What happens when a guy is obsessed with his crush? Is it good or bad that he's obssesed with her?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Depends on the guy I'd assume. I'd be the obsessed stalker type. But the harmless obsessed stalker type. Worst thing that's going to happen is she's going to break my heart and I'm going to mourn a relationship we never had. Lol

[Asker]

Hmm, but why would you choose to be the obsessed stalker type?

[Opinion Owner]

Easier then facing reality. Better to live a fantasy relationship in your head for a little while then never in reality.

[Asker]

How do you stalk her? And what about her do you usually stalk?

[Opinion Owner]

Stalking makes it sound so sinister lol
Like one girl I liked when I was younger I knew where she worked. So I went there for lunch every day for 2 weeks. I just wanted to see her. Nothing creepier than that.

[Asker]

How do you actually feel when you see her?

[Opinion Owner]

Like I liked seeing her. I wasn't hiding. But I wondered if she ever got how I thought about her. At some point I did ask her out.

[Iron_Man]

It’s not good to let it go that far to be obsessed with another human being that’s not your girl

[Asker]

What are some signs that a guy is obssesed with his crush?

[Iron_Man]

He’s always there around every corner checking you out and he gives you deep Long stares. He’s always butting
into your conversation and trying to make himself the center of attention. And he’s always trying to talk to you on the side. Plus if you catch him following you out in traffic while driving. Or you see his car driving around your house. He calls you and text you a lot

[Asker]

How about if he checks the girl's profile several times daily?

[Asker]

Or even memorise the timing she goes online?

[Iron_Man]

Yes that to

[In_Trance]

It could be good or bad depending on your perspective

[Asker]

I see... What are some signs that the guy is obsseed with his crush?

[In_Trance]

I don't know... depends on the guy I guess

[Anonymous]

It could be either. It depends on him and how he acts.

[Ryfyle]

That he's fucking weak and a liability.

[jasco]

It's usually bad

[Asker]

Why would you say its bad?

[jasco]

No one like likes being bothered all the time, some people may see it as creepy

[Asker]

What are some signs that he's obsessed?

[jasco]

Stalking, looks at her a lot, tends to only care about her