He talks about sex a log and constantly tells me how sexy I am and how amazing my body is
im used to guys drooling over my body all the time but I never seem to get that lovey dovey vibe. You know, like cute stuff said to me. It’s always sexual and how they’d love to sleep with me
should I just wait to meet this guy and make a judgement on him when I see him or should I run for the hills if he’s mentioning sex
we met through Instagram by the way
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He is saying that being with you takes as much work as completing a difficult effort (running a marathon, climbing a mountain, acing an exam, etc). He means it will take a lot of work to impress you, wear down your defenses so that you are open to physical intimacy, and get up the nerve to proposition you.
So should I make him wait for sex then? Obvs with this lockdown public places are closed so we can’t go out on a date, it would have to be his house but scared he will have sex with me and then not want to talk to me after
It sounds like you are attracted to him and he is to you as well. Don't be strategic about making him wait for sex. It's your body, do with it as you please.
Call him on it. Say to him "About that whole being with me would be an achievement thing... are you up for the challenge? I am not an easy lay. It will take time, effort, and chemistry fir us to be together. I am up for trying if you are."
If he is a man you will know it.
If he is a mouse you will know it.