I think I'll be forever alone. Guys around my age (25-30) don't look at me. Only old (almost my dad age) men or teenagers. My closest friends say I look like a "big baby", saying I', baby faced and have petite rounded features. I'm not chubby neither dress like a girl. Yet sometimes I wonder If for real, I'm "asexual" looking. Guys who approached me, tend to play this paternalistic figure, acting as protectors. Some had said I look cute and trustworthy, yet those aren't sexy features. Anyway, I wonder if men find attractive women who seem "babyish"? I'll put some pictures to offers a clearer type of babyish look on celebs.
If you are having trouble finding men that don't take the protector role, you might need to approach them yourselves though. If you don't want to look like someone who needs protection, you should take the initiative yourself, simple as that.
I have a friend who is a bit like you. In her case, she is just really small, thus people consider her cute, like a little sister. She met her boyfriend by walking towards him and just stating what she wants, and daring him to go further. Although her boyfriend still teases her a bit with her appearance, there is no doubt that he considers her as an equal. And that is because every situation the both of them are in, she takes as much charge of the situation as he does.
So in short: if you don't want protective boyfriends/guys, act like you don't need protection, despite your appearance.
Hey I want to know what your friend said to her bc when she went up and said whatever it was she says to him. I think it’s swesome and I’m curious😊
@VIVANT It was about six a seven years ago (and they are still together ^^), and I wasn't there myself (heard the story of her afterwards), but from what I remember she just walked up to him and got close to him. He thought she would back off if he got closer as well, intimidated by his length. She didn't, and instead challenged him to go closer even.
The exact story might have been a bit different, but in the core it was him expecting her to back down, and her just showing defiance and initiative.
They did a study one time to find the most attractive face. When they averaged thousands of women's faces out and created an amalgamation from them. That was rated as highly attractive. But when they introduced slight baby features that influenced the result by 10%, the woman was rated as even more attractive.
Not all men would shoes that, but I don't think you want to be attractive to all men anyway. You will find a man, who sees you as his ideal. Don't worry girl, because he is out there.
Well i have the same problem... or shall i say blessing... can't do anything about it. i just feel happy that when in future i go to my kids school i will look like their sister😜
Cute and trustworthy are very good qualities. Petite is too. Nothing wrong with that. I like the second picture better, but I'm not sure who that is. And yes, I'd date someone with those qualities.
this is good to hear, haha thank you. mostly bc i always hear a lot about guys wanting tall girls, and also short girls, but then a lot of guys say 'average' is short.
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