What does it mean for an ex boyfriend to block you then he unblocks you and then reblocks you again?

[ladychula915]

Was he like stalking me or just checking up on me?

[Danny_dan92]

I’ve done this. I would say you’re partially correct.


When I was doing it, it was to see what she was up too.


But then eventually I didn’t give a fuck what she was doing so I just left her unblocked and never bothered to see what she was up too.


I only blocked her again when she kept trying to use me for my attention whenever other guys where not giving that to her

[ladychula915]

Well me and him dated years ago. And well now that I’m older saw and I realized that I’m better off without him maybe he thought that I would message him or something? But when saw that I never did that’s when he blocked? I don’t know that’s what I’m thinking? But again he’s married maybe his wife told him something about me? I don't know I had all of these thoughts in my head when I saw that he unblocked me. But oh well he reblocked me again so I’m like fine about it I don’t gotta see his face anymore

[Finchie40]

Guess it depends on why he is your ex? Did you break up with him or did he break up with you? It sounds like he was just curious to see what you been up to but the whole blocking shit sounds immature to be honest, whatever the reason just move forward and ignore him

[ladychula915]

He cheated on me with a best friend that I had at the time. Plus I saw him last year at the movies but he couldn’t look at me so when I turned around he had his head looking down at his phone, but his girlfriend or whoever she was to him kept looking at me ugly til I walked out the door. But that was last year, anyway he cheated on me and this was about 11 years ago that I was with him. And yeah I have moved on. I mean why would he block me and if he didn’t want anything to do with me anymore why would he unblock me then reblock me again. Like I don't know it’s kinda weird.

[Finchie40]

He is just curious and the fact that he cheated he realizes he was a piece of shit and probably regretting the fact he cheated on you , you did the right thing by getting away and you’re best bet is to keep it that way , block his ass

[ladychula915]

Well he already blocked me anyway, I mean if he unblock me there had to be a reason. But again it doesn’t matter anymore he’s the past anyway now. And I’m sure he was just being nosy to see if I had anyone new or something. But he’s a dick

[Finchie40]

Exactly , yes he was just being nosy and curious and probably wondering if you met someone else , he was probably feeling a little regretful for cheating on you , usually people that betray someone like that have a guilty conscious , 1 of my ex girlfriends from the past that cheated on me kind of did the same thing, the only difference was she actually wrote me with hopes that I would forgive her and give her another chance , which I just laughed thinking this girl is completely insane , on top of that she was married and wanted to cheat on her husband with me , she told me her husband couldn’t satisfy her in bed so she wanted to screw me again , I said thanks for the compliment but not interested and then I completely ignored her so by ignoring your ex is the best thing for you to do , whether he is checking in on you unblocking you’re etc, just ignore him cheaters are straight up pieces of shit

[ladychula915]

He never messaged me once he unblocked me and I never did. So I doubt he wanted to get back with me. Probably he didn’t have the balls to message me. Cause he knows that he is whipped lmao 😂 but anyway he’s a loser and once a cheater always a cheater

[Finchie40]

Exactly , you deserve better

[ladychula915]

I know I do, thank you so much for the advice:)

[3108_19]

He just wants your attention. And wants to make Sure that you recognise that he blocked you.

[ladychula915]

But it’s weird cuz he had blocked me since January of this year, then I noticed that he unblocked me over the weekend then yesterday he re blocked again but he’s married tho which I don’t understand tho if he blocked me the first time why would unblock me that just doesn’t make any sense.

[ladychula915]

Plus he cheated on me so I doubt he wants to get back with me I mean I’m not saying that he does or anything it’s just confusing to me is all

[3108_19]

Maybe he wants to make Sure that you See how Lucky He His with His wife and he hoped that you Show a reaction to it. Or He wanted to know what you are doing. If He blocked you in insta for example and your Account is Not on private , He wanted to See whats going on in your life.

[ladychula915]

Yeah you’re probably right but I had saw him at the movies last year with his wife, I’m sure he saw me cause when I turned around he had his head the entire time but his wife again, mad dogged me ugly but then yet I had no intention to talk to him anymore. So

[ladychula915]

Down*

[the_imperfectionist]

He was just checking to see if your life is better without him

[ladychula915]

Well it is definitely better without that’s all I can say. I’ve been told when I would my friends they’ve told me that maybe he was just like to see if I messaged him or bothered him but when he saw that I didn’t lol he blocked me again. I don't know something like that

[Drumlin2001]

Dunno, my ex blocked me, unblocked me, yoyo'd back and forth. Really dont know why as i had no intention of contacting them

[ladychula915]

Yeah I didn’t neither never did. He cheated on me with a best friend I had at the time when we were together.

[Wise4myage]

That's definitely stalking behavior. Focus on moving on and forgetting about this guy.

[ladychula915]

Yeah I’m already moved on. And I have forgot about this guy he isn’t worth it.

[Wise4myage]

Nice. I wish you the best. :)

[ladychula915]

Thank you!:) but again I had all of these thoughts as too why he unblocked me ! But I’m over it. Lol

[Wise4myage]

You're welcome.