Why does he always want me to hold him while he’s sleeping? (Page 2)
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Some guys are like dogs, they always want their belly rubbed.
Me and my girl hold each other in are arms to cuddle until we fall asleep but I like it feel her warmth and hands around me. It kinda like a never ending hug. Also you can also feel all the love with holding each other if that makes sense.
May be he feels safe when you do this. I think it's totally okay when you share your feelings with him. I mean you can tell him that you don't like to do this all the time. At the end... It's your right
Some people have weird needs. I would consider this as lack of respect if my partner taps me when i fall asleep just because my arms are on another place she wishes. That would be stuff for serious discussion.
Because its something he has grown up with. More than likely his mother or someone close to him used to do it a lot when he was growing up so he got used to it being a security blanket of sorts
Maybe he didn’t get enough affection during early childhood.
It’s your relationship and a good one it sounds.
But just speaking from my own experience. I caressed her and her I at times.
Oh honey, that is exactly what I wish I had. My guy grumbles about how long he “has to” cuddle. Enjoy having someone physically show affection and comfort.
That dude is weird lol. What kind of guy asks his girlfriend to hold him like that? Shouldn't it be the other way around?
Some guys just like being held and they're light sleepers.
It's just a quirk
If he was a man it would be the other way around , Is he the female in the relationship?
Next time he asks, go get your broom and stick it up his ass and ask him to leave you the fuck alone and let you fall asleep.
lol... I have "anxiety" attacks, not often, but sometimes. They come out of nowhere... I find that simple physical contact is very calming... and I do not worry about having an attack
The guy just wants to be held... some people are like that...
If you don't like your man tell him to fuck off.
There. That was easy.
He likes to be cuddled by you, not much of anything that is bad?
Who the hell doesn't like a good snuggle to go to sleep to?
Some of these responses have me a little worried!
It sounds like he is safe, enjoys spending time with you, and loves you. He could just be a clingy guy, too.
there might be some ptsd or something going one there im not sure. may want to get to know him more to gauge it... or just ask him directly
That's both adorable and moronic, lol.
He's like a dog "didn't tell no one to stop petting!"
Lol!