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Because that never happend to me before!Yes.. I annoyed him with something but I think that it wasn't a reason for him to react this way.
How did it feel for him to react that way? You said it’s the first time, would you be ok if he did it again?
Well after that incident, he kept on asking me if I'm ok or if it hurt too much. During the spanking he gave me, he was kinda excited and I was just shocked. I have mixed feelings about it because even he did that without my consent and I wasn't expecting it at all.. I saw him in a new light, much more confident in himself, therefore more attractive. On the other hand I'm worried this side of him could get worst and I wouldn't like to live under a roof with a violent person.I guess I would be ok if he does it exactly like this.. I'm not into much pain.
Always comes back to communication. Telling him you liked his confidence will boost his ego. But it’s smart now to start discussing boundaries. You will feel safe if you both agree on the boundaries and I’m guessing you may be ‘naughty’ again once that playground has rules.
Good tip!! I would try to wear much more often jeans.
Is she into spanking? Also make sure you have her consent.
I think consent is important and why do you assume that I am taken. I am not
I have mixed feelings about it because even he spanked without my consent and I wasn't expecting it... I saw him in a new light, much more confident in himself, therefore more attractive. On the other hand I am not into pain, if this is you are asking me. He didn't spank me so hard.. but it still hurt. Sure as hell I won't do such a thing again to be put in that position.
Can I ask what you did to get spanked
Well I spent many weekends in the club with my friends, away from him.. got home in the morning every time. He never said anything until last time when I come back home so drunk and started to fight him God knows why.. He took care of me, send me to shower and gave me an aspirin. When I woke up... it happend.
You have to in box me I have soooo many questions
You can ask me anything here and I will answer. Which are the questions? 🤔
Well he never did that before so I was kinda shocked. I wasn't angry because he didn't hit too hard. He told me he actually wanted to do this since the day he met me... years ago lol!
If you don't mind, go for it. It's normal and really hot.
Well yeah. I would consider it as long as it doesn't harm me too much. We need boundaries to discuss.
I assumed play in a dom/sub way
@swettannie Well he was annoyed by something I did and it was a spanking. It wasn't extremely hard but.. still hurt. The thing is he never did that to me before.
it was kinda a dominant things
Yes.. kinda! After that he asked me many times if I am ok. Somehow he was scared I would tell him that it hurt too much.
seems like he trying slowly to dominate you
Kinda..We disscused and his thoughts were that he knew I deserved one since the moment he met me. That was 4 years ago. Me making a big scene brought us together.
are you embarrassed or excited
Honestly.. both! I was feeling like a kid who made a mistake and gets striked for it. I am well aware that adults can make huge mistakes and sometimes their actions are not mature. Somehow I was excited too because he put his foot down and he actually manhandle me. Never been in that situation so it feels new.
Did you like it
No.. not really. I am not into pain. It hurt even it wasn't so hard.
Then don't be bad, if you want more be bad
Well I am too vulcanic so I can't help it. My actions before my thinking. Anyway since that incident I was on my best behaviour..
For some ladies it is sexual, not saying it is for you
I'm sorry you are "so confused"