I would Like to know if my Crush is using me?

[Anonymous]

There is this boy I meet on Snapchat and we have been sending nudes to eachother. Well when we first met and started snapping he would call me 'cutie' and 'luv' (wich him calling me luv was a little weird for me) but anyway he called me things like that. Well, it went on for a few days and then all of a sudden he stopped calling me those things. But I like him and when he asks me to send I send a few pics and then he doesn't say anything. He used to call me hot and stuff a lot. Also He used to answer me right away and snap me a lot, now he leaves me on delivered for a long time. And is snapping me less. Does it sound like he's just using me? Or maybe bc I didn't compliment him like he did me, maybe he stopped to not seem weird? Also, anybody know what the best way to ask him if he's using me would be? Bc I don't want him to get mad at me.

[DrHonesty]

Never send nudes, kills the physical anticipation build up of a normal relationship. And never give someone what they ask for, creates desirability.

[Avicenna]

It sounds like he didn't get the positive vibes he was looking for and stopped

[Rosegold020]

He is most likely using you yes. He wanted nudes in the beginning and you agreed now its on to the next girl.

[Coolkat12345]

well your mistake was sending nudes to somebody your not married to

[Asker]

Yes, I agree. Thank you for letting me know. I have decided to not send. I regret it knowing my future spouse will not be the first to see me and that breaks my heart. Thank you:)

[Coolkat12345]

Exactly only do stuff like tht once the man is committed thank you for being modest I appreciate it and it also makes the world a better place.

[Iron_Man]

Why does every female under 18 talk about a crush you’re too young to be dating anyway

[KrakenAttackin]

Under 18 and sending nudes... brilliant.

[Asker]

Yes, but I regret what I did. And learned my lesson

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

yes, he is

[Asker]

So do you think it would be good to tell him I feel he is using me? And if so, how do I tell him (without making him mad)?

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

say "good bye, leave me alone" and move on. YOU DESERVE BETTER, hun

[Asker]

Ok, Thank you so much for the advive:) I asked him last night if he was using me and he told me no that he wouldn't get mad if I don't send, and that he would still talk to me. But I will definitely have to do what you said, Thank you again