Guys Is talking with a pretty girl harder?

[Anonymous]

Guys Is talking with a pretty girl harder?

I mean.. when you guys see pretty girl... do you think that you aren't good enough for her and you are afraid to make your move and you are also afraid of getting rejected? Do you first think sexually about her?

[AmeerX]

I think I find it hard to talk to a pretty girl but if I really like her I will give her a letter of my mouth cannot do the talking

[Asker]

why your mouth cannot do the talking to her?

[AmeerX]

😔 I don't want to be rejected all the time. I have a heart too you know. I don't want to be in the fire all the time. I don't like this stupid hook up nonsense. I don't lust after girls. I show my vulnerable side when I tell a person how I feel about them. I am normally a very rigid person. I treat my friends and foes with same level of ⚖️ justice. So, not many people really like me.
I am hero to my friends and the villain to those I oppose based on my principles.

[AmeerX]

So, not many people really like me. God gives me peace nonetheless and I don't want the other person to think I am I am weak. I am not weak. I just don't want to come out too strongly. I don't want to scare them away

[AmeerX]

Once this group of girls and guys made fun of me for showing interest in a girl including herself. So, I made a vow I won't keep any girl in my group no matter how much I like it. Kept it throughout my bachelor degree

[Anonymous]

yeah because all the blood rushes away from our brain and makes it hard to be articulate

[Asker]

why?

[Opinion Owner]

sometime when i look at girls my penis gets stiff

[ohshee]

A girl is a girl beauty comes from the inside but she can melt you with her eyes if you let her know if you're yourself you can talk to anybody I treat everybody the same so it doesn't matter to me I'm just me I don't try to impress anybody I don't try to pick up on people I'm just me do we think of you sexually yes I'm thinking of you sexy right now and I don't even know you except for your name is anonymous and do me a favor next time you talk to your parents ask him what happened did they run out of names in the baby book how come they named you Anonymous is it what are your aunts name or your great grandma's name or something I'm just curious LOL are you worried about some guy not putting effort into trying to pick up on you or something go to him and pick up on him

[Ditto626]

Me personally I dont speak to girls unless spoken to. I was told I look like and axe murderer (so translation I'm creepy looking) so I don't want them to feel uncomfortable. I can talk to girls regardless of their looks but I don't have much to say conversation wise. We don't have much in common.

[thebestalt]

Depends on the guy. If the guy is really confident in himself then no. If the guy has anxiety and has a lower self-esteem, then yes. It all depends. They are definitely afraid of getting rejected but also making mistakes that would cause you to make fun of them in their eyes. And it's not common for a guy to look at a girl sexually first. That depends on the guy and it's only a minority that does.

[IHateBeingaMan]

yes it is for many guys, and its another reminder how 99 percent of the time, even if the woman is interested or attracted to the guy, she still won't be the one to make a move or ask him out first, there are times i hate having a penis because of that

[BeMuse]

I don’t have any issue talking to them, but they often freeze up like a deer in the head lights and make it weird...

[Asker]

you mean guys often freeze up like a deer in the head lights and make it weird when talking to a pretty girl?

[BeMuse]

No I mean pretty girls often freeze up when I talk to them. That sort of panic behavior makes communication awards many times. Thus “talking with a pretty girl is harder” because when they meet someone they are interested in who speaks to them with confidence, they often over think it.

[Asker]

what they overthink about it?

[BeMuse]

I don’t know… But if you go all deer in the headlights, it’s usually a fear thing. I assume people don’t know what to say and don’t want to say the wrong thing and look stupid so they freeze. As a result they look stupid… Indecision is a decision in itself.

[Lynx122]

In the past definitely yes but I've changed a lot I don't know how I'd feel about it now. I thin it's less of a big deal now.

[midnightcavern01]

What kind of question is this? It works vise versa. No guy is gonna admit to this insecurity

[Anonymous]

The more attracted I am to a girl l, the more shy and strange I act around her.

[Asker]

why?

[FilmGuy93]

Not in my experience. I find the prettier girls easier to talk to.

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes, it is harder.
No, I don't feel sexually about her.

[Asker]

why its harder?

[princeofromance]

No, I find it easy. They are people just like us. The only differences are their gender and private parts.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

No. In my experience everything is super easy if there's chemistry between the two. It just flows very nicely.

[Gertrude_Awonk]

Whenever I see a pretty girl at work I look away so I can concentrate.

[Pete671]

I find it easier if they are out of my league,

[KrakenAttackin]

You are 30+ and asking this?

[scott04sa22]

Sometimes