I am new to the USA. I met a guy on tinder 5 years younger. He texted me and suggested a spontaneous meeting. We switched to watsapp & met in several hours, spent the rest of the day together. It was a cool day, at the end of which we grew more intimated, started flirting and kissing etc. We ended up at his place, and eventually had sex. Tbh, not the best, but it’s always a bit awkward with a new partner. So I didn’t act like a bitch, I promise:) But in the end he realized that the condom slipped off while still inside. his attitude towards me changed. He dressed up and didn’t even look at me. I was sure I would be okay, I told him “I’ll be alright, don’t worry”. He looked stressed. I said It would be better for me to go home. He said I could call an Uber or he could give me a lift. I asked him to give me a ride.
the ride was silent. When we arrived, he kissed me and said “if you want to go out again, please let me know. I am free on Friday and Sunday”. I replied OK smiling.
He didn’t text that night.
Next morning he deleted his Watsapp app.
After 2 days I texted first. I said, hi (his name), it’s (my name), how are you doing? Want to meet someday?
he didn’t reply for 4(!) days and finally replied “Hi, sorry I didn’t respond, I just got nervous. If you’re still interested in hanging out again, let me know”
i was confused. Although I understood the “nervous” part, I didn’t like he didn’t call me by my name and that he keep shifting the decision making on me (“let me know...”). I wasn’t sure whether I’d like to give us another chance, especially after he got so scared after the unprotected sex.
I decided to reply today. After 28 hours to be precise. I said :”Hi (his name), I’d be nice to grab some coffee together someday!”
and... my imessage has never been delivered. I am blocked. I know this for sure, because there are ways you can check.
well, that’s it. I honestly don’t know what to think as this has been my first date and sexual encounter in the USA
the ride was silent. When we arrived, he kissed me and said “if you want to go out again, please let me know. I am free on Friday and Sunday”. I replied OK smiling.
He didn’t text that night.
Next morning he deleted his Watsapp app.
After 2 days I texted first. I said, hi (his name), it’s (my name), how are you doing? Want to meet someday?
he didn’t reply for 4(!) days and finally replied “Hi, sorry I didn’t respond, I just got nervous. If you’re still interested in hanging out again, let me know”
i was confused. Although I understood the “nervous” part, I didn’t like he didn’t call me by my name and that he keep shifting the decision making on me (“let me know...”). I wasn’t sure whether I’d like to give us another chance, especially after he got so scared after the unprotected sex.
I decided to reply today. After 28 hours to be precise. I said :”Hi (his name), I’d be nice to grab some coffee together someday!”
and... my imessage has never been delivered. I am blocked. I know this for sure, because there are ways you can check.
well, that’s it. I honestly don’t know what to think as this has been my first date and sexual encounter in the USA
