Why does he always unadd me on Snapchat just to readd me later?

[Anonymous]

this guy and I have been on and off for almost 2 years now and we haven’t hookup you or dated or anything but he always acts all flirty. however, he always unadds me on Snapchat for no reason and then readds me whenever he feels like it. I asked him once why he does it and he said “idk” so do I block him or something else? Please send help

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+1 y

So I added him back last night and he added me back in.2 seconds and we started flirting all over again like nothing was wrong... I don’t know what I should do. Keep talking to him or unadd him?

[gabrial97]

Lool i can relate to him, i act like this when i like a girl and feel like she doesn't like me back or i haven't impressed her enough. So i get angry at myself and i unadd or delete her number and regret it later.. and the cycle goes on😂

[Asker]

But it’s been 2 years like come on you have to know there are some sort of feelings there ya know 😅

[gabrial97]

Lol yeah. Here is the advise if he is comfortable enough to talk to you about his life and private problems then yeah he like you, but if he didn't then a simple no.

[gabrial97]

Talk to him, but play it cool and don't flirt a lot make him feel like your not cheap.. girls who love themselves, have class and controlled emotion and reaction. Make guys go crazy and clingy.

[Anonymous]

Honestly, based on what you've written alone, it sounds like he's using you as an escape from his relationship to me! But can't be sure without all the facts :)

[Asker]

The thing is he’s the definition of a f-boy and the only relationship he was in was freshman year of college with his ex (who he will still hookup with occasionally even though she’s in relationships)...

[Worhtyawas]

So he’s in a relationship and hooking up with his ex? Classy

[Asker]

He’s not in a relationship at all; his ex is in a relationship and they’ll hook up occasionally

[Opinion Owner]

I think she means SHE'S in relationship haha 😉

[Opinion Owner]

Also to the asker the app deleted my earlier reply! I said it sounds like deep down you already knew the answer to your question! In my full honest male opinion id say he's still in love with his ex and probably never left the relationship :/

[Asker]

This is where it gets juicy, his ex tried to go back to him and he straight up told her he doesn’t want her but keeps her around for the fun they have

[Worhtyawas]

Well, then why didn’t he just stay with his ex?

[Opinion Owner]

😖 why does he sound like me now 😂😂 I feel like if he's like me, that's pride. Once she moved on like I said he wouldn't want her anymore cos he never let go when she did, but really he may just be conflicted as to his feelings and pride, trying desperately to make them co-exist and my god I feel like I'm just reflecting now 😂😂

[AmandaYVR]

He's getting mad at you for some reason.
It's a stupid move, but common.

Either that, or he's into you but trying periodically to forget you.

[StarryCrossing]

His feelings probably keep changing for you. One minute he’s mad, the next he’s fine.

[austinotto99]

Snapchat has a location sensor and it could be he doesn't want you to happen upon the map and see where he is at a certain time he goes out for a hookup.

[austinotto99]

If I didn't have another way of communicating this is exactly what I would do with my crush while still maintaining active hookups.

[Asker]

He never has his location on and whenever I turn mine off he’ll ask me about why it’s off

[austinotto99]

That's really creepy. If he's active enough to know when it's been turned off. I'd be seriously concerned about him marking what day of the week you shop, where you attend classes, where you live, a whole bunch of stalker stuff.

Cause that's too active in my opinion.

I sent the map as a joke not less than 2 hours ago putting "I'm a spy" 🤪 to my girl.

She almost had a panic attack and ranted about how I was stalking her.

This was the first and only time I looked at the map when she was my friend.

Any other times I look is when she invites me to find out where she is.

[Asker]

We do go to the same college and have mutual friends but it kind of freaked me out because when I told him why it almost felt like he was approving of it... if that makes sense

[austinotto99]

Well if you don't want to hookup with him. I'd block him.

It's going to take him a year or two before he gets out of the hookup sex phase.

You go to the same campus at school so don't make yourself hard to find.

Have lunch the same place on campus so if he wants to approach you he can.

[Asker]

Haha funny story so we are both in Greek life and our mutual best friend is in his frat so whenever I’m there he’ll like kind of make eye contact with me but won’t talk to me until he says bye or once he’s home then he’ll Snapchat me. Granted I also don’t make the first move to talk to him because I don’t want to get rejected...

[austinotto99]

If you like him, ask him out.

When a woman ask there is an 80% acceptance rate.

When a man ask there is only a <10% acceptance rate.

So I would ask him.

Most men would find it surprising that the woman liked him and with how rare the man gets a date he would jump for it.

Women get dates far easier in American culture just by making eye contact with men and looking pretty.

[Lilbitmean]

Don't Want someone to find out he's talking to you.

[mebeyou]

Is he that jealous or is he hiding something from you. ? Think about it. I would block him

[CikaZivan]

Destroying evidence, so his wife doesn't find out.

[Iron_Man]

he's BI polar