My ex suddenly watched my story.. on fb?

[Anonymous]

no contact for 2 months now, him initiating our last contacts before
Few days ago I noticed that when I was listening music on Spotify, as soon as I went online he did too and started playin what we called “our song” I shrugged it as maybe coincidence but now he watched one of my stories for the first time ever. He NEVER watched any of my stories or interact in any way.
does he want to talk or what is it he wants? I won’t initiate just bc of this, he broke up with me and I was always super open and friendly so he knows he can talk to me
i was thinking a lot about him and we both believe energies travel even continents

[WonderBread23]

You should be patient and see what he does next. Sometimes people try to do subtle things to get attention from the other person.

When a clip is done on FB stories it automatically moves onto the next friend's clip. Maybe while he was watching a friend's story it switched to yours after the clip was done. If you guys are not Facebook friends then he clicked your story on purpose.

One time I watched a friend's story and then it switched to my ex's story and within minutes she wrote to me thinking I was trying to get her attention when in reality, the story changed itself after the previous clip was done. I didn't mean to look at her story.

But, Spotify and viewing FB story are two coincidences that might be linked. But shouldn't jump to conclusions yet. Have to see if he does anything else

[Asker]

Yeah I don’t know, he isn’t into using Facebook, I know that for sure and the Spotify thing if it was on purpose, weird. If it was a coincidence even more

[Almostoverit]

Why is your ex still connected to your social media. It's only going to trigger this kind of confusion every time he does something anywhere near your content. That's giving him a whole fuck ton of emotional power over you. Disconnect, move on with life.

[Asker]

We ended in friendly terms, breaking up bc long distance became too much

[Almostoverit]

Ending amicably is good, but it seems like staying connected through social media is preventing you from moving on in a healthy way.

[peachyknees]

I wouldn't read too much into it. I can't tell you what he wants and the thing is, maybe he doesn't know either. It could also have been an accident, or he could have done it out of curiosity. Don't bother searching for inexistent answers, your time is way more precious.

[Kkhermosa01]

Maybe it’s one of those things where it bothers a person to have so many stories lined up so he just viewed all of them to get them out the way

[Asker]

He isn’t really in to social media tho

[Kkhermosa01]

Hmmm well then he might be doing some checkin up🤷🏽‍♀️

[spartan55]

Why do girls think looking at stories means something?

[Asker]

It’s not really the watching story it’s the interacting when he didn’t before

[spartan55]

Whatever you want to beleive. Social media is a false reality.

[outside_Toronto]

The question is, whay are you watching him watching you?

Ridiculous

[Asker]

Because people have feeling and I still miss him

[Asker]

Aaaand I didn’t check, a fb notification with his name popped up of course it caught my attention yes I do admit that

[Thedaywemeet]

he follows you