Question for you guys?

[Anonymous]

Do you guys turn off or feel bored from women who sometimes don't be online on social media for days or weeks?

[MTC29]

I hate texting, and I'm not a fan of social media other that to see the new photos my sister posts of my niece and nephew. My SO and I live an hour away from each other, which means that we can't be together every day. Although or ages are close, I'm retired (government job) but she is still working. I don't bother her during the day, and at night I generally wait for her to contact me. If I don't hear from her for a couple of days it means that she's busy working on a new presentation or some other assignment. The fact that it is now possible to communicate easily doesn't mean it has to be constant.

[Ditto626]

No I would prefer that. I use apps like GaG, whisper, and reddit a lot but I don't post much on typical social media on Instagram or Facebook a lot because I only use it to keep up with people from time to time. Also if I was in a relationship with someone I wouldn't want everything we do together to be posted on theirs. Just big updates like we're getting married, having kids, etc.

[Jamie05rhs]

Well, if that's my only contact with her, I will likely forget about her. So I don't really care.

[Asker]

What about if you have her number?

[Jamie05rhs]

Then I also would have no reason to care.

[Wise4myage]

I've felt turned off and sad before when women disappear on me that I was chatting with for awhile.

[spartan55]

You act like that's a bad thing... which is the problem.

[Asker]

Could you please explain why you think it's a problem?

[spartan55]

That you (and women in general) place far too much value on social media) it is a false reality.

[AmeerX]

I kind of do. I feel if my friends do it and I feel left out and I get clingy sometimes.

[abc3643]

No. That's a woman I respect.

[Asker]

Even if the only way you can keep in touch with her is on social media?

[abc3643]

This is why God gave us the United State Postal Service and the telephone.

[princeofromance]

Yes, I hate that. It makes me wonder if she is really interested in me. I think maybe she is using me as the third wheel.

[NathanDavis]

I don't even have social medias

[JesseJayNeak]

I gave on FB and Insta months ago. I'd rather see her in the flesh