Good girls vs. Bad girls - what's the difference?

[Anonymous]

I know this is subjective, but tell me what your definitions of each are. What do you think makes a good girl good and a bad girl bad?

I've been called a bad girl before, and I look at other girls who have been called bad girls and we are all so different as individuals that I can't quite get why I'm a bad girl. Well, other than sex. I guess some would call me a bad girl for sleeping around and sometimes the way I dance. I've "stolen" (as they call it) peoples boyfriends before, that kind of thing. Is that enough to be a bad girl? I thought there was more to it. lol

What is your definition of each type of girl and explain how you see them. Please and thank you. :)

[Anonymous]

bad girls are liars, they cheat a lot, they always want to be better than their friends and they put others down for their gain, they try really hard to gossip badly about other people, they also are arrogant, conceited, and think that they can mess around with every other girls man, they always and I mean always try to be nice to people just to get what they want then they will drop you like you were nothing but a tool to them, bad girls are just like bad boys... they are the sluts and whores who currupt and break hearts for nothing... for a numbers game.

whatever. I was never one of those. If I start something I want to finish it. I only tell someone I love them if I mean it. I am sincere, and I am always loyal and faithful. They tell the truth, and always always are NOT using you but offering to help others whenever they can. The good girls are the ones that will be there to catch you when you fall, they don't talk smack behind your back, and they don't try to stab you in the back by taking what's yours. They are super happy for you when your life goes well, and good girls always always ONLY love even when they are hated. Like for example someone calls me a terrible name and I say "that's offensive but it's just your opinion and you are entitled to your opinion but it's not what I think" see in my statement I didn't call them a name back. Good girls never falsely accuse or they never start violent things just because. etc etc.

I can go on but you get the drift. I'm sure you know what a good girl or a bad girl is.

[Asker]

erm...you do realize thatyou just contradicted yourself right? in your example you claim that you wouldn't call someone a name if they call you a name, but you just called bad girls/guys sluts and whores. is inconsistency part of your criteria for being a good girl? lol



anyway you have a pretty interesting idea on what they are, I don't see things the same way but after all, that was the point of this question. :)

[Opinion Owner]

i wouldn't say it to their faces, but yes I do label them

[Asker]

so that's hypocritical then. you specifically said "good girls don't talk smack behind your back..now you're saying you will call them names, just not to their faces. lol talking about people behind their backs is not equivalent to all the things you mentioned like sincerity, telling the truth, loving everyone even when you are hated. and by the way I think its pretty clear you have a bit of loathing to bad girls/guys by the way you described them. I didn't get "love" from reading that. ha ha

[Asker]

And if you have this attitude of disgust toward them, will talk behind their backs, etc. I find it hard to believe you would offer them help and be nice to them on a daily basis. Even if you did, you just admitted it wouldn't be genuine. So basically...everything you said about being a good girl is b.s.? Love it. xD

[Opinion Owner]

I didn't read all you said, but I am not friends with them so what they do makes them what they are. I would not talk bad about a friend behind their back if their reputation is so clean, what's there bad to talk about?

[Asker]

You can do whatever you want, I'm not disputing that. You have a right to choose your friends according to your own morals and stuff, I'm just pointing out that you contradicted what you said. If you would have said, I will only be nice, sincere, and non-name calling and gossiping to my friends, then that's one thing. you said "always always" like twice or something and you painted what I saw to be a very false persona of the typical "good girl." I was just pointing it out for arguments sake.

[Opinion Owner]

I would not use anyone, even if they were my enemy. I would not hate someone, as in pay them back for what they have done (like if they stole my money). But if they aren't my friend, yes I will call them out for what they have done. as stealer is a stealer, and a whore is a whore. I would point out to my friend she is being a bad person/stealer/liar -i.e. labeling, if she is that, until she changes and apologizes. but I make sense to myself, so that's all that matters. good day

[Asker]

Oh yes, only what's in your own head is what matters. That's a great way of looking at the world. lol I'll have a great day, you have a great day too. :)

[dwiller943]

Good Girl= Respectful, has more to offer than her body,
makes the right choices, can have fun without hurting others
or opening her legs easily.

Bad Girl= Wild, drama queen, evil, manipulative, self-centered,
takes advantage of people, has nothing to offer but sex,
can't have fun on her own or without hurting others.

[SavageInsight]

Good girls and bad girls depends on what age group you fit in (whether or not you're actually that old. Katy Perry still fits like she's almost 19).

Has nothing to do with how smart or pretty you are.

A Good Girl is someone who behaves the way society says is clean. She can be naughty, but only after she's with someone and only with that one guy, and keeps pdas sweet and pg-13 (no straddling in public).

Good girls usually aren't mean types, more nice, smiles, playground fun, maybe angelic (but seriously doesn't have to be).

To me, good girls can be strong and independent OR obedient "daddy's girls" - but to a lot of chauvinists, "good girls" aren't very free-willed.

A good girl's charm isn't about sex, it's about clean spirit.

A bad girl is someone who does what she wants without thinking about how she behaves. Fun is all about thrill, feeling powerful, guys (maybe girls), and glowing with sex in some way or another.

It doesn't take a lot to be a "bad girl" - it takes a lot for a "good girl" to be a "bad girl" because it means changing so much, and vice versa.

People say you're "bad" because there's a lot of risk to being free this way, and most girls/women look for a one special guy they like submitting to (dropping your guard), but a bad girl might not.

Dance a little dirty, look at people like they're gourmet chocolate brownies, be a little easy, and love sex in the open.

That's a "bad girl."

[MrMysteryMan]

LOL that's a really tough question to pin down a definite answer to.

I mean a bad girl to one person could be their best girl or good girl. And visa versa.

I guess a bad girl to me would be a girl without morals or a sense of feeling or worth. So much so, that she wants to destroy others' around her or tries to make others around her sink down to her level. But all the while laughing (internally or externally) about it like it's a joke or fun.

[MrMysteryMan]

Woops forgot the good girl.

Good girl is a girl that tries to improve herself or others around her and has a natural care for the world around her.

[cjwright79]

A good girl is a goody-two-shoes, too obediant to her parents, too accepting of corrupt authorities, and so on. A bad girl doesn't give enough of a sh*t about dignity and self-respect.

[darkknight1x]

Bad girls are sluts and they're the kind you want to hookup with and never marry.

Good girls are a goody-two-shoes and they're the kind that are ideal to marry and be great housewifes.