Why do guys like grabbing girls butts when dancing, so much?

[Alice2398]

So when ever I go clubbing a start dancing with a guy they ALWAYS go for my butt and they will do it to other girls. Its as if to their hands just magically slip there. The other day I went out clubbing with work and a engage Co worker of mine was being very aggressive whilst dancing with me, he was pulling me around like a rag doll and being very grabby. My sisters were also with me and said he was the same with them and he wouldn't stop grabbing are butt's. I tried to move his hands away but he'd just do it again, he was such a creep when at work he extremely shy and awkward.

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+1 y

It was a ghoth club by the way, full of lots of head bangers and screamo music

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+1 y

I wasn't even dancing with him at the time he did it, I was dancing with my sister and he kept grabbing at us and trying to hug

[addy_anarchy]

I'm not a guy but here's possible reasons (guys tell me if you agree): they're drunk, high, they don't think it's that bad and they want a bit of adrenaline, they think you're asking for it/ wouldn't be there if you didn't want any action, they just want to feel it and they don't think you'd catch them/make a big deal, it's a way of flirtation that's more masculine/assertive so they think you're more likely to say yes. Yes that's what I've came up with, and what made more sense.

[DublinRollerGirl]

Ha, he has you girls bamboozled. He can grab your butts under the guise of dancing and feel you up good. Unless the nip it in the bud he will be grabbing more than ass.

What the fuck?

[On_the_other_hand]

It is kinda the norm at clubs... it doesn't mean it is ok but keep in mind where you are. If you were at a swingers resort you would expect to see naked people having sex. When you are at a club that is where guys grab girls butt isn't some rare occurrence.

I also think the kind of club is a big factor. I don't think that happens at a swing dancing club but I would expect it at a hip hop/rap club.

[Anonymous]

When clubbing, a lot of guys consider it open time to grab girl's butts, because they seem to think the girl wouldn't be out clubbing and dancing, is they didn't want their butt's grabbed. Also, dancing does have erotic aspects to it, especially the kind of dancing that is common in clubs, which arouses guys, and when aroused, they get more handy.

[TonyMetal86]

I'd never touch such places in a girl unless she was my girlfriend that i'm going to marry or of course if she was my wife...

I respect a woman because i excpect to be respected, since i don't tolerate impolitness, i shall be polite...

Touch a girl's butt means he touched one her private places and he does not have the right for it.

The actual person who truly have the right to touch his girl anywhere he wants and at anytime is the husband towards his wife.

[FunkyMonkee]

I haven't danced in decades so, I've never done that with a girl but, I'm guessing when a guy does that, he's probably pushing her up against him so she can feel his plonker without actually feeling it! Hopefully, she'll get the idea that he's horny for her and she'll want to take matters into her own hand, as it were, and they'll be off to bed in no time.

[FunkyMonkee]

Okay, maybe he just likes your particular ass.

[scorchedwater]

i HATE that stupid shit. mine is always from the back. if i bend over just slightly, i'm immediately grabbed by the waist and a dumbass positions himself behind me. men are bold as fuck.

[TripleAce]

cause its jiggling... and its fun to touch something that jiggles...
to be fair if you had a jiggling bowl of jello... id probably wanna touch that too

[Ankitasingh466]

My hubby grabs my boobs. Specially the right one. I'm wondering why he neglects my left one so much 🤔

[PHANTOM13]

aren't your boobs identical? or maybe he likes the right one for some reason

[WhereAmI]

Sleazy club + sleazy guys = girl butt grabbing 😐😮😬😂

[windknowsmyname]

i dont do that, im not those guys so i dunno why they do it.

[NYCQuestions1976]

It's an old math formula:

People + alcohol + music + darkness = repeated ass grabbing.

[rachel776]

plus it's step one toward doggy

[NYCQuestions1976]

@rachel776 Yes that's true. I also forgot to add twerking.

[rachel776]

twerking is just "fuck me in the ass on national television"

[NYCQuestions1976]

@rachel776 😂😂😂😂 Awesome.

[NYCQuestions1976]

@rachel776 That'd be some reality program. LOL

[rachel776]

just watch any music awards show

[NYCQuestions1976]

@rachel776 That's extremely true.

[genericname85]

maybe you make them believe you wanna be touched xD but some dudes are just mindless creeps. can't really help that.

[HaveNoName]

I think they do it because they keep getting away with it. They just need one kick in the nuts that could teach them a lesson forever.

[smahala1991]

That's creepy, but I would say it's possibly the alcohol

[Guanfei]

Butts are always attractive, it's just that while dancing, you can do more than just look at it.

[pizzalovershouse]

cuz they want to get a girl to say let's go home not all guys do this

[Nadim171]

Well it's never without insisting. I think that's a little redicilous to do if that's not like your own girlfriend or wife...

[Secret6620]

Honestly they will grab anything.

[Slim57]

It's the drinking probably

[PrincessGrail]

Creepy

[weaverman]

He is just a creep, most guys don't grab butts

[Anonymous]

It gives instant erection