Why do I attract hipster men?

[Anonymous]

I just downloaded a dating app, and if anything I think I look at like the typical “popular girl”, or a least a slightly basic one, not an “alt/indie” girl. Why are these hipsters contacting me? See pics of me below. Also, heart photo was sent to a friend... it’s not on my profile. It’s mainly just to show my hair.

[bowenw]

You look perfectly normal, sexy, and attractive. The hipsters may simply think they have nothing to lose by contacting you. Consider putting things in your profile description to ward them off, such as you hate: craft beer, beards, scarves, kale, plaid, indie music/films, latté foam art, vinyl records, and drinks in a mason jar. Also mention you love large shopping malls, meat, real dairy products, top 40, and fast food.

[Asker]

I’m glad I look normal and attractive!

[bowenw]

👍👍

[Asker]

But really though, I’m glad I don’t look like a hipster

[bowenw]

Nothing to worry about there.

[9Livezzz]

Because you go for those type of guys or it is the way that you present yourself that attracts those type of guys. Id lay you money there are a lot of guys who dont consider themselves hipsters that are attracted to you. Based off of what I can see in your pictures you look attractive to me and I dont consider myself hipster... At the same time, I dont even know what a hipster looks like so maybe I am a hipster and I dont even know it myself!

[Anonymous]

They find you attractive. At least you don't attract obese dudes, I was stick thin growing up and the only guys who liked me were obese. I'm still thin and I have a thin boyfriend now, you'll find someone just hang in there and keep looking.

[Xyglo27]

You look like a hippie.

Change your dressing sense & then you'll start attracting different men.

[Asker]

Do I really look like a hippie?

[Xyglo27]

Yes. You're a redhead & then you're wearing these loose hippie style clothes, so yeah you do look like one 😅😅

[Luvme66]

You need a change of your dressing sense... it's really true... the sharper you look.. the sharper people you attract!

[Asker]

Do I look weird?

[Luvme66]

Not weird... but the clothes you wear say a lot about you right!

[Asker]

What do they say about me?

[FilmGuy93]

Both of those dresses are pretty BoHo and Indie... What kind of music do you listen to?

[Asker]

Oh I love that boho look. Honestly, I like rap a lot but I do like older rock. I like Motörhead a lot

[FilmGuy93]

Well, that’s a pretty hipster look. Your music choices aren’t very hipster, but your clothing style sure is!

[slatyb]

They find you attractive. You don’t have to answer them.

[Anonymous]

because you're very flat chested the red hair is way to bright your skin is to pale white and the clothes you wear are hipster type clothes.

[Asker]

I am a c cup

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

the heart wants what the heart wants

Why is that such a problem?

[chris_987]

I think the answer obvious

[Asker]

Do I look like a hipster?

[chris_987]

You look like who hipsters go for, that thin vegan look

[Asker]

I mean, I live in Los Angeles. I am thin but so are many women.

[chris_987]

So what’s you complaint? Do you want to attract a different kind of man? Then move cause California is mostly hipster men

[Asker]

No, I just thought it was interesting. I know some women who attract nerds, some attractive lawyers, single dad, etc. I just think I in any way look alt.

[chris_987]

Yeah men go after what they have the best chances with, a nerd may go after a girl who is into comics and video games, a surfer dude might go after a girls who is one the beach all day like him. A hipster is really spiritual and into yoga and veganism so at first glance you looks like you might be into that stuff. So they feel like they would have the most success with you.

[Asker]

Yeah, but trade I’m a fashion designer so I think that’s sort of a bougie. I’m actually pretty into fitness but I couldn’t work out for a year since our gyms were closed and now I’ve lost some muscle.
Planning on hiring a personal trainer.

[chris_987]

Is sounds like you want to attract more fitness type of men. Then I suggest increasing you weight and wearing yoga pants more often. Or you could just approach the men you attract. Men hardly every turn a woman down.

[Luckycharms12]

Guess they think think you look hipster

[Asker]

Do you think I do?

[Luckycharms12]

Think you have rock chick look to you

[Asker]

I look like a rock chick?

[Luckycharms12]

Quirky style

[In_Trance]

The law of attraction says like attracts like

[Asker]

But do I look alternative?

[In_Trance]

Yes you do

[Asker]

I thought I looked well dressed?

[In_Trance]

Absolutely you are. But the prints you pick are not considered traditional

[Anonymous]

You probably give off a weird oddball vibe

[WowwGirl]

Way you dress

[blondfrog]

i have no idea.