Guys, What do you think about a dad intimidating his teenage daughters boyfriend?

[ivy3688]

weird but necessary

good and bad/Mixed

Necessary

Bad

depends

[txbiker636]

I always loved when my step daughter brought her boyfriends to the house. It wasn't really me intimidating him as much as it was me embarrassing the hell out of her. Afterwards it always seemed to end up with me and her boyfriend hanging out and him asking me about all my toys and collections... Motorcycles, Coins, Arrowheads, Guns, Race Car etc. She would get so mad at me cause I would steal her date lol. Although it upset her it really gave me a chance to get to know the young man and see what his true intentions were. She is 19 now and in college doing God knows what lol. I have another one age 15 that thinks she is Gay for some reason. Im totally lost with this one. She has never even had a real boyfriend. No kissing, holding hands, dates nothing. Why does she think she is Gay or Pan or whatever other crazy adjectives when she has never even had a real boyfriend. I try not to get mad at her for expressing herself even though I have a feeling that she is just following suit to fit in at school. That for some strange reason seems to be the new thing for everyone to do in her school now. It's crazy my son 14 who says he is Bisexual had a 5th grader run up to him and say " stick it in me daddy" then smacked him in the balls! What is the world coming to?

[ohshee]

It's ok he needs to understand the very first day we look eyes and I mean look eyes he will understand very fast that this is not ur GIRL FRIEND this is my Daughter this is my little girl this is my life and I have been a teenage boy many times lol,, but he will understand he had better respect her if any harm comes to her he had better have a get away car if she comes home and I smell and thing on her breath and she ha been drinking it's over if she comes home crying it's over. And just to have fun with him I would walk them out and get in the back seat of his car and I would wait at least 2 blocks before I said take me home

[EmbraceThePain]

Depends on how it’s done, because it can easily slip into being extreme and unnecessary. I understand the need for a father to make sure that the boyfriend treats his daughter with respect, love, and care so putting up a tough front to ensure that the boyfriend understands that there are consequences to mistreating his daughter, I can understand.

[Shiver]

I don't know about other dads, but my girlfriend's dad was a real cunt to me for months as a test to see if I had any balls. He'd say the usual, like if I had sex with her and he found out he'd beat me up, or if I made her sad, stuff like that. We're like best friends now. Lmao

[Madhatter920]

Well, having been a teenage boy, I would lean toward weird but necessary. At that age, they're going to get closer than the parents are comfortable with, but with a dash of fear, maybe they won't move quite so quickly or quite so far.

[unluckyplant710]

Totally depends on the situation. There were point when my high school sweethearts father caught me or us doing something he has to react negatively to multiple times. I'm extremely sexually active and my partners all tend to be.

[ivy3688]

so if a girl does sex she's masochistic?

[unluckyplant710]

I'm not only talking about sex and did I say that? As a father how is he supposed to react?

[ivy3688]

yeah i know dads react that way but im asking does that make her a masochist

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I just think Dads , shouldn't be harassing their Daughters Boyfriends
Dads worry if the Guys going to hurt her , so Dad becomes dominating
sometimes you got to put Dad in his place.

[one1wild00]

Good IF I were the DAD, bad If I were the teenager walking in to find the girls dad cleaning his arsenal.

[ivy3688]

wow ur answer is so sexist. i hope no girl gets with you. this puts girls in a weird place, and you are over here saying that its good if were the dad, bad if u were the teenager.

that makes you insanely hypocritical.

that maens you view women as properties of men.

areyou gonna cry to ur girlfriend after "ur daddy is mean"

you can't do that if you would intidmiate your daughter

[IsenhowerJ]

Dad just wants to make sure the guy isn't using his daughter.

[ivy3688]

but the teen girl gets mad, upset.

it may may them feel stupid too, like they aren't smart enough to make good choices.

why not educate your daughter on how to fing good guys and whcih guy have fuck boy tendencies, rther than pretending like ur daughter doesn't like the opposite sex, making her feel weird for it, and then when she gets a boyfrend, you go and intimidate him. i think its pretty sexist.

[Hunter7754]

Doesn't matter, that's not a reason to threaten people.

[ivy3688]

@Hunter7754 dudeI was saying why i think its bad

[JayParris]

You're supposed to kill the first one and let the word get around. Fathers are so soft these days.

[Liam_Hayden]

Pointless. Teens think they are the smartest people in the room.

[ivy3688]

They kinda are. They are the smartest scientifically, but don't have wisdom or as common sense how the adult world works.

[Anonymous]

I think he should just fuck off and kill himself.

What a fucking dinosaur.

[John_Doesnt]

Depends if she's bringing home decent boyfriends or weird motorcycle guys or black guys.

[Rob19777]

sorry misread that poll. its weird and unneccessary

[IAMNathanael]

What's the context? Is he making fun of him?

[Vulture051]

I think it's mostly traditional at this point.

[ivy3688]

Tradition is not an excse when you can prove how this tradition negatively affects girls and intimidates teenage boys for insufficient reason

[Vulture051]

Pretty sure it negatively affects boys a lot more than it affects girls. You're not the one being threatened.

[Gedaria]

You have to make sure they know who's the boss...

[ivy3688]

so ur the boss of there relationship?

[Gedaria]

When they are in my house , I am , when they are out she is...

[Hunter7754]

I think its pathetic.

[ivy3688]

why so

[Hunter7754]

Do I really need to give a reason as to why its not okay for a father to be controlling, overprotective and wave a gun around his teenage daughter's boyfriend while making passive aggressive threats to him?

[ivy3688]

yes because a lot of people think its ok

[Hunter7754]

Its not okay, its creepy behavior. It reinforces the notion that men are predators and should be treated as such until they 'prove' themselves worthy.

[ivy3688]

yor forgetting how its affects girls to man

[aeon95]

Stick a pistol in his mouth

[codycccccccccc]

Its fun

[Anonymous]

Weird but necessary.