Do all guys want sex?

[Anonymous]

When a guy likes a girl is his main reason for sexual involvement?

[markscott]

Almost all guys like sex. There are some exceptions. The main reason for a guy and girl getting together is to form a relationship that helps them to get to know each other better and to learn about relationships and how to successfully manage them. The questions of 'do all guys want sex' has different possibilities in an answer. Yes, almost all guys want sex, but that does not mean they want sex now, or in the near or even longer future. It also depends on the guy. Some guys see relationship as means to getting sex. But don't be fooled, not all guys see a relationship with a girl as a way to get sex. Some of them care about girls, and want to get to know the girl they find attractive both physically and personality wise. If you have a guy who is pressuring for sex, then he is only looking out for what he wants, and not caring about what you needs are and what you want. Thee are plenty of guys who will care about you as a person, not just as a fuck, and will not expect sex from you. In he end, it all depends on the guy's motives, and how much he actually cares about you.

[asd_nasa]

Eventually yes, you're question is kind of stupid though lol. If a guy is likes (as in sexually attracted to) is his main reason for sexual involvment lmao. 200 iq question right here, nah i'm messing with you, when you reply and clarify i'll answer you the way you want to be answered

[Asker]

Lmao ok well I find myself nervous and timid to get into relationships w guys I like Bc I know what they want. I have morals and don’t want to give it up for a long time. It’s not that I don’t have urges. I just get so grossed out by the thought of it all. I’ve never even kissed a guy and at my age most people have done a lot of shit and I don't know why I feel like that.

[asd_nasa]

I know exactly what you mean, and to be truthful guys have very strong sexual urges, they want to hook up with the prettiest girl they see (because it's in their innate biological nature). So, that is not to say guys don't want to have sex with you for different reasons. There are three main things in a woman that attract men, and they each have different values in relationship to each other depending on the guy: The face catches the visual attention, the persona catches the intellectual attention, and the body catches the sexual attention. If a guy is attracted to each and every one of these factors, then he is very attracted to you and he won't use you. Finding someone who you are attracted to in each of these aspects is very rare, as they are often considered the One. however as it is so rare, most of the men you encounter will mostly only be attracted to your face or your body, in which case yes they just want to have sex with you. If you get along with them, and they are not just flirting and you feel like you genuinely click, try holding off sex and see what happens. The guy who truly loves you and is romantically interested in building a relationship with you will do almost ANYTHING for you, and i mean that. If I were to suddenly happen upon a girl who I knew was everything I wanted, I'd do anything for her that was reasonable. I'd suffer for her, but if she was just another really pretty girl, and i didn't "click" with her persona then no of course i could care less. Most guys just want to have sex for the enjoyment of it-be careful of those guys, they just want to get in your pants and will only talk to you to do so, possibly at least

[Asker]

Thank you so much for your insight!! It’s hard for me to tell what a guy wants from me sometimes. Are there any signs I should look for to stay clear of a guy who only wants sex?

[asd_nasa]

Yes, guys who are genuinely interested in you will love listening to you and conversing/hanging out with you, whilst a guy who just wants to have sex with you willl essentially be waiting to skip the conversation and “quality time” to sex. A guy who wants to use you won’t view you anything more than a sex object, and will treat you as such. He may be excessively flirtatious, vulgar, and forward in his attempts to sleep with you. Body language wise, there isn’t much to tell

[Anonymous]

Not really. For sex, they’d sleep with anyone, and so they’d choose to sleep with men a lot more often since they’re more attracted to them and they’re easier. Women for men are really just a convenience and a way to get biological children.

[Gab_ss]

Wow that's a really interesting way to look at this situation. I never thought that straight dudes would just casually have sex with other guys. I'm intrigued.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, many “straight” dudes have sex with guys, and most want to. It’s your lucky day to have discovered this. Surprised u haven’t noticed it on ur own. Anyway, you’re welcome.

[Gab_ss]

Hahaha "lucky day" I see you. And yes indeed it's good to know. Honestly I would never know cuz straight guys usually let it VERY clear that they would never do it with another guy.

[Opinion Owner]

Well, most are in the closet, so ofc they’d say that.

[MissChasityL]

At your age yes.. the boys can’t keep it in their pants

[GreatSworl]

You know the answer to your question. Humans want to have sex. Girls and boys cannot be friends lol. Down the line on of you will think of fucking each other. So yea all boys want a chance to fuck unless they are like old or like lived their life and their sex drive is low

[turd_of_warning]

Not necessarily. You should be able to gage it from how much he respects you.

[Asker]

Respect like how?

[turd_of_warning]

Like you would judge a friend. Do they seem sincere? Do they listen to you, or are they just waiting for their turn to speak? Do they respect your opinions? Are they present with you or do they seem distant?

If a guy mostly wants sex with you, sooner or later, it will show. He will become impatient, or he will be disrespectful to you in some way. Because he mainly sees you as a vehicle for his sexual pleasure. Whereas if he loves you as a person, he will treat you like a person. He will enjoy simply spending time with you, getting to know you.

Of course most guys want sex too, so it's probably good to cut him a bit of slack. Nobody's perfect.

[Guardian45]

No, not necessarily. The vast majority of my close friends are female. I don't have many male friends.

[Tyffen]

Not for me... but I'm not the spokesperson for all men. Lol

[rpgeek]

Not most if the time. Sometimes a guy might just want a hookup but most of the time a guy is looking for a long term relationship.

[HungLikeAHorsefly]

Yeah but I mean we want other stuff too. Like pizza and money

[Bad_Man55]

Usually is a big driver for it but isn't everything

[DECENTSCOTTISHLAD999]

For me its to find out what the girl likes to do where she likes to go the list never ends

[humanearth]

Yeah, it called mating and survivor of the human kind

[FunkyMonkee]

Do all girls want babies?

[Guardian45]

Well-put

[FunkyMonkee]

@Guardian45 Thank you!

[_dude_]

No, so you´re saying guys in general don´t want to fuck?

[FunkyMonkee]

@_dude_ No, I'm saying SOME guys don't want to fuck, others just don't want to fuck girls. My niece doesn't want to have kids and I've heard from a number of other women that they don't want to so, the answer is, not all guys want to fuck just as not all girls want to have babies.

[Hurdleez-Swampede]

Men have the need to pass seed.

[7injust4urmouth]

No but it awesone to and to know she will

[jason222]

not always. has this been ur expereince so far?

[Asker]

No I’m just scared to get into a relationship not knowing if that’s all they want and then finding out the wrong way

[jason222]

@yassyay oh yeah makes sense. have u had a boyfriend yet?

[Asker]

Nope

[jason222]

@yassyay can u pm me?

[Asker]

Can I what

[Asker]

Ur anon I can’t

[jason222]

@yassyay now im not

[reptocarl]

At your age yes

[sasukeuchiha7]

I don't want it. Never even had it yet.

[Gab_ss]

Being an adult virgin rocks am I right? ✋

[sasukeuchiha7]

I don't really care either way. Never made an effort for it.

[Vesta]

Nope

Asexuality

[Anonymous]

Yes. When need puss. Shit..

[TheWombRaider]

YESS