Be honest, do guys like it when girls fight over them?

Question

I was watching love after lockup and this show is crazyyyyyy!!! Like this one guy has a baby mama, two girlfriends, and somehow the baby mama keeps ending up pregnant... They all know about one another and they would rather fight one another than leave the guy... So I'm curious... How many guys like the idea of girls fighting over them? Is that why you date so many at a time?

akihon · Accepted Answer

Nope, it's very messy and very uncomfortable. The only time it's happened to me, years ago, was after I had broken up with somebody, her idea, I said ok and walked, nothing more to say as far as I was concerned. A few weeks later I met another and started dating.

We went out and my ex turned up claiming to be still dating me and showing messages that were at least two weeks before that night and nothing since.

It was a very uncomfortable situation, the one I had started dating wasn't having any of it, the my man etc.

No, I suppose on some level it's flattering but then that's only for men who get their validation from women and attention. Men who have developed themselves enough that they don't seek validation from women don't generally find it any more than a bit flattering but mostly very uncomfortable and embarrassing

MuffinBoi · Accepted Answer

Well I would say yes, but I've only dated one girl so far and I reckon I won't experience it, lol.

For real though, I guess it'd be cool if they got jealous but fighting is a bit excessive tbh. I guess it'd be entertaining to watch if it happened to someone else. Gotta have some of that spice in your life after all.

MagooSmiley · Accepted Answer

For sure may feel a little flattered at first but knowing how ugly people can get...
I wouldn't count on him feeling that way for long... im sure it would get super annoying if two hot chicks are showing their ugly for too long... probably end up dumping them both...

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Some do as it feeds their ego, others don't. Depends entirely on their personality. Some guys would hate it because they hate drama and they hate having to hurt someone and may think the whole situation is childish and difficult to deal with.

Apope16 · Answer

Yes. It can be annoying but only if you truly care about both of them. Otherwise, if you know for sure who you like it can be an ego boost. But at a certain point we as men dont like drama. its annoying. Women act like they own us. We are not their property.

zagor · Answer

I never dated either of them, but one place I worked the girl next to me kind of liked me (she was cute, but neurotic so I never pursued...) and there was this cute summer intern who kind of flirted with me, and one time she brought me some files and the girl next to me comes over pretending to need to talk to me and gets squarely between us. One of the other woman there laughed and did "mmrrreowww".

Cortaine · Answer

I don't understand why they aren't teaming up against him. He's the one who played them against eachother.

xichuwangwai · Answer

I don't know if I like it, I've never given myself a chance to. When I was in relationships, I turned down the girls who hit on me, I've never dated more than one at a time.

Jackblue · Answer

Guys do like the idea of girls fighting over them, it is flattering (though women who do that must have low self-esteem). That is not the reason why guys cheat though. When guys cheat it is because they want a variety of women.

Psykhe27 · Answer

Reality TV isn't real life.

No, I find it immature. Who the person chooses is who they choose. Noone else has an opinion that matters.

Jealousy is an ugly emotion. If a woman is overly jealous, that's grounds to dump/ghost.

imredheaded · Answer

Yes and no. It's great to be desired, better to be desired by more than one person. So it feels amazing when it happens. On the other hand, I feel bad because inevitably one will lose out and I know it sucks to be on that end of the stick

Bman4907 · Answer

Only fight that I have ever encountered that I was the "prize" was when my sister was getting married and two of her friends were arguing who was supposed to pick me up from the airport. I got a rental car. Rented a nice Lexus. Very roomy.

The_Other · Answer

I've met guys that brag about it... personally, I wouldn't like it... in fact, it might even drive me away from both of them.

Jjpayne · Answer

"Ladies, ladies please, there's plenty of me to go around" 😂

AdithyaR · Answer

I can't speak for all guys but personally. Absolutely not, I don't wanns be stuck having to choose between two women or being forced to choose.

Mrsao · Answer

Didn't know many women fought over men though it was the other ways around, I guess a lot of guys must love the attention and gives them some sought of ego boost. have any women on here fought over a guy and if you did why?

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

They like it in theory, but when it really happens they don’t like it. My ex was like this.

Purplemonkey24 · Answer

Love life after lockup 💜 I'm guess sarah, Micheal and I forget the girlfriends name haha. I think some guys enjoy it

AcidT0y · Answer

Nah, I'd feel awkward and they'd all just come off desperate and needy to me. I don't usually involve myself with multiple women at a time though so it's unlikely to ever be an issue.

johannes9804 · Answer

When you are younger yes i mean i loved the attention but then when i grew up not so much don't get me wrong I'm still an attention whore but from one person only 😂😋

Akshayjosh · Answer

I would have loved, If girls not just fought but killed for me. Who doesn't want that LMAO 😂.

worldscolide · Answer

Not really. I've been in that situation. I ended up ditching both of them as friends as well as possible romantic partners..

HonestWeirdo · Answer

not that it has happened but I wouldn't like it at all. I'd just be embarras ed or awkward. I imagine a lot of guys wouldn't mind and see it as an ego boost

monkeynutts · Answer

Nope, I would never date more than one person at a time, and would not date girls like that in the first place.

Kezzz · Answer

Never had this kinda experience but I'd find it stupid that there's these girls fighting over me. I'm not that desirable nope.

coffeewithcream · Answer

No.  It shows they're trailer trash. Leave 'em both at the curb.

aiyaiyo · Answer

The shows are all stages and scripted. Real life is different and there's chance of all girls ganging up at a time on the guy.

goodstory · Answer

It has happened to me a lot. I find it attractive when a female doesn't fight with another female for a man. She knows her worth and doesn't need to prove it. Now that's attractive.

Euphoric · Answer

Not as a 29 year old, I don't really give a fuck if a girl fights over me. I've been through so much shit and pain that I just want someone be happy and be done with it.

Hyper2 · Answer

I always thought that would be cool , until it happened and it was a turn off for me.

Uhphyshal · Answer

that'd be funny. seeing girls fighting over me. as if

MangoB83 · Answer

Yes. It’s pretty hot. Hasn’t happened for a while though.

KathywithaK97 · Answer

I ain’t fighting anyone over someone I love I don’t need that plus Orange isn’t my color.

Anonymous · Answer

I guess some guys think of it as a big turn on for them (ego boost).

YesIsaidit · Answer

Nah. We already have enough ego 😂, it's okay to stand up for yourself but nothing beat peace

MeatPuppet · Answer

No girl has ever liked me so I can't possibly imagine what I would do.

Ee_ls · Answer

I wouldn't want someone to get violent over me... So no, I wouldn't like it

ATG12 · Answer

I haven't had this happen to me as far as I remember

hwvzhssb · Answer

every new things feel existing at first but its real pace and horror only seen by only wise guys

Knuxx · Answer

Based on percentage alone it could happen to every man a few times I their lives. But will it happen. Likely not, I would enjoy it but I would also get upset if they started to get physical.

EstevanMadrid898 · Answer

It's kinda fun to watch I've been in that situation more then ones unfortunately

Benjr134 · Answer

Not really. I mean it’s nice to be appreciated but at the end of the day no.

Aislin9 · Answer

I personally think guys love it.

derek2017 · Answer

Oh God I would love to see that! <3

ShineDJJ · Answer

It's juvenile and completely unattractive.

JosyJosy · Answer

They don't, because drama and fights

magiusX26 · Answer

to some degree or another yesssss

TaureanBull81 · Answer

Not particularly as I find it a turn off!

Aaayush · Answer

Yes.. but not for everytime

Surely · Answer

Never have been that lucky?

Anonymous · Answer

Never happened to me. I wonder if women like it when men fight over them though.

MySimpleSelf · Answer

Never happened before. But I think I would not like it because they will end up blaming the guy that he gives more attention to the other girl.

DanOh2018 · Answer

Hell yes, it's been a while but I loved it.

simplelikeme · Answer

No...😂😂😂 it's childish

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

It's ridiculously retarded and unnecessary

alance99 · Answer

Yes as it makes a guy feel special and important

andy530 · Answer

Not sure I’ve ever had that experience

michael1469 · Answer

Ladies, ladies, please, there is plenty O Michael to go around... at the same time...

Tstrbrainer · Answer

I like the idea, it sounds as an ego boost. 😆😆.

boyfriend1915 · Answer

Yeah cat fight 😂😂😂😂

woooooooo · Answer

I would like it actually.

parthikumar78 · Answer

Guys love it, it's a reward...

Romeocuck · Answer

yes very much. it shows she really wants him

novert · Answer

Hell yes!!

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