Girls, Is a sensitive guy unattractive?

[Thomas__Shelby]

I’m naturally sensitive, I take words seriously, but I don’t tolerate abuse from people who don’t matter to me, and I can easily go cold if I see it necessary. I find that being sensitive leaves me more exposed, so I often switch between being cold and distant vs warm and friendly depending on the people I’m around. I want to know, from a women’s perspective, how each persona affects a guy’s attractiveness.

Because truthfully, I don’t want to be cold and distant to girls I find attractiveness , but it’s becoming a habit where I close up and remain distant to keep myself from being exposed or vulnerable.

[Raven_song]

Personally I find sensitive guys attractive, as do most of my friends. It can be too much if it’s hard to talk to someone because a girl constantly has to worry and think about what to say if a guy is super sensitive, but I think having a sweet side is for sure something I look for in guys. Considering all the expectations for men to act ‘tough’, I find that a guy who is willing to show his emotions is brave and more confident then men who don’t. Besides, often if your sensitive you’ll attract girls that are as well, and with a sweet and considerate girl you likely won’t feel like you need to distance yourself as much. I think it’s a fine balance between taking care of yourself and keeping toxic people out of your life and also being open enough to let yourself have opportunities to meet people. Just be yourself and I’m sure you’ll find a girl who loves your sensitive side! Hope this helps <3

[thegirlfromthething]

I want someone who’s comfortable expressing himself and has empathy for other people, but not a guy who overreacts, shares his feelings at the wrong times, and can’t take criticism or a joke. It’s attractive when he can be sensitive at the right time.

[JetJas]

Sensitive as in you can’t even tolerate jokes? That’s personally a turnoff for me

[TacocaT6969]

I prefer guys who are in touch with their emotions and not ashamed to express them to me.

[Anonymous]

No depend on the girl for example certain guys I think are really cute I take them as being sensitive cute