How do you tell a guy you overreacted due to your period?

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I obviously don’t want to tell the guy I’m on my period cause I hardly know him. But I may have ignored him for an entire day because I suddenly thought he doesn’t like me... I was feeling extra emotional due to my period and now he’s mad I ignored him.

What do I do?

Jazquee · Accepted Answer

I am a very honest person already. But I love to have fun. So I would just say something like..."l'm sorry fresh batch of bitch the other day... but it's leveled out now ".
If I man can't handle to ride the dragon with you a few days of the month... ain't worth your time. Lol

little_rose · Accepted Answer

"I'm really sorry. I didn't mean to ignore you. I have been acting weird lately. It has nothing to do with my feelings for you. Please don't take it wrong. I'm just not my usual self right now."

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I don't know! That's a really good question!

On the one hand, men already are skeptical of women's ability to control their emotions. (That's why many of us are wary of getting married and living with one woman forever.).

But we've been told that it's because you have periods. That's the official "excuse."

So we reluctantly accept that with the caveat that periods are temporary and only happen once a month. So, 12 periods a year. 720-840 periods during the entire marriage. (I GUESS that's manageable?)

But we still would like to know when the periods are, so we can know when to expect "Mrs. Hyde." Being prepared for such things is very helpful.

As far as how much to divulge during the dating phase -- since you do want to protect your own privacy -- I'd have to say just use your best judgement. But do remember that you're trying to hook the guy. So if you treat him like shit just because you're on your period then that's not really a good start to the relationship; and it very likely might push him away.

The_Maphio · Answer

A dude recognizes when it's that time of the month, after a few times that they go through it with you.
Every woman reacts in a different way to the hormonal influx and directly correlated hemorrage, and men have been tolerant for ages, thing that won't change in the modern days.
Depending on the symptoms that the woman in exam shows, it might be a good idea to leave her be completely, stay close to her if she gets weak or be particularly supportive if they get depressed.

Bella9191 · Answer

You dont. I used to say stuff like this when I was younger. I used to get pms bad.
but as I reduced my stress levels, ate better, balanced my life better my pms symptoms basically disppeared.
your period isn’t an excuse for emotional outbursts. It means your life is stressing you out.
you just apologise saying sorry I was a bit too much the other day, just feel a bit stressed out lately.

oldasIfeel22 · Answer

Just tell him you over reacted and don’t give him the reason why. Women can get emotional anytime (period or not) from my experience. He will likely take it well if you own up to not being fair earlier.

But I can’t help but ask. Have you ever told a guy you overreacted (said or did wrong) when you were NOT interested in him?

MyNameJames · Answer

Well you could lie and just make up something that would have taken all your attention that day, however, lying isn't the greatest thing to do with a potential partner. I know it's a tad personal to talk as about that but if I were him, I'd be content with the truth, I understand it's just part of life for women and it's not something you meant to do (as in if you had the choice of ignoring what was in your head, you likely would have). If you do it start dating this guy this won't be a subject you can just avoid if it keeps happening so I suggest transparency, no matter how uncomfortable it is, it shows him a level of openness and trust and let's you figure out how he will handle this type of stuff in the future.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

"How do you tell a guy you overreacted due to your period?" Let me rephrase that question from a guy's perspective. "How do you tell a guy that you have an ironclad excuse for your behavior and you shouldn't be held responsible for your actions?"
And. . . it's a gender specific excuse that, since he is not a female, he is not allowed to question?"

"I obviously don’t want to tell the guy I’m on my period cause I hardly know him." So don't tell him.

"But I may have ignored him for an entire day because I suddenly thought he doesn’t like me... I was feeling extra emotional due to my period" You either ignored him for an entire day or you didn't; which is it? Why are you "waffling" on what happened?

"and now he’s mad I ignored him." If he had done this to you, how would you feel?

UnicornU · Answer

Guys will never understand a thing about our period. They know some simple things but they can’t understand the hormones changes, the cramps, mood swings and many other things and even explaining to them will change nothing but some will try to understand what we go through. Anyways about your question try to tell the guy in a good way that you’ve been in some pressure due to something and the whole situation was completely was misunderstanding

Tiptoetamm · Answer

Just admit you were wrong and say I am emotional because I'm on my period and I'll work on it. That is what I have done. I get super bitchy during my period

nathanp97 · Answer

The best apologies are when u don't make excuses. Recognize what u did, say you are sorry and tell him what you are going to do to try and prevent it from happening again.

If you just say sorry I did, blank because of blank it is just a hollow apology that means nothing

Sarahr123 · Answer

I saw a comment from a guy exactly like this about being mad at a girl because she ignored him while on her period or something. Or I think he thought she was on her period.

It is okay if you just met him and tell him you were on your period because it is a natural thing that happens to women and a very good thing because without it new life cannot be created. You just tell him the truth plain and simple. He is old enough to understand the rest.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Well tell me what do you really want when you're on your period? Space or attention? When you get hurt over some things we thought it wouldn't hurt you, his solution is to actually give you space. Sure you can tell him that you're on your period and you can try to understand but you can also try to understand that men are more into solutions than emotional support.

VanillaSalt · Answer

Don’t make excuses... what because your suffering you have the out from making others suffer? Women shouldn’t hide behind their periods for why they act like bitches... instead try and not be a bitch because if a man acts on his hornyness i guarantee there would be an issue.

Mofunfour20 · Answer

Apologize. Everyone's been in a unsavory mood. It would benefit you to convey that fact to him because we all have to make adjustments but if he doesn't know then neither of you will move forward with the relationship. If you think he will assume that you are irrational when on you're menstruating then you probably should work on using logic when thinking instead of reacting with your emotions. If you're unprepared to work on yourself how would the relationship ever work? Its all work

jspl90 · Answer

well just tell him you had your period and was feeling something something🤔or if you really dont want to say that then say that you were not feeling okay so you didn't feel like talking at all but honesty is best policy and he is a adult right? he does know you women have periods and sometimes they hurt sometimes you feel cranky or some shit🤣well he should, sure bodily functions can be embarassing or funny when you are a kid

chriscdi · Answer

Just tell him the truth, us men Dont know what it's like to have a period so if he is considerate then he would see over it, like I said, men don't know what it's like so a girls behavior throughout that time isn't really a topic you can argue about, unless he doesn't believe you or he has some kind of problem or he is just a dick, just be honest and take your chances I'd say

Anonymous · Answer

Just say sorry he dont need to know about ur period i mean u barely know him that would be weird to use as excuse ur period. And if we girls hate that some guys ask us if we are on our period every time we are being moody then we should stop using that as excuse to being moody.

AlexanderAnttila · Answer

Do you not want to use those words specifically or not let him know about it at all? If you do explain that it was that time of the month he'll most likely understand a little better why you ignored him. But if you try to offer an explanation and beat around the bush regarding your period then you'll just sound like you're making excuses. Most guys accept that a woman's period does make them very emotional. You're best off coming clean!

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Just tell him like this, Hey I'm sorry I was sick and my emotions were all over the map and I take full responsibility and I just wish we could please talk.. If he refuses to accept well wait to see if he comes around, I have been around enough girls I know what to expect when they are on their time of the month

Friendlybro79 · Answer

I say don't blame your period just apologize for overreacting. Blaming your period is an excuse. That said, it might be a valid one, but I would rather hear a straightforward apology. There is no reason to make an excuse valid or not. Just apologize. Now you don't need to feel awkward and you still apologized.

DaveToo · Answer

"I'm so sorry I over-reacted. I'm on my period. I know, it's no excuse but that's what happened. Forgive me?"

Anonymous · Answer

Apologize and tell him you will find a way to communicate better. A period is no excuse for poor treatment. If you can act professional at work during your period, it means you still have some measure of self-control and should use it. My girlfriend warns me ahead of time/right then when that time starts. I will forgive certain things because I realize how hard it can be, but I do not let her just get away with everything. Beyond a certain point, it just becomes an excuse.

blank_expression · Answer

What is the hang up with having a period? That is life.

aWes0MeNeSs · Answer

You can tell him you were dealing with some personal stuff and were having a bad day, and apologize for it.

TwistedTube · Answer

I'm not sure why you wouldn't tell it was due to your period, it's a natural thing. It will help him understand immediately instead of thinking you're emotionally unstable.

kkirk4442 · Answer

You can just say that you had a bad day, and weren't yourself. Everybody has bad days. That is not to excuse being mean, just a bad day. by the way I'm not saying that you were mean, as you gave no indication of that.

Citizenkirk · Answer

The same way you explained it to us. If he's a decent sort of fellow, who respects you and keeps an open mind, he shouldn't give you any grief over it.   If he does, show him the door.

TheorionMage · Answer

If the ONLY reason he "likes" you, is to copulate, DO YOU REALLY NEED HIM? As for the ignoring, is 'banging' all you too have in common. NO other conversation in common?

pleasestopthis · Answer

I think you should be honest about your reasons and hopefully he will understand. I won't let it go if someone who snaps at me because of a "bad day" because we all have those, but being overly sensitive is something I can be more understanding of.

RealMarek · Answer

You can just tell him you felt emotional and apologize. No need to mention your period.

Tamera952 · Answer

I don't think you should cause it'll freak him out even more.

Leavesbound · Answer

Be honest. Just tell him that you did not want to subject him to your your mood during your period. Most guys will understand.

Anonymous · Answer

Use this s as a learning experience, and next time don't let your emotions get the better of you.. Your period is not an excuse.

Anonymous · Answer

Same thing happened to me. I told him ahead of time when it was coming and every time I became snappy he told me to take a break before talking to him again. Just let him know you’re sorry and why you overreacted.

John_Doesnt · Answer

There's a little song that Chef wrote about the menstrual cycle. Hopefully that will clear everything up.

Siren777 · Answer

I usually joke about everything. So I would say it's shark week.🦈 It's a natural thing.

TallAnon · Answer

Honestly, if I was him, you being on your period isn't an excuse. So don't even start with that and just apologize seriously.

Anonymous · Answer

Wait, What? So you admit that this is a real thing? Man hating feminists get hysterical when we dare ask if women are on their period when they are act6ing like a bitch

CentralPerk77 · Answer

You basically said it in the title. Just explain it and if you said something you’re sorry about then say sorry

Finchie40 · Answer

Just straight up tell him you are sorry and that it was Shark Week , He should understand

cush_ebo · Answer

Sorry yesterday was not my best day. Wish I could talk more to you.

Anonymous · Answer

I'd just apologize and tell him you really weren't feeling well. You should've said something, but you're sorry and next time you will. And if you hardly know him, he might be the one overreacting now?

RingOfFire · Answer

Don't blame it on your period. Just tell him you weren't feeling well that day and apologize for acting in a way you didn't intend to. He will figure it out.

David_Kek · Answer

Send him this.

Pyrofox · Answer

TBH, just tell him guy appreciate the being humble and straight to the point.

DJB72 · Answer

Tell him. Guys aren't as fragile about that as you think. If he still ignores you, move on from the little princess

Anonymous · Answer

Oh my god! Just straight up TELL HIM that. Believe me--it would be a refreshing change from the constant stream of b. s. most guys are subjected to where we all have to pretend that no girl could have EVER overreacted due to her period.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

Tell him you were having a bad day due to sleep issues or stress in your social or work life

Twalli · Answer

Tell him why you ignored him. Any premenopausal women has periods. Us guys don't typically think of it because we don't. Therefore without being forewarned we won't knoe.

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

Why not tell him you’re on your Period? Do you seriously want to twist yourself into a pretzel over something this frivolous? If he can’t accept it, get rid of him.

Anonymous · Answer

Men aren't so unaware. I know a girl who s really nice to me about five days a month. We're aware its your period.

AhmetMiraç · Answer

It's normal for you to act like this because you have your period. he must anticipate it. Everyone knows that menstruating women behave differently than normal. If you want, I'm like this because you have your period and tell her

zoe2187 · Answer

I would be honest. Tell him you’re on your period your emotions are all over. He should understand.

XavierSteele · Answer

We all have bad days, be honest because nothing brings people closer than having something in common.

DWornock · Answer

Say, "I apologize for how I acted. It seems I get bitchy a couple of days each month.

Jxrdyn_13 · Answer

Say you let your emotions get the best of you because you're quite sensitive atm because of personal issues

Anonymous · Answer

Apologise and remember in the future a period is no excuse.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

If you couldn’t be frank with him now, there is no point in trying at a later point.

larry69 · Answer

Just tell him its that time of the month. Men should deal with it.

msc545 · Answer

you say "I overeacted due to my period, and I am sorry"

blingsta · Answer

Have a caring wife, who don't even have to let me know these things. She's always on her best behavior any time of the month. Thank God For her , Otherwise I couldn't deal with it.

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