Why does this guy get jealous when I find a guy attractive but get turned on when I find a girl attractive?

[eileen_ruth]

[Bricealan]

Human nature, partly, eileen-ruth. First of all a brief "same story" for you. My girlfriend flirts when we are out, and thinks it is 'okay'. When I flirt with a younger, attractive women, she is furious ! Folds her arms and if looks could kill, SHE WOULD.

Back to your question, the same thing applies to your boyfriend, he is jealous of other guys flirting with you. By the same token, I WOULD get turned on if my girlfriend were attracted to another girl / woman. Same sex, sex between women, seems to be a hot button for men, and I AM no exception. The idea of him imagining you with another woman, naked or not, kissing, holding, fondling you and you her, is a very hot visualization for men.

With that said, I had a girlfriend once who visualized me having sex with my best friend.
Go Figure? !

Bruce

[na2398]

Coz he prolly has a crush on you and is possessive. He sees no future of you with a girl because he thinks you're straight. No idea what the reality is.

[eileen_ruth]

I'm not straight though. Literally thought I loved a girl... I'd def marry a girl

[na2398]

More power to you! Whatever makes you happy. :) Make it clear to him without fearing if he'd judge you

[Diversity_Hire]

Because he wants to be your guy, so the thought of you with other guys bothers him. Meanwhile, being a living, breathing male, he finds the idea of you with a woman attractive.

Easy enough, just very baseline behavior.

[TonyV]

He's insecure, women aren't competing for his manliness but other men are.

[Wise4myage]

When it comes to guys, he wants you all to himself. But he also wants to have a threesome with you and another girl.

[AydenHazor]

Because he gets off on the idea of being with you and another girl at the same time where he's not into guys

[Satish2607]

Well not really sure, I never really felt that very jealous though.

[lucyloo76]

I don't know , it's him being a guy.

[Lone_wolf122]

He's jealous... Seems like a normie

[Lone_wolf122]

Lol.. That's like the third or fourth question of you i answered today... i wish asking was as easy as answering here 😅.. Unfortunately it's not

[Aiko_E_Lara]

He wants a threesome with you

[pokenstroke]

He is hoping for a threesome

[Joker_]

I don't know why

[Anonymous]

Probably because he likes lesbians.