Guys, Is it possible to get rid of the “Creep” label?

[Anonymous]

Once a women brands me as a creep, is it possible to ever change her mind? Does time do the trick? Does talking to her do it? Or am I doomed to live as a creep forever in their mind?

I have recently found out that my crush finds me creepy, and I was wondering whether I could ever change her mind or has this creep label been permanently been branded onto my back?

Its quite painful to find out that she thought about me like that especially when I thought she was interested in me.

[The_Maphio]

You need to talk to her again to clear your name. And not be a creep this other time.
Thus it's really hard to remove a label, especially these last decades. Best of lucks.

[Asker]

Thank you

[Browneye57]

An obvious display of wealth will usually cure that.
But failing that, uh no. She gots no vag-tingles for you - move on.

[Asker]

Thank you very much. Looks like wealth is the only cure to all my problems

[Browneye57]

Well yes, it pretty much cures everything. LOL
And while money may not be everything, it's sure far ahead of what's in second place.
Same can be said for sex.
Money and sex are what makes the world go 'round. :)

[boggboss]

Why does she think u are 1 also how did u confused the two how she felt

[Asker]

You know the usual shy girl act. I am quite outgoing, and have a big group of friends. A lot of my friends told me that she is always staring at me when I’m not looking. WhenI catch her staring at me, we have that brief moment where our eyes meet like in the movies. She gets all flustered, and turns away quickly.

She has also been going to areas outside of where I usually hang out. When I heard that she thinks I’m a creep I assumed she was just hiding her feelings.

When I actually went up to speak to her, she didn’t show any signs of “creep stay away from me” she looked me right in the eye with all her body language showing that she was paying me attention.

All the signs pointed to her being interested in me, and 1 of her best friends used to have a crush on me so I was guessing that she was hiding her feelings for me

[Asker]

It’s hard for me to accept but, I’ll take this L

[Anonymous]

why are you creepy, and the fact that you still pursue a woman who called you creepy is well... creepy.

[Asker]

It was due some misunderstandings. Very long story but, I bumped into her outside of campus a few times by coincidence, and from that she thought I was stalking her.

other things like me having a resting bitch face- every single time I thought the world stopped when our eyes met was actually just me imagining things- she thinks that I hate her because I look at her with an “angry” expression.

I tried to sort things out but, she called her friend. I was uncomfortable with her friend around so I just left it at that, and never spoke to her again. I was asking this question because I was wondering whether this curse could be cured without me having to say anything.

Maybe when I see her sometime in the future (2 years+) I could explain things to her

[Opinion Owner]

Best to move on, it’s the non creepy thing to do

[Asker]

Yeah that’s the best thing to do. I’ll just learn from this mistake

[OkayKayley]

Depends on the women and what you did to make her think you're a creep...