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I'd say he is just trying to push too much of a good thing.
If he has to be "rewarded" to do every little thing such as to wash his car, water plants, etc., then he IS your boy friend because that sure doesn't sound like a man. (The BJ part is like a man, but whining for it for every piddly little chore is very lame).
It's a stupid flag. I hope you aren't actually carrying out his reward?
That’s a red flag. And you’re being scammed because a blow job costs way more than a few house chores if he wants to be so transactional about your relationship. One bj equals a month of dishes. Every day.
Make him paint the garage over and over. He will get too tired to get even hard😂u r welcome
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Getting a bj for everything he does is a guy thing, and it can be used to be playful. It can also be used to get a bj some times. If he actually expects a bj for everything he does, that is a red flag.
Is this guy like 17 or something? Not really a mature guy. Wanting oral sex to do any kind of work around the home is really messed up and why do you even put up with that? Tell him to go blow himself from now on.
It's really annoying. Make him eat you out whenever you do something special too.
God! How do some people on here end up in such terrible relationships? Of course it's a "red flag." It's abuse.
I mean its laziness along with big brain power at the same time, but honestly i can see how it might be a red flag tho so it depends really
Sounds like he's being playful. If you are giving him one for every chore he does, it sounds like you're a unicorn.
Your boyfriend sounds like an asshole.
I mean I'm guessing you probably gave it to him before and now he thinks he could keep doing it.
Well good luck with that.
He might be spoiled or he might have realised you bother him a lot and don't give him anything in return. So he's demanding some balance.
not a red flag but a clever boyfriend if he's getting it that way. try it in reverse
Sounds like he really likes blowjobs and that you are really good at them. :)
It is really fucking annoying. Especially if he won't do it unless you blow him. What an asshole.
Not a red flag he is just eanting something in return.
If you like doung it then enjoy it.
But let him know whst you think.
Talk it out. If you dont want to then dont.
Unless he's joking, you need to break up with him immediately. But quite honestly, the fact alone that you don't know, means your relationship is shit anyway.
Just because he does something nice for you, doesn't mean you owe him sexual favours. So yes, red flag.
The more obvious red flag is that you have to tell him to clean his room like your his mother or something.
Yes, probably yes. If what you are saying is true.
It doesn't even have to be literally, it could be most.
But then it would mean that you probably do nothing but blowjobs all day.
What does he do for you when you vacuum the living room?
yes he's a dumb selfish moron or your just real good at it
Huge red flag and unbelievably immature. I can’t believe you’re actually in a relationship with this person.
yeah
but, i also think you're too young to be having a boyfriend anyway
you should be dating, not in a serious relationship
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