Is having a big ass really that important to guys?

Question

I am cursed with the no ass gene, but does it really matter?

Kyren · Accepted Answer

Finding a person attractive solely based on physical appearance is so degrading when their personality is what's considered the most attractive. Honestly, I'd be good with any girl of any size if she loved me unconditionally as I would to her! Having a smaller bottom means you'll fit into a lot more clothing and exercising will be easier too! Every body size has its perks and cons; you'll know a guy is a keeper if they don't prioritize your body over your personality first! There certainly are a lot of men out there who'd love a woman with a small bottom! I just think society believes bigger breasts/bottoms makes a woman more attractive to men in general but that's subjective depending on the person. You have nothing to worry about here :)

Anon-ymous1 · Accepted Answer

... This again? Man I should write a myTake about this topic.

Guys do. not. want. girls with big fat flabby asses. Quality, attractive guys want girls with tight, hot, fit, shapely asses. Asses like THIS:

Is having a big ass really that important to guys?

NOT this:

I mean hey! that ^ ass is *big* isn't it? Girls need to stop deluding themselves about this whole GUYS WANT BIG ASSES thing when it's not true. The only reason people think it's true is because of one popular shitty rap song from 1990 and this whole modern "fat acceptance" movement thing that's putting fat girls in more media roles. It's not true. It's dumb.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Well, men say they love “female” asses, whatever that’s supposed to mean.. So, based on that, you’d think they wouldn’t care. However, in reality, they’d probably rather fuck a male or shemale with a good amount of ass than a female with a small one.

sugarchateau · Accepted Answer

who cares what others sexual preferences are if you’re not trying to sexually objectify your body, right?  Also, more people need to appreciate the variety and stop comparing.

abc3643 · Answer

NOOOOO
A big ass is BAD!

Why?
Because big asses get bigger.
Look at Nicki Minaj or Kim Kardashian!
Their asses can be seen from space!

This "big ass" fad isn't real; it's bullshit made up in the celebrity media.

Throughout your life, you will be insecure because you don't look like the latest fashion/make-up/body trend. It's all bullshit though. So, when you get insecure in the future, always look back at old movies or TV shows. Look at the boobs, butt, make-up, etc. of the "beauties" in those broadcasts.
Sooner or later, you will realize that there is something of a certain classic standard to beauty and that's just basically a nice proportional shape - the kind most women have.

So, next time you see some guy say how much he loves an ass so big that it has its own gravity, just laugh and realize he's an easily duped idiot.

Anonymous · Answer

As an ass guy myself I'm going to say no. Usually women will complain about their small boobs and I have to tell them that I don't care about the size of their boobs. I'm not a boob guy, I'm an ass guy. And it's not so much about how big the ass is, though it helps, it's about the way it looks and feels. A nice bubble butt is ideal. With that said I've fallen for a girl in the past that pretty much has no ass whatsoever. I still liked her. A nice bubble butt of an ass is eye candy in the same way a man who is ripped is eye candy to women. Pretty much all women that are into men with ab, shoulder, arm, back muscles and even so much as to verbally point out how intoxicated they are when they see a man who is physically ripped to shreds, they still have no problem dating a guy that doesn't meet those standards at all because at the end of the day it's eye candy.

Byakugan · Answer

You can have a big ass and they`d still leave you for another, that maybe has a smaller ass than you lol.

So there`s that.

But to me its not. I honestly could care less. If you have a nice bum that cool, that`s a bonus i guess. But not that i`d really focus on that when looking for a partner

Factshurt90 · Answer

If you have no ass focus on SHAPE. You can still create a cute plump butt. Continue working on squats and hip thrusts.
I LOVE ass, but a cute shape is still amazing for smaller women who can’t grow a booty.

LeoElias · Answer

I like the hourglass shape. If everything is proportionate then you are completely fine. If you look like a little boy then that's weird. But if you are like a fat chick with a deformed fat body then... no thanks. If you are not one of those extremes then you are fine.

ShortCircuit · Answer

There is no such thing as a "no ass" gene--only a "lazy ass" gene. Either go to the gym and squat or forfeit the right to complain.

Spawnface · Answer

Really? No ASSet pun?  It's an important ASSet. It looks real good and can keep a man's attention. Like any look it's a great lure but you have to know how to reel in the fish once it bites.

Jtallstate · Answer

Case by case basis, I won't lie to you having a big ass is very I would use the word igniting for most men including myself but you can be a girl with no ass and a pretty face or you know ass but big boobs and still catch men's attention reality is you don't have to have all the pieces sometimes you can get by with just two

ecfresh · Answer

Not to me. I prefer a smaller booty, not into the bigger shelf variety.

BlueberryFrick · Answer

A thick butt is very attractive, dont get me wrong, but I can live without it. As long as she's a sweetheart who can make me laugh.

TheWalkingDuck · Answer

A big ass is a big damn ass. If you want to bulk it up, I fucking suggest you to do some motherfucking squats. It’s preference so it’s down to the person but I love me some ass.

joydivision · Answer

God. Almost every guy I’ve dated has been willing to crawl on the ground to be near my ass... I mean maybe it’s not a dealbreaker but yes, they do care.

gingerrockmomma · Answer

Some guys are ass guys, some guys are tit guys, some guys don't really care. Just gotta find the right guy

SngBirdy · Answer

A shapely butt is all thats needed. doesn't matter how small it is

Miss_missy77 · Answer

No. Kim K, and Nicki Minaj are brainwashing young men and women.

Anonymous · Answer

As long as you dress according to your body type it doesn't really matter. It might matter for guys who are quick to judge girls based on their appearances but otherwise, it really doesn't matter. Just make the best out of your other gifts.

winterfox10 · Answer

It's not that important, but you do want to make sure that you are maintaining your body and staying desirable.

Introvert94 · Answer

It's not a one shoe fit all type of thing. Some guys yes. Some no. Some just don't care. I'd rather for it to be a nice ass but it doesn't have to be big.

Montana07 · Answer

I have a huge ass LOL but seriously I think it all depends on the chemistry you have not what your butt looks like

Storm_Soldier2377 · Answer

It's like height with women, some like it but wouldn't be a dealbreaker if absent, some however do find it a dealbreaker, others don't care at all.

Browneye57 · Answer

Foggedaboudit. You can't change it anyway. Just find a guy that likes YOU just the way you are.

nasty4fun · Answer

Just because I said no don't mean that I don't like a nice juicy ass. I just would not let that choose my woman for me.

_dardorsama_ · Answer

Some guys are into small butts so don't worry there is someone for everyone

Anonymous · Answer

Small everything > small butt & big boobs > big boobs & big butt > small boobs & big ass. Ass is least important to me. Big ass makes you look all bottom heavy (lol pun) and pear shaped.

Philyouup · Answer

i prefer the smaller asses.. A Kardashian ass is way to big..

Pizza_lover159 · Answer

Depends on the guys. But as long as you have a pussy they dont care.

walt0462 · Answer

Since the majority of woman have little to not butt it's not a big deal

Aenetoo · Answer

I like girls with tight behinds. And medium behinds.

PrivateJim · Answer

No, quite the opposite for me haha. Smaller, tighter ass is way nicer

minded62 · Answer

It shouldn't matter but clearly thats all people think about

Anonymous · Answer

Are you super skinny? If that's the issue, eat more. Are you Asian? Lol but it really doesn't matter. How many guys have you heard of that love Asian girls? They usually have your same "problem."

yugiibhi · Answer

I think for the most part guys like alittle bit of cushion back there

bhavy24 · Answer

Big boobs or ass or pretty face dats all if a guy wants den he is too shallow to be wid in life

Piteka5 · Answer

Should be an opinion like "it's good but not that important"

ItsMeMarie95 · Answer

I have a big but and c cup boobs. More guys tend to wanna touch my butt and tell me that thats what drew them.

Anonymous · Answer

For me it is. Im black and its in my blood. I met a thick dominican today and i couldnt keep my eyes off her ass. I felt like a pervert

Modell054 · Answer

hell yeah u needa have a fat ass or im gone or im finna cheat on u

DracoLuciusMalfoy · Answer

A "Big dick" is important to girls so yeah "ass" is important to guys.

MrBurke · Answer

I don't give a rat's flying ass about (no pun intended) chicks with big butts

Anonymous · Answer

No, and you can always workout for a nicer ass anyway

JasleenKaur · Answer

Yeah it actually matters

On_the_other_hand · Answer

Not into really big asses

Prakbio · Answer

exercise like squats may help you out

AxisDeer · Answer

Beauty is just skin-deep.

rgb008 · Answer

yeah. thats why I am single

MarilynMansonsSlvt · Answer

Nah I'm a stick xx ~ Mrs Manson

jacquesvol · Answer

No, it is not important. .

OpenWine · Answer

I don't understand what's going on in this new age

btgs012 · Answer

I am not even in to looking at girls asses.

Lance1965 · Answer

Not important at all.

OrhanKultigin · Answer

Not really. The ass chan be changed by doing sport

stormbreaker06 · Answer

a big ass means everything.

Noodle_fan · Answer

I like wide hips. Wider= hotter

vald9inches · Answer

it doesn't really matter honestly

SwagsMcBags · Answer

I prefer really big asses.

Cask23 · Answer

I actually like a tight booty on a fit women.

Anonymous · Answer

No! Big tits and a small ass are much better.

tozier101 · Answer

idc, i'm more into personality than looks

abc--123 · Answer

I like a nice ass but it's not overly important

HereIbe · Answer

Ain't what you got, it's how you USE what you got.

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