Why Don't Men Moan During Sex?

[Youryeodongsaeng]

I have always wondered this, why don't men moan during sex? Do they feel less pleasure or do they don't express their feelings through sex? I would want a man who will moan during sex, so his moans can let me know that he's loving the same heated sensation that I would feel.

[Anonymous]

First let me say we absolutely feel as much pleasure, even if no moaning. This might be hard for women to understand, but for a lot of us guys, it just feels "weird" to do it, kind of like "it's a woman thing"? I know it's ridiculous and isn't logical, but that's the FEELING we have. Myself, I will moan sometimes, however very little. It's not that I don't want to or anything, it's not on purpose, but I can't "force it" either. It just has to come naturally, and it will, but not often. But I absolutely still love it and enjoy it.

[Nadim171]

If you want me to moan I can 😂 but seriously toug, we just don't feel pain by it. We just breath a little louder

[Youryeodongsaeng]

Omg, you not a virgin?

[Nadim171]

I am a virgin. But I used to masturbate (and stopped for a long time)

[Effably]

Moaning is something most guys have to learn. That's not to say we can't do it or that it doesn't feel good but whether a social construct, perhaps linked to the ever quiet male pornstar or a biological quirk men are bad moaners. That doesn't mean you need to give up hope just yet.

Moaning is fairly natural to both men and women if the mouth isn't closed. So step one might be as simple as your guy keeping his lips slightly apart.
Aaand if you want the type of moans a girl does, weeell, that's something you can stand to wait another five or so years to learn about.

[buttcrackjoe]

Sex with a girl is the ultimate ego challenge for the man he is dead set on pleasing you by lasting long enough and being engorged enough. You have no idea the pressure a man is under to “be a man” and do everything just right. We dont have the mental space to process superfluous moans whist we perform the highwire walk between giving up and letting go of the nut or holding onto it for dear life

[WillUPressTheButton]

Men just typically don't do that very much. I've felt some intense pleasure and while I did make noises they weren't moans. I'm more likely to talk actually

[Youryeodongsaeng]

Groaning?

[WillUPressTheButton]

Mainly heavy breathing and some whispering but yeah I groan too. Little bit of grunting even, but I don't moan, like even if I wanted to. Just doesn't happen

[Youryeodongsaeng]

Awe. Does it gets on your nerves whenever you want to moan but can't?

[WillUPressTheButton]

No because there hasn't been a time were I wanted to moan. I just said the 'even if i wanted to' part for emphasis

[Youryeodongsaeng]

Ah. Makes sense.

[24brownish]

Umm... isn't women moaning mainly due to the slight pain that comes along with the pleasure? Women are getting their holes pierced and stretched... men's aren't... i would think women moaning is forced even.. not natural.. heavy panting an aaaahhhs and ooohs might be more of a natural response

[TheRealQuestion2]

Im guilty of this as well, im too quiet. I grew up in a crowded house with thin walls, i learned to be absolutely silent, sadly women dont want silence.

[Youryeodongsaeng]

Yeah, some do want silence and some don't. I don't want silence. As a kid, I used to hump pillows a lot and not moan. I stopped when I was 12 or 13 years old. I may hump pillows again, I'm not sure yet.

[TheRealQuestion2]

Lol, personally i think a girl moaning softly is hot. I think pillow humping is hot too but im sure there are easier methods of "getting off".

[winterfox10]

Some men do. We aren't generally encouraged to be as expressive as women during sex.

[Youryeodongsaeng]

Awe. Not even when the girl asks, "Don't you love it when I ride your cock like this, daddy?"

[winterfox10]

A little bit then, but generally speaking: nope.

[Anonymous]

It doesn’t feel that good it only feels really good when we cum. If you want him to moan bite the guys shoulder or claw his back and ride him hard

[Youryeodongsaeng]

I'm surprised that you have experience with this under 18 years old. How old are you?

[Opinion Owner]

16 but I’ve been with my girlfriend since 14 and we have sex often nowadays. Does your boyfriend not moan?

[Anonymous]

Because it's a throwback to tribal polyamory, a woman's moaning is a primal call to get another man to come along and fuck her to have the sperm compete and create the most healthy child.

[Youryeodongsaeng]

Awwww. I like the way you put it.

[bamesjond0069]

We do make noise. You are just fucking some weirdos.

[secybiguy]

Right

[Youryeodongsaeng]

Oml, being weird is in my nature.

[abc3643]

It is our instinct to be quiet. It is evolved because being quiet kept men alive when hunting (or being hunted).

[Youryeodongsaeng]

Like if a man is cheating his girl and if he moans, he's a dead man?

[abc3643]

LOL, no...

Look at it like this.
In early and prehistoric times, humans were nomadic or just started small "villages", if you could call them that.
Males typically went out from the group where women were together with children doing domestic things. The males often would hunt - but they also might get hunted as well by large feline predators.
So, to successfully make a kill, the hunter needs to be quiet to the prey doesn't detect that it's being hunted.
>> The hunter who is quiet makes the kill, gets to eat, and gets to have sex and make babies..
>> The hunter who is not quiet scares off the prey, so he doesn't get to eat and starves to death not making babies.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>That's how evolution works.

The same thing those hunters become prey...
>> The hunter who is prey and is quiet avoids being detected by the predator, so he gets to go home and make babies.
>> The hunter who is prey and is not quiet is detected by the predator. He does not get to go home and make babies. Instead, the predator gets to eat (the now dead hunter), go home, and make babies.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>That's how evolution works.

So, males who are quiet get to live and make babies (who are quiet).
Males who are not quiet die and don't make babies (who are not quiet).
So, over time, you get only quiet males.

That's evolution and that's why guys are quiet even in the bedroom.

[Passinggas]

Because sex is a male job for me. I don't moan in the office either.

[SissyFrenchMaid]

Dont be so quick to assume all men don't moan. I know I do

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Because women have better orgasms

[MoscowMitch]

Why do women moan if they're enjoying it?

[Anonymous]

Tbh I do moan especially when I cum lol

[Opinion Owner]

pm me tho

[Opinion Owner]

if you said ""Don't you love it when I ride your cock like this, daddy?" omg id moan a lot i guess

[oldoldold]

Nope never felt like moaning...

[Anonymous]

i dont think its manly

[emperor90]

I do not know