Is my crush using me?

[Anonymous]

We've known each other for 4-5 months. We are so close rn. He said that he likes me & I said i like him too. We act like a couple. When I brought up a relationship topic he said that he's confused with himself bc he has been hurt pretty bad in the past & dont wanna hurt me & dont wanna lose me. He also said 'even if we start a relationship rn it would last for a month bc i would probably start ignoring u, i can't help it'. He's treating me like his girlfriend but still seeing other girls while I cut off every guy that comes around. Every time I see some girl on his snapchat or on his phone Im asking about it. Also sometimes he seems so distant through messages but every time we meet its amazing. I don't know what to do really... I dont wanna anyone to take my place... What if he'll find someone better than me? HEEELP!!!

[Anonymous]

Maybe he is just badly effected by past experience and do now want same thing to happen with you if he said that he likes means hs likes you maybe it will take time to recover form the past experience plus you two are lucky that you said your feelings to each other many times its just one sided liking but you both like each other make it happen just don't pressurise him i would love to hear this form someone its liek my dream that a girl conveys her feelings for me but i think it wil not happen so just try to make it work good luck!!!

[Asker]

thank u 😊

[Opinion Owner]

U r welcome

[Mega_illuminati]

you can also do the same and see his reaction. If he gets upset, ask him to make things between you two concrete,. If he does not care, you should distance yourself and try to get over him. He does not like you enough.

[Asker]

thank u for the reply 😊

[Rachel_is_gay]

Seeing other girls? Can't he have female friends? My guy friend went through the same problem lol he was being really close with one of his female friend (his bestfriend) then his girlfriend got jealous and they broke up.

[mmk780]

try to give him a little bit space if he was using you he would have left you already move slowly try to live your life and see how things go on men like to feel calmness and hate pushy and controlling relationships

[Asker]

i'll do that 😊 thank u so much!

[LightningXombat1]

Go make your move. This is the part where the Girl (you) gives him a firm question. Go ask him, "This is the question I've been wanting to ask you for days: I love you. I hope you feel the same way about me. I want an answer on the question that you wanna start the relationship. I'm having a lot of trouble with the fact that you still hang around with other girls. I want to be your girl."
To be simple, go be bold, go confess

[Asker]

i was already bringing this topic twice. I dont wanna push him away

[LightningXombat1]

You won't. it makes it clear that you have him locked on your mind and you r not going to let another guy take his place.