What actually makes a guy fall in love with a girl. What are guys actually looking for?

[Anonymous]

what actually makes a guy fall in love with a girl. What are guys actually looking for?

[Lliam]

Looks, personality and sexuality are what it takes to fall into infatuation. Infatuation feels like love. But true love develops when you know her better. You get to know her quirks, idiosyncrasies, habits and behaviors. You love her personality, intellect, intuition, work ethic, sense of humor, etc. You know that you can trust her completely. You are a sexual match but also fit in so many other ways. You can see yourself growing old together.

[Lliam]

Thanks for the MHO!

[kkirk4442]

Every guys is different. For me, it's a girl with a nice smile, good personality, good character, and a sense of humor. And honesty and her caring about people is very important.

[Hoper-101]

I agree

[Hoper-101]

TBH Most guys in 2020 look for sex but there are some who don't. When I started dating the man who would soon become my husband I asked him this question. exactly what he said was, "I don't want a beautiful face, I want a beautiful soul. Someone who has a kind and gentle heart. Someone who is bold and fights for what she wants but the right way. I want someone who would smile on her worst day just to brighten others days. I want someone with a pure, beautiful heart and soul." I could tell that as he said that he was deep in thought. We were married for 18 years and his thoughts never changed.

[Anonymous]

I'm not a good example, but I think a girl that is nurturing and knows how to lead a relationship would make me fall in love with her. I don't have any experience dating, and I'm anxious and timid around people. I think I'd instantly fall for a girl that made me feel comfortable around her.

[Makeushiver]

That is the unknowable commodity. It’s probably a blend of personality traits, world view, and looks that come together in a package that’s irresistible to one person and maybe does nothing for someone else. Not nothing, but not as all encompassing

[wankiam]

we are all different and you would do well to learn that... just be yourself and someone will like you as you are

[VanillaSalt]

Lol. First I gotta ask. Should i tell you the truth in hopes you’ll be an example for other women or should I tell you to fuck of were nolonger interested in your kinda women?

[BarryLiverstone]

When he realizes he doesn’t like life without her in it

[VanillaSalt]

Good fucking luck with that. That’s called a fuck boii... a little bitch that can’t keep his shit together without her. No woman finds that neediness attractive.

[BarryLiverstone]

Huh? That’s called a boyfriend. And that’s not neediness.

[Hoper-101]

I agree, love/like is something where you just want to be with them and life is better with them in it, also known as a Boyfriend/partner. Neediness is being a child when they are gone or can't give you what you need

[GAGSucksBalls1]

different guys like different things

but essentially, it's gonna come down to: kids

If you want them or not, and how many

[Anonymous]

Acceptance and validation.

[Gosceewual]

Any girl who isn't a retarded bitch

[Hoper-101]

People can't help it if the are retarded but they can help it if they are a bitch

[Gosceewual]

@Hoper-101 I'm retarded myself so it isn't racist if I say the r word

[Gosceewual]

Yet my mom n society don't make an exception for me like "oh he's jus retarded well let him. off "

No they still get mad at me for making mistakes I can't help

[anylolone]

Mostly the same as chicks.

[chris_987]

A tight vagina

[Anonymous]

These days? Something you cannot provide - safety.

[austinbooth]

Must be Christian