How do you tell a guy you overreacted due to your period? (Page 2)
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Apologize and tell him you will find a way to communicate better. A period is no excuse for poor treatment. If you can act professional at work during your period, it means you still have some measure of self-control and should use it. My girlfriend warns me ahead of time/right then when that time starts. I will forgive certain things because I realize how hard it can be, but I do not let her just get away with everything. Beyond a certain point, it just becomes an excuse.
What is the hang up with having a period? That is life.
Easy for you to say
You can tell him you were dealing with some personal stuff and were having a bad day, and apologize for it.
I'm not sure why you wouldn't tell it was due to your period, it's a natural thing. It will help him understand immediately instead of thinking you're emotionally unstable.
That's how my husband is well now after 11 years he just knows lol
You can just say that you had a bad day, and weren't yourself. Everybody has bad days. That is not to excuse being mean, just a bad day. by the way I'm not saying that you were mean, as you gave no indication of that.
The same way you explained it to us. If he's a decent sort of fellow, who respects you and keeps an open mind, he shouldn't give you any grief over it.
If he does, show him the door.
If the ONLY reason he "likes" you, is to copulate, DO YOU REALLY NEED HIM?
As for the ignoring, is 'banging' all you too have in common. NO other conversation in common?
I think you should be honest about your reasons and hopefully he will understand. I won't let it go if someone who snaps at me because of a "bad day" because we all have those, but being overly sensitive is something I can be more understanding of.
You can just tell him you felt emotional and apologize. No need to mention your period.
I did and then he kept asking why I was emotional. I didn’t realise it would make him mad honestly
Would he be shocked if you told him it was related to your monthly cycle? I’m sure he knows about periods.
Probably not but i feel like it’s awkward cause we haven’t been talking for long lol
Hmm... well, you could just say that you were not feeling well at the time and leave it at that.
Good idea
I don't think you should cause it'll freak him out even more.
Unless he is a child... lol. he should know about periods and PMS. Don't hide it it's natural. Big of you to avoid him for the day so u didn't freak out. He should learn about your "flare ups!" Lol right from start cause it's a looong ride. Good to get used to early
Be honest. Just tell him that you did not want to subject him to your your mood during your period. Most guys will understand.
Use this s as a learning experience, and next time don't let your emotions get the better of you.. Your period is not an excuse.
aw someone can't handle the truth and downvoted me how cute.
Easy for you to say until you bleed out of your vagina, feel an ache between your legs, a massive headache, cramps, fat, dark under eyes, and MAD just very MAD
I have been with my wife for 8 years... She has never, not once allowed it to get to her. We are human, We have the power to express which emotions we wish, to say otherwise is to admit you're not sentient and incapable of controlling your self.
Sounds like every guy after a month of no sex, We get angry, emotional, our balls ache, we want to fight every male in sight and want to have sex with every female in sight. We manage to control our emotions.
@johnsmithjs exactly
Same thing happened to me. I told him ahead of time when it was coming and every time I became snappy he told me to take a break before talking to him again. Just let him know you’re sorry and why you overreacted.
Agree 100 %
There's a little song that Chef wrote about the menstrual cycle. Hopefully that will clear everything up.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/8T2-aDwp78sI usually joke about everything. So I would say it's shark week.🦈
It's a natural thing.
Honestly, if I was him, you being on your period isn't an excuse. So don't even start with that and just apologize seriously.
Easy for you to say cause you haven’t had a period before... the hormonal imbalance genuinely makes u think differently
Exaggerate that story, "not my fault I raped you, I was drunk, it makes you think differently". Nope, doesn't hold. You are responsible for your actions.
:/ :/
It's a crude comparison, but while the act is a lot more serious, the logic is the same. Just apologize.
Okay I apologised and said I was feeling down today... I took your advice lol
Hope it works out 😊😊
Thank you!
Wait, What? So you admit that this is a real thing?
Man hating feminists get hysterical when we dare ask if women are on their period when they are act6ing like a bitch
Yes it’s a real thing. When I finish my period I look back and think who was that
Then why are women attacking guys for asking a women if they are on their period. If it is a real thing then it seems like a valid question
Because it makes us even more mad!!!
And more than half the time you guys are NOT asking out of concern... lost of the time asking to be a dick... lol which really pisses the hyper sensitive female off. PMS is a dance you say no to and sit down... don't spin it around and never dip...😂
*lots...*
@Jazquee Why dont you calm the fuck down.
Do you think that we enjoy how we are being treated? I think that gives us the right to ask that question some of the time.
Oh buddy... it u that needs to calm down. If you read what I wrote properly!!! You would have seen I was mostly insulting females there.. but ok...🙌👍
Nothing gives anyone the "right" to ask anyone why being as bitch though... just as a side note.
@Jazquee I don't understand. If someone is acting like a bitch, are you saying that no one has the right to call them on that
Not in the way you are implying no... if u knew about human reactions and emotions u would understand. If you ask politely "you seem a bit off... everything ok?" Rather than "why are u being a bitch."
You will get a gentler answer everytime
@Jazquee if i am being mistreated then I am not in the mood to ask her anything gently. This is classic toxic feminist behavior.
You mistreat men and then blame them for objecting and not asking nicely why you are mistreating them. I have to say that I can now see the point that some angry men are making about women. You're not wort the trouble and feminism seems to be a hate group
Your just missing everything and taking this way to personally. I am the farthest thing from a feminist.. bahhahaha
Whatcha think @loves2learn. Is it just me or is this guy a little lost?
One bad deed does NOT deserve another. Just because she was mean to you does not give you the right in turn to be mean to her. That will never defuse any situation. I am not dismissing the fact that you have been mistreated by women I am trying to help you see how to defuse the situation by moving on.
He’s gonna dig himself into a hole every time with that attitude, @Jazquee.
@loves2learn Have a good night ladies, this is an unproductive conversation
Nighty night sir!
Tell him. Guys aren't as fragile about that as you think. If he still ignores you, move on from the little princess
You basically said it in the title. Just explain it and if you said something you’re sorry about then say sorry
Sorry yesterday was not my best day. Wish I could talk more to you.