What is it that causes some guys to stutter around particular girls?

[Anonymous]

While some guys able to talk normally around girls

[BestUserName100]

Probably fear of getting hurt by them and judgment. So you psyche yourself self out because you want them to like you or something and you get overwhelmed and fall flat on your face kind of thing.

[Anonymous]

So they would talk normally around some girls but stutter around others? Or do they stutter when talking to everyone?

[Asker]

The former

[Opinion Owner]

Then I guess they're just nervous maybe, especially if it's a girl they like

[Asker]

That's cute. But the girl sometimes don't even do anything to them, but those guys stutter?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I guess they just don't know what to say or don't wanna embarass themselves. Or they could actually be scared of the girl, not really sure

[Asker]

How common it is for a guy to crush on a girl and act all nervous around her, but at the same time he crushes on another girl and acts nervous around her as well?

[Opinion Owner]

I mean I personally don't do it, and haven't seen many guys like that tbh. So based on my personal experience not that common. But there could be guys out there who do that, just because I haven't seen them doesn't mean they don't exist

[Asker]

What if due to some reasons, you are no longer able to see her for months... Would the crush eventually fades away & you would end up find someone else?

[Opinion Owner]

Unlikely. If you like someone and are attracted to them, that attraction is hard to be removed once it's there. For example I liked a girl in highschool. I finished school a while back and haven't seen her since, but I still sometimes think about her and I'm still attracted to her even though I haven't seen her for a long time

[Asker]

I mean like won't you eventually fall for another pretty face throughout the months of not seeing her? Like what is the maximum months or years your feelings for her would stay?

[Opinion Owner]

Of course I will find someone else that's pretty and I would feel exactly the same. So almost never would I find someone attractive and later find them not attractive anymore. Unless they changed their behaviour and looks to what I was used to when I was seeing them on the regular

[Asker]

Oooo... Meaning the previous crush would eventually fades away once you have found another person you're interested in?

[Opinion Owner]

No I meant both crushes I would have the same feeling towards, meaning I'd see them both attractive. But I guess the new one would grow on me a bit more since I would see her on the regular and get to know her more, whereas the other one I don't see her anymore. Does that make sense?

[Asker]

Yup it does

[Beth12345]

The real question is, what should girls do about it.

[ecfresh]

Some are nervous

[Asker]

they are nervous talking to girls?

[ecfresh]

That happens

[Asker]

thats bad though. To all girls or some girls only?

[ecfresh]

Usually if they like how she looks. If they are friends or not attracted to someone they may be less nervous.

[Asker]

like how she looks, but doesn't mean he has feelings for her am i right?

[ecfresh]

Well if he has feelings for her then he likes how she looks, right?

But no, he can stutter the very first time he sees someone if he feels she is good looking. For the case of seeing a stranger it would be impossible to have feelings for her since he knows nothing about her.

[Joker_]

Maybe they have a speech impediment