What is up with men who keep asking us girls if we are tran?
Now please if I looked like one I’d have no issue but I get so f*** offended. This is the worst thing you can say to me.
Now a little background: I look great I have a lot of fans on every social platform, many guys approach me also in person when they see me and tell me how pretty I am, I also have good confidence.
This weird men add me acting interested in me, even ask me for a number then say “please don’t be offended but are you trans”. I just block them immediately. It’s not something that happens everyday but there are some freaks who ask that from time to time and it really bothers me. Does anyone else experience this too?
I have mentioned in my previous post how I am disappointed at men keep sending nudes and acting provocative, but calling someone trans is on another level.
Like WHY TF DO U ADD ME TO TELL ME IM TRANS JUST LEAVE ME ALONE? But yeah it’s still fairly rare to get this comment but it happens sometimes and it pisses me off.
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Thanks to everyone who participated! This stupid question is just one in a million so I wouldn't say that it means anything. To be honest I just think this guy had issues with himself so he had to put anger on someone else and I get really triggered because I've never been called ugly and also don't think that is the case here. I think he is just mad because the person he wants doesn't want him back or he can never score with any girl.. Hope he dies virgin and anyone like him. Have a great day!
Because so many women have trick us and when we found out that you aren't a women but a dude. We get upset because you didn't tell us. Sorry that so many people do this to you but yea it happens
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Its not so common to be trans.. sso I don't know it’s rade
Lmao, "fans" on social media. Let's not kid ourselves, you've got simps with little self-respect.
If they're asking if you're trans then you're probably giving off tranny vibes. Many trans-women (aka men) go to great lengths to appear like women and actually look a lot better than a lot of women and given society's new embrace for the trans movement, it's going to become more and more prevalent. So they're just double checking that you're not a tranny because they may have been duped before.
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I don’t have any masculine feature, so don’t judge before seeing my pics
Feminist fought to bring trannies into the forefront and spread propaganda that they are real girls. Women fought for them to be in beauty contests, play in women’s sports, use women’s bathrooms, weird pronounce shit, etc. So now you have to prove you’re a real woman, not a tranny. You reap what you sow. Fight back to reestablish cultural norms and fix what you broke.
Two reasons come to mind: 1. They could just want to honestly verify that you're family-making material, because some transpersons will actively hide or lie about their nature to continue a relationship. Some of those makeup artists are pretty clever and talented people. 2. They could be trying to see where your stance on wokeness is, or give a subtle push against it. (After all, if you truly see transwomen as regular women, confusing the two should elicit no offense, right? And yet you do, and thus know there is a difference despite the overwhelming propaganda push otherwise.)
I personally find the LGBT movement extremely repellant and grotesque, and I'll die on that hill, shifting social opinion be damned.
Since I have seen all the trans trying to pass off being fairly convincing women with filters and photoshopping some stuff. Then you meet up and you feel duped? That's pretty common these days.
I really feel sorry for the younger generation. Many high school kids are all going to non-binary. It's freaky.
I don't see any issue asking if you set off someone's Spidey senses. Trans sometimes go overboard with acting like a woman. They seek out a lot of validation like you do, confirming your large following on social media.
I think it's because a lot of people are coming out as trans for attention, and because it seems that a lot of trans (genuine or not) seem to enjoy baiting straight men. The vast majority of straight men are interested ONLY in women who were born female and remain female, but many trans women are not honest about who they are, especially recently.
Yes, there are straight men who are fine being with trans women, and I think that's great - I'm all for everyone being able to find happiness - but such men are the exception, and I think it's well known that most men do NOT feel that way, and in fact most straight men feel deeply betrayed by trans women trying to pass themselves off as genetic women. Thus, men today want to ask, and make sure they know who they are dealing with, before they allow any attachment to a woman.
Well I think everyone has the right to have their preference as long as they aren't rude about it.
That being said i don't want to date a woman with a penis or a woman that has had a penis in the past. I'm not attracted to that and some people get offended when you point that out. I find it a little ironic that we can be labeled a transhpobe/bigot if we don't want to date a trans person but gays and lesbians spent years claiming that sexual orientation is not a personal choice and they can't just date the sex they're supposed to.
So the reason a lot of guys ask you if you are trans is because there are a lot of transgendered women out there that you can not tell that they are trans. Like hey look really feminine. So if I was dating someone and they didn't tell me they had a penis I would be really upset. It's my right to know who I'm being intimate with.
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I have done modeling for years. My mother was the childhood friend of a supermodel and tried it out through university. And I still do it for some friends who are photographers.
I am damn attractive. Fair skin, grey eyes, curly reddish hair. But the difference is, is I don't act or dress like a tramp. And I have never once been approached by men asking if I am trans. Not once. Despite the fact that for years I suffered upper respiratory infections and damaged my vocal cords so my voice is deeper than normal for a woman.
Because transgendered people will leave that crucial piece of information out of their bio. You can't control someone's perception of you, if you're that offended that you won't even look past a simple question its safe to say you're not cut out for dating. They could be testing you on how you communicate and you being predisposed to anger would make any guy turned off. Doesn't matter what the question is, its how you communicate. If a woman asks me if im gay or trans i would just say no and move on. The question you should ask yourself is, "why does it upset me so?"
I'm not sure what one is supposed to look like? There are lots of women with masculine features. There are a lot of men with feminine features. There are a lot of transgendered people who can pass flawlessly and there are some who struggle.
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True but there's nothing about me masculine its just they prolly have low self esteem
I guess because there's a lot of trannies that pass themselves off as women hiding the fact they're trans until after you've got interested in them. Only just last week i met a "woman" on a hook up site, who only after we agreed to meet up told me that she was a real woman with a real feminine penis, that thought it was justified to categorize on her profile that she was female, since "gender is a social construct", and all that. In future it's definitely gonna make me think twice if someone who claims to be a woman actually is.
Look, I'll apologize on behalf of the whole of manmanity. It's tough for men too. a lot more trans people are out there than ever and more everyday. They're taking hormones from childhood and even getting vocal chord surgery and plastic surgery. Don't take it as an insult on your looks because many trans are adequately passing these days and its confusing for everyone, especially them. I dont match on tinder a lot but more than half are trans or gay men with a female account phishing me. I picked straight on my preferences but they don't care. Just cause a guy asks dosen't mena he's not a good guy, he might even be better than a guy that doesn't ask. Maybe chill a little bit almost everyone is tired of it. Dont let it keep you from meeting a good guy.
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We're gonna see this more and more, unfortunately. I predicted it before it ever started. Most men don't want trans women, and that situation is becoming more prevalent. Your reaction was also predictable (women being offended at the question because it suggests they have somewhat of a non-feminine look). So the next step in the evolution of this behavior is for men to not ask, but immediately reject any women who aren't ultra-feminine (and NATURALLY ultra-feminine, in many cases). Narrow-ish hips, wide-ish shoulders, tall, fake breasts, any hint of a thicker browbone or square jawline will present as a "risk", and a lot of men aren't gonna take the chance. It's just the nature of people.
Hey I could understand your frustration but hey some dudes have paranoia and want to make sure because some gays dress like woman and grow their hair and until you talk to them sometimes or get a better picture of them it might be hard to tell if they are trans or not and if they are it’s a guys worst nightmare. For a guy trans people are annoying as fuck and every guy hates them even trans guys hate other trans guys, they are like the worst of the worst. So ya don’t be frustrated some dudes have a legit paranoia cause trust me I hate trans and every guy also does and lol like I said even trans people hate other trans they are annoying. Look at how annoying they are, they haven’t even messaged you but still are annoying you indirectly lol. Your frustration should be dorecyed towards trans not straight Kats lol.
It's because now days trans people are so hard to tell if they are trans. The doctors are really good at what they do now days. Don't take offense to it. They just want to make sure that you're actually a girl and not a guy acting like a girl.
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Well still there's only few trans here and there...
It's not you It's the fact that doctors are doing amazing jobs turning dudes into trans. You see someone and would swear it's a woman until you figure out it's not.
I have never asked anyone if they are trans but I am beginning to sense a fear from men these days that they'll fall in love and marry someone who used to be a man... a super huge fear or phobia. Glad I'm long since married and not on the market, nothing for me to worry about.
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I think it’s because there are more now than ever and look so good that it’s hard to tell but guys don’t want to get involved with one so now they are starting to ask because there are so many lately on that social media and dating apps
Not sure about that, but some guys like a female that have dick. I have encounter with one, didn't realize it was a girl that have a dick. while pulling her pants down, what sprang out was a dick, I grab her dick and start sucking on the cock.
i only ask when the photo could be a male transgendered girl, like a shemale or a ladies boy. Some woman have features in common with trans woman. I dont ask it to insult them
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