What does it mean when a guy asks you to squeeze his butt?

[serenaluna666]

We are not close and he just broke up with his girlfriend.

he likes you

he’s a douche

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thanks already to everybody helped! New opinions are always welcome 😊

[Jjpayne]

It sounds sexy and fun. It sounds kinda like a dare... But if you are taking offers... :) you can sign me up :)

But I'd say he is for sure being playful and not being serious. However, I wonder if he was wanting to lead into something else... That would a time to think about what you are comfortable with. Cause I might go as a girl, only if you match it with a kiss... And see how he responds... But i will always say plan to be safe and stay safe. Rape is real, just be careful but have fun... just be careful

[Jjpayne]

I did see the word jerk down there, it is possible that's the case too... I would use your judgement to know how to respond

[serenaluna666]

We’re not that close but I’m sure he’s a good person, I’m not considering rape... However I am not sure if he’s a jerk or not. I mean, jerks are not necessarily BAD people.

[Jjpayne]

That is a very interesting point. Jerks are not bad people

[Reapous]

He could like you AND be a douche. But yeah, I don't know what guy would ask that.

[serenaluna666]

I don't know either... If you like, my last question is about the same guy, maybe it will help you to find out a little more about the situation! I’d be glad to hear your opinion! Thanks already. :)

[Reapous]

I'll get on that right now then.

[Reapous]

So, I'm doubling down on what I've already said. I'm almost certain, considering you guys have a little bit of history, that he likes you and I guess asking you to squeeze his butt is his way of flirting? That's my best guess anyways.

[serenaluna666]

You’re probably right, thank you! 😊

[Reapous]

Anytime.

[gorman24]

Most likely he likes you but it is a very odd request. That being said he may not know exactly what he wants as he just broke up. Be very careful with that as he may just be using you as a rebound. People don't like being alone most of the time and getting together for the wrong reason could turn into a big disappointment.

[serenaluna666]

Agreed, and I ofc hate the idea of being a rebound, in fact I see your point. Thank you!! :)

[gorman24]

You are welcome. Just don't get hung up on the idea. Some crushes are better off just left crushes.

[Dreagon]

It's probably both I guess. Asking that out of nowhere is weird and a bit of a douche move but I personally wouldn't ask something like that off someone I wasn't interested in.

[serenaluna666]

ikr, he was also in a group of friends and I was the “outsider”, I could see the other only girl in the group had her jaw dropping when he said that. lol

[smahala1991]

he's probably a jerk. by the way Sam Manson was my cartoon crush back in the day

[serenaluna666]

Yes, but sometimes people are like that because of their own insecurities. We cannot forget we are all humans and deserve a chance! Plus I have already been thinking a lot about him (for too long) and I don’t think anything could possibly make it worse so... And, really? hehe :)

[smahala1991]

Yep she was hot af.

[markscott]

I don't really understand why a guy would ask that. It's odd.

[Therisinghero12]

Depends on the context, but probably some kind of flirting xD

[thegirlfromthething]

It could very well be both.

[serenaluna666]

I actually have the same point of view!

[Himan241]

That means weird 😟

[serenaluna666]

haha yes. My first reaction was like: wtf? And the worse is that I actually have feelings for him. So I’m scared he could be just making fun of me or something.

[Himan241]

Try telling him to go first that’s the fun😋

[serenaluna666]

No way I’d do that... Plus I already missed this chance! haha

[Himan241]

You got your answer I suppose 🤗

[serenaluna666]

yes, thank you!

[Himan241]

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[Anonymous]

Thats kinda sexual

[serenaluna666]

why would he do that tho?

[Opinion Owner]

He wants to get physically intimate with you

[serenaluna666]

possibly but not the best way of doing it ofc! Should I do anything about it? (I am into him)

[Opinion Owner]

Has forgotten his ex , because he might say yes to you but use you as a rebound

[serenaluna666]

most likely, thank you!

[Anjali090]

That he is gay

[humanearth]

Ask him not us