably making conversation is saying this stuff with secret meanings? You see how crazy that appears to be? Even if true how would we know what another person is thinking? Us men don’t follow the same secret codes that’s if they existed.
    This is crazy talk.

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  • First I want to know that the person on the other line was a guy or a girl?

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  • I think there could be a chance he is interested, though maybe it was sarcasm. I would say play it by ear, look for other hints, or maybe just ask him out?

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  • I'd say he's definitely flirting. One of my moves is to say "jokes" like that.

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  • Well l would not joke about that as its not fair and it would hurt

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  • Some guys are shy so that is one way to ask the girl out on a date.

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    • If that’s the case I wish he would either actually ask seriously or else stop leading me on then haha

    • U have to put ur self in his place if he doesn't ask you then u ask him help him over his shyness

  • Possibly

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  • Maybe yes. 50/50.

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  • He is interested but you are on the maybe zone.

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    • What puts a girl in the maybe zone?

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    • Yeah he asked me what my type is about a month ago

    • It was the time to define him, if you wanted him

  • Yeah, I've done that before

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What Girls Said 2

  • Yes.. man is the creature that thinks all is a clown like them n about their mighty dick.

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  • Possibly be careful

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