Why do senior boys always hit on freshman girls?

[Anonymous]

They’re literally 18 and looking for colleges, why re they hitting on all the 14-15 yr olds. It’s really weird, I heard other people talking about how it happens in highschool but didn’t actually know it was real until it happened to me several times.

[btbc92]

They're looking for naive sex partners because some of them already slept with practically everybody in the school so far. They want new people to mess with. It's an equivalent to grown people dating children. Scratch that, they ARE NOW grown people in a way trying to sexually get a child. They make it like "tradition" and it's sicking in. I was scared of going through puberty because of all of the horny boys around. I remember going to school and one of our classmates was literally having sex with a minor 14/13 years old living alone with her in his house with no parents around! Talk about rape, it is illegal. He tried getting one of my friends into that and once she rejected him, he stopped talking to her. Found another victim instead. Good thing that 14 year old at the time left him when she did. I lost a lot of respect for that guy. A lot of girls that do attempt and throw themselves at these boys have lost their minds, but some of them already dated teens and young men even as young as late elementary or middle school anyway. Very toxic. They know they don't want marriage and kids, yet they lie to these girls about wanting to love them when they don't. They just want to deflower virgins they want to sleep with. Pump and dump are what they are looking for.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Because a lot of freshman girls get crushes on senior guys so they’re easy for the guys to mess around with. It can be disgusting and exploitative or it can be a beautiful romance (like with me and my first serious boyfriend). All depends on the couple.

[Leavesbound]

High school sure has changed since I was a kid. No high school senior would even talk to a freshman let along flirt with one. It would have meant the immediate death of their social life. In my school the only time a senior and freshman would be in the same place at the same time would be the restrooms and gym class. Seniors would hardly ever take the bus and when they did they would sit up front. Freshman were relegated to the back of the bus. Upper class and lower class would be separated in the cafeteria. There were no classes that the two would take together except gym and sexes were not mixed in gym class. In fact it would be fairly rare for seniors to ever have the opportunity to speak to a freshman. If one did they would be mercilessly ridiculed to the end of the school year. So how do seniors even associate with freshman? I believe all of the above was done deliberately to prevent socializing between seniors and freshman as it was all encouraged.

[NoManTwo]

Seriously?

[Leavesbound]

@NoManTwo That was the 1970's and yes seriously that is how a lot of high schools in New England were back then.

[Dontaaa]

I've been at uni before and they baiscally see y'all female freshman "freshmeat".

In their eyes they just see y'all as a possible easy quick fuck, nothing more.

Freshman are impressionable so they take advantage of that.

I've seen this first hand so🤷

[2018life]

LOL this is what my younger sis says

"Well I'm glad that won't happen to me

anyone who tries will be in for a big surprise

I'm christian so i don't believe in dating older guys, and I also don't believe in sex before marriage, plus I already have a boyfriend"

every time she brings up her current situation in life I'm like dang she got it ALL XD

[Anonymous]

Young, easily impressed etc. First thing I did when I got a good job was buy a flash car and go back to my old school and ended up giving 3 young ladies a ride home. Did that a few times with them, had sex with them one after the other.
Women tend to prefer older men for whatever reason so by hitting on younger you have a better success rate.
Even now at my age the teenage girls we get to babysit will let me f*ck them when I give them a ride home, though I have to take a blue pill to get it on with my wife later that night.

[Asker]

How do you sleep with people when you’re married? Is your wife okay with that

[Opinion Owner]

I dont sleep. My wife doesn't know. She knows other women want me and it keeps her intrest

[2018life]

so... you cheat?

[Opinion Owner]

@2018life sometimes yeah.

[Paolaa988]

I don't know... its weird. Why dont they go for older girls? Give us older women a chance now smh

[The_Maphio]

Yet another dumb question borne of no factual data.

[DamnSam]

Well, being pedo is way more common than most think... and community structures like that make it only worse and more acceptable at the same time

[rebeliouse]

is this not obvious girls around that age are more mature and guys their age are less mature.

same as guys start to masturbate mid to late teens where girls start pre or early teens

[John_Doesnt]

Because as a senior gets older, the freshman girls stay the same age.

[Twalli]

The girls are just starting puberty and getting hot. Plus they haven't had to put up with their bitching for 4 years.

[In_Trance]

3-4 years is not a big deal. People dobt change; girls like older guys; guys like younger girls

[Asker]

The age gap doesn’t seem big but it’s a mental maturity that’s wrong

[Asker]

They literally just came out of middle school and other said person is going to college, that’s just wrong

[In_Trance]

you're not wrong, however, mental maturity is subjective and not defined by age.

[aliali8]

3-4 yr age gap might not mean a lot when you’re 28 and 31 but it’s a huge age gap if we are talking about 17 and 14

[aliali8]

Maturity is also different from experience. Experience and knowledge is what makes someone grow out of a world of naïveté. Maturity has nothing to do with experience.

[In_Trance]

Its really not that big of a gap at 14/17; its difficult to see when you're on the inside looking out.
Matutity has everything to do with knowledge. They go hand in hand.

[aliali8]

Do u realize there is more development 14-17 than 28-31?

[In_Trance]

No... not necessarily more. Just different.

[aliali8]

@In_Trance i don't think you understand how different 14 yr old and 17 yr olds are.

[In_Trance]

I can assure you that I do I was both of those ages at one time

[aliali8]

You don't seem like you remember. Because nobody would say a 14 yr old would be anything like a 17 yr old

[In_Trance]

We could go back and forth on this forever. You asked the question and I answered. In time you'll see exactly what I mean when you look at it from the outside. It's nothing new and it's part of human nature which isn't about to change.

[aliali8]

ok. go ask another adult and see whether or not most 17 yr olds would date 14 yr olds. Most won't.

[aliali8]

Frequently 17 yr olds only date 14 yr olds because they don't have a variety of girls to choose from. Once these 17 yr olds hit college, this is when they realize how big the world is and how many more women that are out there. This is when all the breakups happen.

[zeitgeist057]

@aliali8 "... whether or not most 17 yr olds would date 14 yr olds. Most won't..." Please reference the original question which in fact says most will and are. It's what the entire question is about. Literally "Why are seniors (17 and 18 year olds) trying to date the freshmen (14 year olds)?"

[aliali8]

@zeitgeist057 that’s the million dollar question

“What does someone who is about to turn 18 have anything in common with a 14 yr old?”

I can see a 18 yr old dating a 16 yr old. But definitely not a 17/18 yr old dating a 14 yr old

[aliali8]

@zeitgeist057 I disagree with this question because I remember back when I was a senior in high school, there were no seniors dating freshman girls. I remembered a senior dating either juniors or sophomores. Just being honest right here. This was back in 2013.

[aliali8]

I will be honest, most high school guys fantasize about older women (college girls). College girls are usually the ones with the bigger breasts, wider hips, more womanly bodies. You might find senior boys dating high school girls only because they don't have the access to older women.

[zeitgeist057]

@aliali8 that's fine you can disagree with the majority, I often do that myself.

It's a moot point either way, because simply because the majority is or isn't doing something doesn't make it objectively right or wrong. It merely makes it SUBJECTIVELY "right" or "wrong".

[aliali8]

@zeitgeist057 hun, I have experience. Younger guys (up until a certain age) tend to prefer older women. Older guys tend to prefer younger women.

[zeitgeist057]

@aliali8 so you're saying that men of any age prefer women of the same age?

(Men under 20)----->>(Women around 20s) <<-----(Men over 20s). ?

[aliali8]

@zeitgeist057 men under 21/22 tend to be more attracted to older women. I remember back in high school , most of the boys fantasized about older women , such as college girls. But they just didn’t have any access to older women. Older women have more developed womanly bodies.

Men older than 22 tend to be attracted to women around their age or a few years younger.

As men hit their mid to late 30s, this is when they start to lust over 16-20 yr olds the most. The older he is, the more likely he is to lust over 16-20 yr olds.

[aliali8]

@zeitgeist057 but I can garuantee you that when these seniors hit college, they would absolutely have no interest in dating high school girls anymore. This is when a lot of the breakups happen.

Some of them try to long distance but most of their relationships end up failing. It’s because these boys find out how cool the adult world is , how much hotter and wilder college women are compared to high school girls.

[aliali8]

@zeitgeist057

young men usually have no problem dating older women. It’s just that these older girls have no interest dating younger men.

Women also tend to like to date men just a few years older , not significantly older. When they do date significantly older , it usually is an old man fetish, type of thing

[Wise4myage]

They're hoping freshman girls are naive and easy to use for sex.

[J9inva]

Guys tend to like girls a few years younger than themselves. I graduated at 17. My girlfriend was 15.

[bamesjond0069]

Well they got to because even older guys are stealing the senior girls.

[Clarke498]

Probably easier to gain their respect or love than the girls their own age.

[NoManTwo]

What age should senior guys go after?

Don't freshmen girls fantasized about seniors?

[btbc92]

Most do NOT. And often it is just a FANTASY that doesn't mean a person literally wants to date a person who is now an adult. Especially for girls, most of them only do it for status to make them look popular and to be seen by people. Butt hey usually get hurt by those boys because all those boys really want is to use them for sex, the girls don't know better offers sex hopes to be loved, and perhaps marry having their kids one day. These men aren't even thinking about marriage or kids. It's disgusting. Senior guys need to date other senior girls or junior at the max. Or don't date at all if sex is your intent which 9/10x it is. Glad I avoided them. A lot of guys are clueless.

[Asker]

I’m lesbian so I’m not even attracted to men but so many seniors still try and go for me, it’s more creepy than fantasy

[btbc92]

It doesn't matter. Most people have perverted minds and these girls often do, yet the guys may take it a step further unless the girl is asking for it. That's why some of these girls as guys brag about who they slept with.

[aliali8]

@btbc92 I will be honest, most high school guys fantasize about older women (college girls). College girls are usually the ones with the bigger breasts, wider hips, more womanly bodies. You might find senior boys dating high school girls only because they don't have the access to older women.

[btbc92]

And that is why you stay away from them because if it wad legal, they woukd have sex with them while also trying to deflower you. Their red flags for a reason. Trust me when I say I understand this very clearly which is why you stay away from those kind of men. Those kind of men just lust after women and they don't give a damn about them. And no calls girl. Have nothing to do with who has bigger breasts, hips, etcetera. Has nothing to do with that. Have to do with their mentality. It's not that they only have access. It has everything to do with how they treat women. That's why those kind of boys, they drove it to Bitter men whose upset because they are to choose to cheat, or they're unhappy with their own marriages and relationships. Those are the type of boys that allowed his girls get involved with and then they want to know why they have their virginity is lost, and they're always single or try to send kind of Menda abused them and use them. This is a time where I tell a lot of women stay away from those type of boys, because what you see there is who you going to see in the future when they have all of these Partners but they can't keep one.

[OliviaOfTheScots]

Younger = easier to a lot of guys

[seanscoopers]

No I don't do with kids

[Browneye57]

Cuz they can. How much under 18?

[msc545]

Probably because they are unattached and easier.

[Texasguy99]

They think you’ll be easy

[seanscoopers]

Oh really than it's child abusing

[Yellovv]

Under 18 is child abuse..

[Anonymous]

and i am sure that the freshmen girls hate that