On average? Just an easy pickup. Same reason lions feast on the old sick and frail. Higher percentages. there might be a few out there that its the genuine preference
Mostly attractive women are attractive and it doesn't have everything to do with age.
Someone can be 20 and be hideous and another women sitting next to that person is 40 and beautiful would still get more attention than the 20 year old.
When I reached my 20s i wanted someone who was mature. Something that wasn't so dramatic. In my mind to go after someone older made sense. So yes i find older women attractive but not bc it's a fantasy thing.
If we're talking 8-10 year age difference and up, you could probably find plenty of fun, sexual short term offerings but majority of guys are probably not going to want something serious with that big of an age gap.
Only if they're DTF. There is NO other reason. An older woman will NEVER consider a fuk-boy her equal. EVER.
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Younger guys go for anything with a pulse. Older guys may settle for older if she's not too much of a hassle. But ilder guys generally look for younger.
On old ships you learn to sail. That's about as far as young guys like older women. To hook-up and get experience.
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Yes, but they are often married or wouldn't consider us. I have considered dating older women long-term, but maybe not settling down and starting a family with them. If they want a steady relationship for 4-8 years I am all for it.
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"or do they see older women as a fantasy one night stand?"
Yes. They are either looking for a mommy or for sex... not a serious long term relationship.
I personally love older women.
They usually have more sense then women my age or younger.
And I see it as a sexual fantasy
It depends who the person is. I like my age and older. Any younger would be pushing legal boundaries 😅
On average? Just an easy pickup. Same reason lions feast on the old sick and frail. Higher percentages. there might be a few out there that its the genuine preference
NO!! That's an urban myth and everybody knows that. It's also contrary to the will of Almighty God!
For a hookup, maybe, but certainly not for starting a relationship or a family. Because declining fertility actually is a thing.
And I can already feel the incoming dislikes on that opinion.
So are you late 20's or 38 as your profile suggests?
I'm 38 but I look late 20's.
Thank you so much for clearing this up.
Mostly attractive women are attractive and it doesn't have everything to do with age.
Someone can be 20 and be hideous and another women sitting next to that person is 40 and beautiful would still get more attention than the 20 year old.
When I reached my 20s i wanted someone who was mature. Something that wasn't so dramatic. In my mind to go after someone older made sense. So yes i find older women attractive but not bc it's a fantasy thing.
If they've still got it, I wouldn't say no to a casual or short-term arrangement. I'd want someone closer to my age for long-term.
I'm open to this and, somehow, I tend to get the attention of quite a bit of ladies in their 30s and 40s.
I want to marry one to be honest, I want an older woman for a serious relationship and to spend my life with.
If we're talking 8-10 year age difference and up, you could probably find plenty of fun, sexual short term offerings but majority of guys are probably not going to want something serious with that big of an age gap.
I think YES. Very often I am approached by young guys.
Only if they're DTF. There is NO other reason.
An older woman will NEVER consider a fuk-boy her equal. EVER.
Younger guys go for anything with a pulse. Older guys may settle for older if she's not too much of a hassle. But ilder guys generally look for younger.
On old ships you learn to sail. That's about as far as young guys like older women. To hook-up and get experience.
Yes, but they are often married or wouldn't consider us. I have considered dating older women long-term, but maybe not settling down and starting a family with them. If they want a steady relationship for 4-8 years I am all for it.
A guy I consider like a little brother wants to date me not sure how I feel about it...
It’s good relationship
Because one member should be wise with experience