Finding a person attractive solely based on physical appearance is so degrading when their personality is what's considered the most attractive. Honestly, I'd be good with any girl of any size if she loved me unconditionally as I would to her! Having a smaller bottom means you'll fit into a lot more clothing and exercising will be easier too! Every body size has its perks and cons; you'll know a guy is a keeper if they don't prioritize your body over your personality first! There certainly are a lot of men out there who'd love a woman with a small bottom! I just think society believes bigger breasts/bottoms makes a woman more attractive to men in general but that's subjective depending on the person. You have nothing to worry about here :)
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... This again? Man I should write a myTake about this topic.
Guys do. not. want. girls with big fat flabby asses. Quality, attractive guys want girls with tight, hot, fit, shapely asses. Asses like THIS:
NOT this:
I mean hey! that ^ ass is *big* isn't it? Girls need to stop deluding themselves about this whole GUYS WANT BIG ASSES thing when it's not true. The only reason people think it's true is because of one popular shitty rap song from 1990 and this whole modern "fat acceptance" movement thing that's putting fat girls in more media roles. It's not true. It's dumb.
Well, men say they love “female” asses, whatever that’s supposed to mean.. So, based on that, you’d think they wouldn’t care. However, in reality, they’d probably rather fuck a male or shemale with a good amount of ass than a female with a small one.
who cares what others sexual preferences are if you’re not trying to sexually objectify your body, right?
Also, more people need to appreciate the variety and stop comparing.
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A big ass is BAD!
Why?
Because big asses get bigger.
Look at Nicki Minaj or Kim Kardashian!
Their asses can be seen from space!
This "big ass" fad isn't real; it's bullshit made up in the celebrity media.
Throughout your life, you will be insecure because you don't look like the latest fashion/make-up/body trend. It's all bullshit though. So, when you get insecure in the future, always look back at old movies or TV shows. Look at the boobs, butt, make-up, etc. of the "beauties" in those broadcasts.
Sooner or later, you will realize that there is something of a certain classic standard to beauty and that's just basically a nice proportional shape - the kind most women have.
So, next time you see some guy say how much he loves an ass so big that it has its own gravity, just laugh and realize he's an easily duped idiot.As an ass guy myself I'm going to say no. Usually women will complain about their small boobs and I have to tell them that I don't care about the size of their boobs. I'm not a boob guy, I'm an ass guy. And it's not so much about how big the ass is, though it helps, it's about the way it looks and feels. A nice bubble butt is ideal. With that said I've fallen for a girl in the past that pretty much has no ass whatsoever. I still liked her. A nice bubble butt of an ass is eye candy in the same way a man who is ripped is eye candy to women. Pretty much all women that are into men with ab, shoulder, arm, back muscles and even so much as to verbally point out how intoxicated they are when they see a man who is physically ripped to shreds, they still have no problem dating a guy that doesn't meet those standards at all because at the end of the day it's eye candy.
You can have a big ass and they`d still leave you for another, that maybe has a smaller ass than you lol.
So there`s that.
But to me its not. I honestly could care less. If you have a nice bum that cool, that`s a bonus i guess. But not that i`d really focus on that when looking for a partnerIf you have no ass focus on SHAPE. You can still create a cute plump butt. Continue working on squats and hip thrusts.
I LOVE ass, but a cute shape is still amazing for smaller women who can’t grow a booty.I like the hourglass shape. If everything is proportionate then you are completely fine. If you look like a little boy then that's weird. But if you are like a fat chick with a deformed fat body then... no thanks. If you are not one of those extremes then you are fine.
There is no such thing as a "no ass" gene--only a "lazy ass" gene. Either go to the gym and squat or forfeit the right to complain.
Really? No ASSet pun?
It's an important ASSet. It looks real good and can keep a man's attention. Like any look it's a great lure but you have to know how to reel in the fish once it bites.Case by case basis, I won't lie to you having a big ass is very I would use the word igniting for most men including myself but you can be a girl with no ass and a pretty face or you know ass but big boobs and still catch men's attention reality is you don't have to have all the pieces sometimes you can get by with just two
Not to me. I prefer a smaller booty, not into the bigger shelf variety.
A thick butt is very attractive, dont get me wrong, but I can live without it. As long as she's a sweetheart who can make me laugh.
A big ass is a big damn ass. If you want to bulk it up, I fucking suggest you to do some motherfucking squats. It’s preference so it’s down to the person but I love me some ass.
God. Almost every guy I’ve dated has been willing to crawl on the ground to be near my ass... I mean maybe it’s not a dealbreaker but yes, they do care.
Some guys are ass guys, some guys are tit guys, some guys don't really care. Just gotta find the right guy
A shapely butt is all thats needed. doesn't matter how small it is
No. Kim K, and Nicki Minaj are brainwashing young men and women.
As long as you dress according to your body type it doesn't really matter. It might matter for guys who are quick to judge girls based on their appearances but otherwise, it really doesn't matter. Just make the best out of your other gifts.
It's not that important, but you do want to make sure that you are maintaining your body and staying desirable.
It's not a one shoe fit all type of thing. Some guys yes. Some no. Some just don't care. I'd rather for it to be a nice ass but it doesn't have to be big.
I have a huge ass LOL but seriously I think it all depends on the chemistry you have not what your butt looks like
It's like height with women, some like it but wouldn't be a dealbreaker if absent, some however do find it a dealbreaker, others don't care at all.
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