I have a crush on this guy for three years and it was all fine until he figured out like two weeks ago… I don't know who told him or that he guessed it by himself but now it’s a mess. Like three days ago my friend asked him if he friendzoned me since we don’t talk ever since he figured out (keep in mind we’re not really close friends but he’s a social butterfly who talks to everyone including me but it’s only on school stuffs) and he said that he’s waiting for me to confess. I thought of confessing to him yesterday, just before the weekend as we just finished our exam and I don’t want to bother him etc. the next day (after he said so), i skipped school due to an emergency and my friend told me that he suddenly wanted me to forget about my feelings for him, he said I shouldn’t like him and that he’s disappointed that I don’t confess to him (I have social anxiety and panic attack that’s why). he starts ignoring my friends who tries to talk about me to him. I was confused. He changed his mind so fast. So that day I felt the urge to confess to him through chat as I can’t wait for another day since he won’t listen so I confessed to him through text and he was online for a few moments after I sent my text through an app called telegram (it felt a lot safer to me than whatsapp, messenger) but he doesn’t read them, until the next day (the day where I planned to confess) my friends asked him to read the chat but he ignored all of us, even when I asked to have a talk with him, he walked away without looking back. When I checked my phone later, he deleted all the confession messages I sent him (that kind of feature exists there on telegram) and he blocked my friend thinking she’s gonna talk about me to him. I was so upset, confused and sad. My mom asked me why I’m being like this (sad and moody) and I just burst into tears when I hugged her.
Now I don’t know what to do, I’m gonna meet him again soon but I can’t bear getting ignored for doing nothing. Please help me 😭
Now I don’t know what to do, I’m gonna meet him again soon but I can’t bear getting ignored for doing nothing. Please help me 😭
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Edit: As he talked to my friends that day he said that I was pretty, smart and sweet… and he stopped there.
No harsh comments and opinions please because I rather hear a true “I don’t like you” from him instead of all this treatment. I’m just confused whether I should give up or try to do something that could help because after all, he’s a friend of mine, I hear his voice laughing every time and I can’t just ignore him like what most people say. That’ll just hurt me.
No harsh comments and opinions please because I rather hear a true “I don’t like you” from him instead of all this treatment. I’m just confused whether I should give up or try to do something that could help because after all, he’s a friend of mine, I hear his voice laughing every time and I can’t just ignore him like what most people say. That’ll just hurt me.
