Why do guys call girls bitches?

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sammy1537 · Accepted Answer

Rap has made it ok to use. Women who like rap have accepted it as an ok word. That doesn't mean it's normal or ok. Just consider the historical connotation of the word.
Bitch is a female dog. Dogs were used for protecting herds against wolves. For that purpose, large aggressive dogs were preferred. Mail dogs are almost always significantly larger than female dogs. In other words, female dogs wear considered a a nuisance for the single purpose of giving birth to male puppies. That is why female dogs would generally kept outside, we're not taking care of or were given same amount of food as the working dogs. It was okay to mistreat a female dog just because they were less useful in the household.
Now, do you describe yourself as someone insignificant who can be abused?
Rap has given us some of the most beautiful and meaningful music over the past 40 years. At the same time it has normalized abuse and degradation of women. An adult should be able to separate good and bad behaviors in music. Since these are just words, not actions, it is open to personal interpretation and is absolutely okay for different people to have different opinion on whether using the word b**** is acceptable. Words are not violence! Just ask women who have been regularly beaten up by abusive partner.
Point is, you have to decide whether use of this word is acceptable to you and tell your partner what is acceptable to you. If he is an honest partner in this relationship, he will accommodate. But it is essential that you communicate! Giving hints is not communicating.

Kiss_Me · Accepted Answer

1. The guys have not game and fail to understand why they get rejected. In retaliation they call the girl a bitch.
2. They do not have a general respect for women. Family or cultural upbringing, etc.
3. The girl flat out deserves it. Some girls are under the ASSUMPTION that because a guy is chasing you, he can be treated however you desire.

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

Its dumb. My friends tried to refer to me as that on a regular basis. Nah ion play that. Call me by my name. I dont even like seeing a dog get called that

laPrincesitaRoxi · Accepted Answer

For me when I get really close to a girl it’s like a sign of closeness and friendship :)

AlexItsJustAlex · Answer

I think it depends on the situation, some men are sexist and consider themselves and the rest of us better than women (which is wrong if anything we're equally broken) and some men say it out of anger or as a response to something that was said. I personally have a bad habit of using a lot of bad language in my general conversations so I'll randomly be talking about someone I don't like wether it's a guy or girl or even a random character on a game I'm playing and refer to them as a bitch either being annoyed or sometimes out of humor. It entirely depends on the context and pronunciation, some people say it jokingly/sarcastically and some people actually mean it. There's no set motive as it's just another curse word.

kemo56 · Answer

I would help to guess it that because I've never been in their shoes at all other than maybe sometime or another when I was really mad...

But I would say it's insecurity they feel they need to prove their alpha dominance... Personally I think their assholes and their one step away from hitting you... I think you should avoid that kind of person but that's just my opinion

SoapySandwich · Answer

I can't speak for all guys but I have used the word bitch in a friendly joking way with female friends usually when we are teasing each other.

I have also used it to describe girls who throw temper tantrums when things dont always go their way or girls who responded "fuck you" to my mate when he walked over and said "hi"

I would say about 5% of the girls I've met I've called a bitch (including in a joking way)

Ianto · Answer

The term is actually very disrespectful. A bitch is a female canine. Canine sexual behaviour is based on a cycle where a bitch "comes into heat" and is eager to mate with any and all available male dogs. The implication, therefore, is that the lady so designated is sexually promiscuous. This is softened, somewhat, by the common, frequent usage, such that the general understanding is that it merely donotes a disagreeable woman inclined to be unpleasant about others.
The motive for using the term can vary, but may include "pick up artist" techniques like "negging", or just an attempt to project "bravado" by being offensive.

Unit1 · Answer

Know the difference. This is a lady This is also a lady And these are  bitches

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Guys are showing their immaturity by calling girls ignorant names and most girls your age is more mature cause guys mature later in all parts of their body including their mind, body, soul.. Trust me when I was age 13 my sister was 12 and more mature than me so I went through an immature stage and I'm man enough to own up to it

Bananaman177 · Answer

I guarantee you, if all girls would stop being bitches for a couple of years, maybe one generation, the word would fall out of fashion and people would forget it completely because we wouldn't need it anymore. Like "Forsooth."

As long as the word, "bitch" is an accurate descriptor of something we have to deal with on a daily basis, you can believe that we'll keep it as a necessary and useful part of our vocabulary.

StupidWiseman · Answer

Most men don't call women bitches. Some women deserve to be called bitches, but don't get called bitches. Some women don't deserve to be called bitches, but get called bitches. Basically, some bitches be bitches... And bitches be crazy. And some men are bitch-ass bitches who be puttin up with the crazy. Anyway, hiphop. That's the answer to your question.

fierysoul · Answer

some men don't like women
remember this isn't just an insult
most men who call girls bitch are just stupid and see males above the females its an insult meaning the women is only a toy to them that's what they think that's all
you shouldn't give a damn just ignore them.

Citizenkirk · Answer

If they are both canines, than it's appropriate nomenclature, provided she is in heat. If they are primates, of any ape like species, including humans, the term may or may not be accurate, depending on the individuals in question, but are not appropriate spoken out loud if one wishes too avoid severe consequences.

Hangry22 · Answer

Because bitch means 'female dog'. Guys are dogs so they're calling their opposite gender the same thing

SetFree · Answer

It's inappropriate to call anyone that, but I think the reason is that many women (especially Western women) are plagued with an entitlement attitude as a result of feminism and being spoiled rotten by family, friends, and lovers. Of course there are many amazing women too that are rarely bitchy. Men can be terrible as well, but they typically don't show their terribleness by being bitchy. Men do it in other ways. You would probably call a man a jerk, asshole, or dick.

nodnol32 · Answer

I'm a gentleman. I don't do this. If i don't like a particular girl, thats it, no need to keep expressing my dislike and call her that.

godfatherfan · Answer

Women call each other bitches way way more then guys call women that. Only disrespectful men will call a woman that anyway. So if he does, he isn't worth being around.

MadDonut90 · Answer

It depends I think.
1. For some calling girls bitch is a pleasure during intimacy (it has to be consensual)
2. For some it's disrespectful and don't really like it as they.
3. For some it's just fun.

There is human science behind every word that we use or create for humans based on our perceptions.
Personally I believe we shouldn't use that word unless and until it is consnsual.

nerdybutlazy · Answer

I really dont know, I dont care when one of my girlfriends calls me one, but with a guy, it just feels weird

Juxtapose · Answer

It's like when men call each other "dirty mother fuckers". It's not meant to be taken into offense or literally.

A lot of men just like to be crass. I don't really understand myself, since I save insults for when I actually mean them most of the time.

have_a_good_day · Answer

The only B word you are ever allowed to call a girl is BEAUTIFUL... Bitches love that

Anonymous · Answer

The only reason I’d call a girl a bitch is if she’s toxic/nasty and doesn’t care who she hurts (I’m NOT talking about rejecting a guy, I mean just treating people like shit)

Shezadi · Answer

They were not brought up right. They were not given a good upbringing. They probably use the same language at home. My 11 year old brother uses the b word for my mother and me, who is 10 years older than him and almost like a second mother.

Novacane · Answer

The word bitch actually comes from female dogs. so since girls are females they call them that to be but disrespectful for whatever reason. The same way how girls call men dogs, but bitch is much more disrespectful than being called a dog.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

At your age? Probably just because those boys are being rude and have no manners. A 13-year-old boy really doesn't have any legitimate reason to call a female a "bitch."

Anonymous · Answer

we only call them bitches when theyre being bitches,
and u can't deny some girls act like bitches sometimes: u know, that stuck up snobby “im better than everyone “ attitude... yeah, only girls act like that, guys never do

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know  I really dislike that word; the way it Rings in my ears. I also find it sexist

JoyGirl · Answer

I don't know, tbh. No guy has called me that... lol

Koalamate · Answer

I have and would never directly call anygirl a bitch.
I have however said it many times in a joke or talking about resting bitchface.
The why it's just a more discriptive word I don't use it to disrespect women but it can.

Hannah_le · Answer

I mean probably players or bully’s? I’ve never had a guy say that unless they are kidding n I call them names back as a joke but I’ve only seen it when a girl was being an actual bitch lmaoo.

winterfox10 · Answer

Because modern slang has popularized a number of tasteless terms.

RawIronhide · Answer

Depends on how you mean like "bitches be trippen" I think is how it's used mostly. I've used it out of context like that but I never call a specific person that.

Dave31989 · Answer

1.) A female dog 2.) Annoying complaining 3.) Used to describe a very rude person 4.) Someone's sidekick/slave

Simplismilez · Answer

Probably because the same reason that I call guys assholes. They did something to piss me off. But I don't say all guys are assholes just the ones that do certain fucked up things.

hellionthesagereborn · Answer

Most don't. I do only if its as a joke or if she is being a bad person otherwise I have never to my knowledge ever called girls bitches.

ashish804 · Answer

not like it but when m fucking her.. then as mood of being dirty

Vviiccttoorr · Answer

The guy is most likely a jerk unless the girl is genuinely a..

Guy0nGaG · Answer

In what scenario? I usually hear it in "guy talk", when men talk to each other (the men I know at least) we call women bitches and men motherfuckers, unless we personally know the person we're talking about. I don't know why we do this, but we just do it anyway.

LinkxPeach · Answer

I only call a girl a bitch because she’s being evil, and has a problem with a girl you date.

Snakeyes7 · Answer

That term is generally used when the girl in question isn't a nice person.

BobbyC65 · Answer

Because some girls are never nice it's their nature to be mean and I deal with a manager at Kroger and she a devil woman bitch.

Liam_Hayden · Answer

Unless she is a genuinely rude person, terms like that, if used seriously, seem to be used against girls who won't date the dude using it, or won't do something that he wants.

Anonymous · Answer

Why do women call men pigs? People throw out animal insults. In domesticated Dogs, female dogs are notorious having multiple mates, but usually the most dominant male claims the female as his "bi**h". However, it generally carries a negative connotation with disloyalty because they aren't always polygamous.

crmoore · Answer

Most guys don't, but some guys will do it in certain cultures. Typically they don't genuinely mean they're actually a bitch, it's just like slang for women.

TheLawAroundHere · Answer

Because for some reason or another, that word was adopted into current slang.

Anonymous · Answer

Because most guys are stupid jerks. I never insult girls. I can be rude only towards people who insult me first, regardless of their gender.

Anonymous · Answer

That's easy - On some level, they don't respect women and know this is a culturally appropriate way to try to put her down along gender lines.

TeeSquare · Answer

Because they are full of disrespect (the guys) and dont value a girl.

Xoirwinkan · Answer

Dont know what kind of guys you know, but in my circles we dont really.

MountAverage · Answer

Only immature idiots do that. You better stay away from them.

SaraSmithishere · Answer

Either the woman in question is actually a rude, miserable person, or the guy is just an asshole.

Pavel_MIZ · Answer

I don't. Why would I refer to a human using a word meant to describe a dog?

magiusX26 · Answer

2 definitions of the word bitch a female dog an unruly lady

N0AO5 · Answer

They just stupid, no more, there is no more reasons. They stupid (not all guys) but people that do that yes.

scorpy04 · Answer

Female dogs this what your being graded as which instead of looking this at a a negative Bitch the most loyal trustworhy friend anyone should be honored to be a part of

dragoblack · Answer

It's for the most part a gender targeted insult like the equivalent of a female calling a male "asshole"

amelieknows · Answer

some guys think its cool to use cussing in daily conversations

tHISpLACEiSbONKERZ · Answer

Reasons are many. The main one being bitchy behavior.

ibnenaseer · Answer

It was a girl who said to me to call her bitch or slut during sexting. She was also saying that she is my slave. So I don't know!

lanceeee · Answer

I usually see it happen when a guy is mad and petty over some stupid little thing a girl did and can't control his rage lol

whatdoyouwantt · Answer

Because they are probably

Twenty2 · Answer

Mostly cause she is in general. Sometimes because she's a bitch to him. Sometimes he's an asshole.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

I mean if they act like one. I dont call all girls bitches.

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