There are good girls and there are bad girls, at least that's what we've been told.
But what is really the difference between good girls and bad girls?
Or maybe there is no difference?
What do you think?
There are good girls and there are bad girls, at least that's what we've been told.
But what is really the difference between good girls and bad girls?
Or maybe there is no difference?
What do you think?
Good Girl's ~
She makes her own decisions while taking advice from others and is to a large extent self-dependent financially, physically, and emotionally.
She is so busy with her life that she has no time to judge whether another person or herself is good or bad.
She understands that people in real life unlike movies are not black or white, people are gray.
She is a woman who values honesty and integrity, who tells the truth even when it's difficult or not what she thinks you want to hear.
She is a woman who is compassionate and kind, not petty or mean-spirited.
She is a woman who understands that neither she nor anyone else is perfect, and who deals with her own failings and those of others with grace.
She is someone who is secure and confident, who tries without compromising her own values to be on good terms with others but still lives life as she is, not as others want her to be.
Bad Girls ~
They flirt with other men while in a relationship
They are proud of being promiscuous
They love to get into fights
They are bossy and demanding
They play the victim all the time
They have men fighting for their affection
They trash their bodies with drugs and alcohol
They are bold in expressing their sexuality in public
Their mouth is filthy (when cursing)
They are inconsistent with their feelings and emotions which leads to “Men fighting each other for their affection”
They start chaos by bad-mouthing other people and convincing communities that the people they bad-mouthed are bogyman/woman
They love gossip
They don’t take care of their appearance
One mistake/flaw a guy shows and he is ghosted
Good girls are marriage material. They have self respect, self esteem, don't dress like a desperate street walker & don't sleep around. These ones are women who are responsible for their actions and act respectfully.
Bad girls are sluts, whores, prostitutes. They have little self esteem, little self respect, dress like a street walker (prostitute) and sleep around. These ones are the women used by men because they're cheap easy sex and have little value beyond that, but blame men rather than look in the mirror.
Suppose you've been chatting to a girl in a pub and she's happily been accepting drinks off you all night. Now a good girl would offer you head at the end of the night while a bad one would walk away.
A bad girl shows up with her tits on display. A bad girl will fuck on the first date, including anal sex, and have sex with a different guy tomorrow. . . just because he had a fancy car or spent money on her. And she probably wants to meet your ex as soon as possible so she can suggest a threesome.
A good girl appears for the first date looking like a girl you would be proud to introduce to your family. A good girl will rarely fuck on the first date, and if she does its missionary position. She's thinking about something serious as soon as she starts liking you, and probably won't talk to the guy tomorrow who has a fancy car. She probably wants to meet your parents as soon as possible.
The main differences:
The trouble for men is that they don’t properly understand how to tell the two apart, believing in false dichotomies. This makes them unfairly label good women as bad, and also makes them more easily fooled by bad women pretending to be good.
Well said. 🥂
Good girls are virgins and know how to cook and clean. Bad girls are women who sleep around with any old man they can. ( What I hear from the yoots today )
So what about women who knows how to cook clean and also sleeps around. What are they called?
@Radiate143 Multifaceted?
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From what I’ve observed:
Good girls are the type you bring home to your mama. Sort of the ‘girl next door’ type.
Bad girls are the party type who have the whole ‘I don’t give a fuck’ attitude along with the ‘don’t mess with me’ attitude.
Don’t get me wrong, good girls can also be party girls/have that ‘I don’t give a fuck’ attitude (just usually in a more polite way) and bad girls can also be the ‘girl next door’ type. It’s just that these are the cliches I’ve seen sometimes in real life, but mostly in movies😂
Mmmm… I think others have done a good job of coming up with differences, however there’s a grey area and I think I’m apart of it. I will be loyal to a fault, be honest, loving, supportive, etc. but I’m also not afraid to fuck and suck on the first date, will tell a guy how it is if he’s trying to mess with me, and just like shit talking for fun. I’m kind and respectful but I also have a trash mouth at times too. I am humble to the right guy but I’m also super prideful if I’m not being treated right.
A bad girl knows that deep down, most men are really just little boys, and she uses this knowledge to benefit both herself as well as the guys she encounters, whereas a good girl always tries to reassure the men she meets that they're masculine and virile.
Good girls care about pleasing other people at the risk of being happy or well liked.
Bad girls focus on what pleases themselves at the risk of making other people unhappy.
I think we all grow up to be a little more "bad" as we age and mature but otherwise need to maintain a balance between the two.
People can have different standards and criteria when they use this phrase but generally, throughout the generations it mainly meant:
Good girl: good morals, values, sex is reserved for love and a long term relationship or marriage. She is trustworthy and loyal. She is family oriented.
Bad girl: a promiscuous woman who will have sex with many, many partners and will sleep with someone she's just met. Is often out late at night, drinks heavily and is often not sober. She is up to give easy access to her sexually after a few hours. She is fun for a night but not who you want to marry or bring home to mom.
The same difference between good and bad people. Bad girls are bullies, schemeing, liars, two faced, Machiavellian in nature, they are usually weak but mean, and gossip and use relational aggression instead of confronting. Good girls are honest, strong, noble, brave. They are really rare and precious.
"Good girls are honest, strong, noble, brave. They are really rare and precious." ✨️🫂❤️
A good girl on this site summed it up pretty good. Her bad-girl roommate goes out on dates every night. She gets gifts. She gets taken on vacations. She gets invited to all the parties. The good girl said that her reward for being good is to sit on the couch every night and cry herself to sleep.
I'm not taking sides, I'm just saying that the universe is about polarity. For every plus there is an equal minus.
Good girls have the desire to be naughty but they refuse to damage their long-term advantages and prospects of marriage to high-value guys for one night of pleasure. Bad girls are about now and never later.
Instead of writing stupid things a lot, age does not make you mature; being old does not make you an adult. The good woman is an adult woman who has grown up; the bad one is one who has remained a child.
Current society wants female to remain children in their heads so that they consume more.
The difference is mindset, relative to how they display themselves and for whom they display themselves (very publicly for all to see vs for their significant other). Just my opinion/experience
Good or Bad, this is not qualifying the girl. But it could qualify the interaction of a girl with another being.
I am good with some and bad with others.
So this definition is very relative.
Good girls - don’t trust easily on a whim, more reserved, analytical, learns from mistakes, honest, loyal, good communication, problem-solver, can work with as a team, doesn’t give up
Bad girls - enjoys eyes on them, likes to have sex just for the pleasure but nothing long term, doesn’t notice when they make mistakes, manipulative, doesn’t see red flags
I mean I could go on, just my thoughts on it
I would set the difference in whether a girl is a good or bad choice to have a relationship with. That depends for instance on what a guy is looking for. I don´t think there are generally that good and bad is a character trait.
I find it fascinating that so many people immediately jump to sexual behaviors to distinguish a good girl from a bad one, as if that's where the quintessential difference lies. Hmmm. Fascinating.
well morality self control loyalty aee important.
@strateguy632 Whose morality? The point I was making is the jump to sexuality when good girl vs bad girl is mentioned. Believe it or not, there are more important things to determining a good or bad girl than just body count.
i guess good girls don't give blowjobs... and bad girls give blowjobs and swallow cum on 1st dates.
😂 Political correct answer...
In every one there's good and there is bad. 😄
So even bad girls can be good,
And good girls can be bad..
Bad Girls will destroy you, mentally, and physically, if they know they can. Good girls are always gonna be there, helping you or making you feel better with yourself; unless you are a bad guy.
Honestly, there's not much difference at all. Good or bad both women want resourceful men. It's just that good women also perform wifey duties and can be marriage material while bad can't. Many girls go through a phase where they behave badly in their twenties and good in their thirties. Overall it's an illusion, there's no pure good/bad. People act as per their self-interest first.
"Bad" girls can get into any kind of trouble easily, but they really don't care and take risks. I guess that's it.
Wait a minute... The lady on the left with the glasses and buttoned up collar is probably the bad one. She's fooling us! LOL...
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