Why doesn't he reply but yet will watch every Instagram story of mine?

[Anonymous]

[Gwenhwyfar]

Thinks you’re hot but not interested in anything serious (maybe just online sexting stuff)

[Asker]

His lose then

[Gwenhwyfar]

What did u say to him that he didn’t reply to?

[Asker]

Nothing really I'm not sure maybe the distance because I'm in some other country until June

[Gwenhwyfar]

Did you guys have a convo at all? What did u talk about?

[Asker]

About ourselves and a little bit of nudes. Lol nothing I said was annoying seemed like a lot of the same opinions about things and interests

[Gwenhwyfar]

He’s not into u except to masturbate over. Doesn’t want anything serious. Dw. He’ll reply when he wants more nudes.

[Asker]

Ohwell can't force it his loss

[Gwenhwyfar]

I agree with u. I’m sorry girl.

Don’t send any more nudes unless that’s all u want too

[Asker]

Yeah nobody is into me it sucks

[Gwenhwyfar]

I’m really sorry. Don’t send nudes so fast next time.

[Asker]

wouldn't matter anyway if that's all they wanted

[Gwenhwyfar]

Yeah but at least then u wouldn’t get used

These guys are fake players. They have like zero patience. Never send nudes until you know the guy’s serious about you unless that’s all you want.

[btbc92]

The person is probably not interested in talking. And they just probably just want to observe.

[Asker]

It sucks single forever can only get friends with benefits status

[btbc92]

It's your choice to fornicate and screw around. If that's the case he's dodging a bullet and that's probably why he's observing me because he spent that about you that you live a lifestyle that he does not like. That's exactly what happens. But then his right to know exactly who he wants to get involved with before he gets involved with you and then regrets it. You're single forever because of the choices you choose to make. Unless you decide to change from those ways and Lifestyles, you run a government be single forever because these guys don't want, no offense, a hoe, for a girlfriend. Or a wife. Bad enough these men are making poor choices as it is. So once again you have a choice of what you want to live. He's being smart. It says a lot about you than it does about him. Think about it, because it's ruining your life.

[btbc92]

And it's not just my opinion. I'm being very serious. Man does not like that in a woman. They'll use you for those that do, but they will not take you seriously. Until you start taking yourself seriously, they're just going to move on to the next girl. I don't care what Missy formation or BS lies you were sold about concerning sex in men in love. There's a reason why you keep yourself until marriage for sex, because these men could tell you anything, use you, abuse you, move on, and they messed up themselves. You got to be smart about your life choices. Because at the end of the day nobody's going to give a damn about you. You can only care about yourself. But at the same time if you want love, you got to learn how to love people as you also wish to love yourself. Because if you don't love yourself you're going to do what you choosing to do. And then these men are not going to know what to do with you. Don't do that to yourself. Is better for you to be by yourself than to be with a person who's not going to appreciate or respect you.

[Asker]

I was a virgin until 24 and I do not have a bad lifestyle I'm forever in the gym and living a healthy lifestyle and I have a art account on instagram not sure why they are seeing like that

[btbc92]

You just said you have friends with benefits. That means that you're living that lifestyle. If you doing that then you do have a bad lifestyle. It doesn't matter all the good things that you have in public, but about what you choose to do in private. And that's what these men are concerned about. As should we women about men. Be it if he's good or bad, if you want to attract the right kind of man you can't be doing this.

[Asker]

Only had one friends with benefits with a guy and he was the hoe all he did was date girls on tinder and had like millions of girls block him

[btbc92]

They are less concerned about your hobbies and more concerned about your sex life in your relationship with other men. Because they want sex. Period. And then you got to wash the creeps that expect you to chase after them especially if you already attractive. They're going to trick you into chasing them no different than other women use that towards men. But you still slept with him and that's a problem. They ain't worried about that. They'll say that you are not smart because you should have known that he was not good. But the moment you slept with him that's it. All bets are off when you do stuff like that. Because his the problem. Even if it was only a one night stand let's see. A Friends with Benefits is acknowledging of what you're doing sexually. You've acknowledged that therefore you cannot blame him for being a whoremonger because you chose to slept with a whoremonger.

[Asker]

Omg I what have I done he was such a creeper yuck. I think I fell for that 6ft 4 guy too easily. He has no lives apart from tinder.

[btbc92]

You got to remember something. Unless these men are bisexual or gay, they are not trying to sleep with that guy that had millions of girls on Tinder. They are thinking about sleeping with you who slept with a guy who messed around with millions of girls on Tinder. And for them that's a deal-breaker. Like I told you before. Big is that good or bad. I know for a fact I see that in a guy, I am going the opposite way. I do not agree with sex before marriage for the very reasons your do. Besides not agreeing with dating apps and website, for the very thing that you just said. Because people are not stable. The my call you a prude and religious because you're trying to do right by God, you trying to live life right. But you make choices that you made, and now you got to live with those choices. And you lost your virginity and a chance at a healthy sex life for what? A guy who behaves like a dog. In my opinion you're not only attracting the wrong kind of men, you're going after the wrong kind of man. And doing all the wrong things to begin with. If you can't trust a person don't bother with them. I don't care how much they want to look your way, if you know that kind of guy is only interested in helping in your panties you need to just drop the guy. Plain and simple.

[btbc92]

Well I'll say this. If what you're saying is true at least you're trying to do something productive in your life. But you can't afford to be living that kind of Lifestyle cuz look what is already do it to you already. Just focus on what you're doing. But leave these men alone. For your sake. Just leave them be. Because you don't know what you're picking up. And you don't need to make the same mistakes again. Because God forbid if you don't get that straightened out you do not want to end up going to the clinic only for you to find out you got a disease from somebody.

[Asker]

Never again he also bullied me because I wasn't going out dating people constantly because I focused on my career but at 28 I feel more ready to look for something

[btbc92]

Sweetheart. Listen to a woman who has her virginity, that believes in God, who stands for the things of God. Stop listening to that loser! He's just insecure because he don't got a life! So he wants to see you ruined like him. That's what I realized. I'm trying to focus on school and getting myself settled in my career, and do what I got to do for myself. These men that want to speak that garbage are a joke! If you want a chance at a real relationships you got to start ignoring those losers.

[btbc92]

Repent from your sins, give it to God, let God lead you, mold and shake it to the woman that he calls for you to be and leave the old behind. Will you choose to do sexually does not have to be your future. But it is simply your choice. You do not have to drive yourself crazy over men like that who are not looking to do something with themselves. You do not have to be a so-called rich person order for you to have something in life. The fact that he thinks Humpin around with different women is life is why he's stuck in a rut he's in. That's why he's constantly on Tinder and he's getting millions of women blocking his crazy behind. I am not here to be personally judging him because I do not know who to make such a judgment. But I said like this is just flat-out common sense. You have more common sense than he does and he act like he does not even have any amount of intelligence in his brain. Because at the end of the day all he wants to do is help with different women. If he wanted stability he would not be treating women like human sex toys. If he is struggling with an addiction with sounds like that he needs to go get help instead of using women like cattle.

[btbc92]

You have a second chance don't screw that up over a man.

[btbc92]

Shape you*

[Asker]

Yeah he's blocked fuck him what a terrible experience. Never again indo not entertain guys that straight out ask for nudes which seems to be a lot and I also have e gaged men trying to get some wtf

[btbc92]

Asker. No. Any man that ask you for nudes, any man that doubles with pornography and masturbation, who lust after women, is a pervert. You are not being a prude or anything for keeping yourself covered, for respecting your sexual integrity, and it starts by respecting yourself. Heck even if your husband behaves that way, he needs to respect you the same way you have to respect him. Treat others how you also wish to be treated. You should not be displaying your body to men because they ask for it. You don't got to do anything that you do not want to do. That's why a lot of them don't like me because I ain't giving into their perversions. Things that would not be acceptable hundreds of years ago is now being thrown out there. You got to start treating yourself with respect. Don't settle for that crap.

[btbc92]

You do not owe this man anything. You owe it to yourself to respect yourself the way how you desire to be respected and treated. They're the ones that need to prove themselves to you not the other way around.

[Asker]

Its sp frustrating you so many relationships these days and I'm still fighting these losers

[btbc92]

There's no need for you to fight you just need to just ignore them. It's as simple as that if you don't know them personally you do not owe them a so-called friend request, follow, or whatever it is you got going on. Only have your accounts for people you naturally have relationships with or somebody you would least have met at least once or twice and you desire to get to know them further. Leave these strangers alone.

[Obscurite]

Hunting you.

[Asker]

Huh?

[Obscurite]

Unseen he stalks, unheard he waits, unresponsive pretending you can't see him, he likes... *Jumanji theme song*

[Asker]

I don't get that lol

[Sia_nee]

Block him

[Asker]

Yes what a tir