What are signs a guy is obsessed?

[Anonymous]

I’m curious what the signs are

[Anonymous]

looks at you a lot , follows you on social media , makes attempts to contact you or talk to you in person , is around the places you are a lot

[Asker]

The thing is, I don't see him anymore.

But-and this is a question I asked myself too-why hasn't he attempted to contact me?

If he was so into me then why not contact me?

[Opinion Owner]

has a lot of time passed? if were talking months or years , maybe he's just moved on , i'm not sure did he contact you when he was still around , does he even know who to reach you?

[Asker]

If a guy really likes a girl he’ll find a way

[Opinion Owner]

maybe he's not obsessed? is there even ways he could easily find you if he wanted? its not always that easy but sometimes it is

[Asker]

Yes there is for sure

[spartan55]

Yeah, he ain't obsessed with you. Sounds like you are projecting.

[JPrez]

I’m curious. Do you like this guy?

[Asker]

Can I message you? I'd like to tell you something.

[beefy40]

He's outside your window jacking it.

[Asker]

Hmm but he doesn’t know where I live